There is a saying that " behind every successful man must be a successful lady". Gone are the days when men marry liabilities. Every man's dream now is to hook up with an intelligent and supportive lady. In this short piece I'll be highlighting a couple of qualities which of course I consider to be common and shouldn't really be in the class of this additional values we're talking about.

Firstly, every woman should be able to cook (prepare delicious meal not just cook). She must be so good at it that her man will not want to miss her food. Let's remember that doing so, she will not only help the man to save money but also contribute to the success of having a healthy family.

Bed warming: I believe this is one part that many women will be interested in especially as it's one way they've learnt to ambush their loving husbands when they're not ready to dance to their tunes. And like magic, men will be ready to give anything then...But it's not really special. It's just a normal marital duty. Men needs more than s*x to be fulfilled.
-Child bearing
-Domestic chores and home keeping etc. The list can go on and on. They are all normal and common ways women add to men. However, to go back to the subject of our discussion, most men want special woman and not common ones. Common ways of doing things bring common result. Special women are rare gems. They are not common. They are scarce. When a man finds one, he becomes entirely new. He gains that activation energy to be more productive and break barriers.

So this now brings me to the question: what are the added value that you think a woman should add to a man? Or if u're a lady, outside of these few common qualities/functions highlighted up here, as a special lady, what other values do u add to your man? Please note that men are not thesame. Just as our faces are different, so are our dreams and aspirations, our attitude and character. This may go along way to helping u know where he needs u. Thanks! Your response will be appreciated.

You should start by asking yourself,apart from providing,which you might or might not be providing enough,Which other value do you have to contribute to a woman's life . You have listed more than 5 tedious qualities a woman should embody,but not one for a man . Women are expected to be the answer to every man's prayers,who ll be the answer to theirs?


The qualities you listed are enough,whatever you are still seeking should be found within you.haba!!!women go die for una before una know say dem dey try?


Besides, only a man can tell you what's special about his wife.

byvan: You should start by asking yourself,apart from providing,which you might or might not be providing enough,Which other value do you have to contribute to a woman's life . You have listed more than 5 tedious qualities a woman should embody,but not one for a man . Women are expected to be the answer to every man's prayers,who ll be the answer to theirs?


The qualities you listed are enough,whatever you are still seeking should be found within you.haba!!!women go die for una before una know say dem dey try?


Besides, only a man can tell you what's special about his wife.

Thanks Byvan! I saw this coming...But to be frank, my thought on this whole matter is not to infuriate the women folk. And in case it does, my apologies!

To answer ur question as a guy, making provisions for ones family shouldn't be considered special, rather it is his normal role as a father. Beyond providing for his family, there are other duties but not all men see it as their responsibilities...
1. The family altar at home remains position of the man. Feeding ones family with the word of God almost evry morning will go a long way to shaping the future of that family. As unimportant as u think this might be, it could be the one thing that will change everything for the couple. Perhaps u also help ur guy on spiritual matter.. That's one of the added values! There are quite a number of them. I remember a case of a close Frnd of mine back then during our Youth Service days. She drinks beer/alcoholic drink like anything. By the grace of God I'm not into it but we are frnds.. A bit close and she listens to me. By the virtue of our frndshp she quits drinkin. Some women pay more attention to cosmetics(ephemeral) than to things that will determine their futures. Don't get me wrong, there are also guys like that. But it's about women today. Let's learn frm u.