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How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Agimor(m): 3:24pm On Sep 16, 2013
How can One keep relationship going without much resources or money.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 16, 2013
Go and make money joor! lipsrsealed undecided
Imagine lazy man question
Mtchew.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Agimor(m): 6:22pm On Sep 16, 2013
lorretta u: Go and make money joor! lipsrsealed undecided
Imagine lazy man question
Mtchew.
If only you know the motive behind this topic you say what you just said.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Enegod(m): 8:06pm On Sep 16, 2013
sorry, no hope...spending money must be involved..
Money is a way of keeping score. The
higher the score the more likely you are
to win. Women will tell you it is all about
the love but I will bet that if all your
dates were going to the park and sitting
on a bench and talking you are not going
to find much "love ". Put her butt in a
nice ride and do the town in style with
lots of bling and love will be all over you....espercially in Nigeria
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 16, 2013
You can have that kind of relationship with your mother
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Agimor(m): 12:47pm On Sep 17, 2013
mondi_cheeks: You can have that kind of relationship with your mother
I wouldn't deteriorate myself to the extent of insulting your mother, so pls do not insult mine.after all it is not mandatory that you comment.

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Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 4:35pm On Sep 17, 2013
When you learn that u don't need any woman in your life, then you don't need to waste your hard earned money.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by teejayonline: 4:59pm On Sep 17, 2013
You don't insult people's mother just because you want to advice.... people cannot derive anything from you when you insult them

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Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Abejimico(m): 6:10pm On Sep 17, 2013
lorretta u: Go and make money joor! lipsrsealed undecided
Imagine lazy man question
Mtchew.

Are you forbidden from making money too?
Money monger!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Abejimico(m): 6:13pm On Sep 17, 2013
mondi_cheeks: You can have that kind of relationship with your mother

You indeed lack moral etiquette.
What has mother got to do with this?
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Sep 17, 2013
frankly am terrified by the insults and responses on NL Mond_cheek really that was unnecessary and uncalled for. well for the OP i think i get your question do you mean how to have a relationship that is not materialistic, well money is involved however its with balance, you are not forced to meet unhealthy demands if you can't simply explain after all, its a relationship. i have no problem telling my gf that am broke, and she'd understand and if she doesn't there are lots of guys who's pocket don't get empty so she has a choice. Life is simple bro am assuming you are dating a reasonable person.

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Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by pasqal09: 6:38pm On Sep 17, 2013
OP, haven't u hrd the sayin "money answereth all things".
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 17, 2013
pasqal09: OP, haven't u hrd the sayin "money answereth all things".

it actually does my brother, it actually does
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 6:55pm On Sep 17, 2013
It depends on the kind of girl u are dating. Money must be involved or she flies away like a butterfly cos she will think u aint serious when other guys are readily available for her flaunting cash but it also depends on the type of girl u are dating, either u will have to spend much or less
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Sep 17, 2013
tpacalipse: When you learn that u don't need any woman in your life, then you don't need to waste your hard earned money.
LoL... grin
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by DonPafegs(m): 7:43pm On Sep 17, 2013
It depends on what you mean. Be more clear. Why wont you want to spend money in a relationship you want to keep? First answer this question.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 17, 2013
It depends on d gurl u are dating,itz compulsory 2 spend money in a relationship,bt itz aw much u spend dah matters...lemme use myself as an example if u date me 4 a year,u wudn't spend up 2 165k.is dah 2 much??*winks n run away*
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Sep 17, 2013
I need to ask a question there's nothing wrong spending in a relationship but when did it become a law that spending must be on sided is this a law created by the new generational dating because i don't get it, no matter how hard i look at it, it looks like the Prostitution Model, one party pays in so that the other party can deliver on the other end. i assumed it was mutual thing. anyway i guess am too old to understand this new "Cool Kid dating rule".

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Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 17, 2013

I withdraw my earlier comment.
OP, u can if u both reach a mutual understanding
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by jmoore(m): 12:33am On Sep 18, 2013
If the woman is very lazy then you will spend too much. Therefore avoid lazy women and you won't spend much
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by 190: 12:38am On Sep 18, 2013
Enegod: sorry, no hope...spending money must be involved..
Money is a way of keeping score. The
higher the score the more likely you are
to win. Women will tell you it is all about
the love but I will bet that if all your
dates were going to the park and sitting
on a bench and talking you are not going
to find much "love ". Put her butt in a
nice ride and do the town in style with
lots of bling and love will be all over you....espercially in Nigeria

somebody give this guy 15 strokes of fresh water- cane on his back for saying the truth angry
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by 190: 12:42am On Sep 18, 2013
mondi_cheeks: You can have that kind of relationship with your mother

Mondi you again!! shocked

Look at this small girl writing WASSCE insulting people's parents oh!!

this life don spoil finish grin angry angry
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Nobody: 2:21am On Sep 18, 2013
If you started the relationship with 'much spending' then you are OYO.
If you are dating an extravagant person then you are OYO
But simple answer is this: don't go to places, bring ideas or talk about things that require much spending...if you can avoid it for a while then you are good to go... I guess

tongue tongue

But you really REALLY cannot avoid it you know, you need to SPEND at one point
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Popowaa: 7:58am On Sep 18, 2013
190:

somebody give this guy 15 strokes of fresh water- cane on his back for saying the truth angry
gringringringrin
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by 190: 9:52am On Sep 18, 2013
Popowaa: gringringringrin


angry
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Popowaa: 10:25am On Sep 18, 2013
190:


angry
what is the frown for?U look like a nightmare when u frowngrin
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by 190: 11:15am On Sep 18, 2013
Popowaa: what is the frown for?U look like a nightmare when u frowngrin

be nice, i might be your future boyfriend undecided
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by xcitedjay(m): 11:24am On Sep 18, 2013
mondi_cheeks: You can have that kind of relationship with your mother

Lol! Might be harsh but it's still the truth. The only relationship you can keep without much spending is with your mum. Why because of the love she has for you.

If you get a Lady that loves you to pieces then you might not even spend at all. Till then...get your bottom out there and go make money.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by Monicasque(f): 12:13pm On Sep 18, 2013
i get so bored when ppl think love is all about money.
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by 190: 11:16pm On Sep 18, 2013
^whats it bout then cheesy
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by haitto99(m): 11:20pm On Sep 18, 2013
lorretta u: Go and make money joor! lipsrsealed undecided
Imagine lazy man question
Mtchew.
una too like money!! work for ur own money
Re: How do one keep relationship without much spending. by haitto99(m): 11:25pm On Sep 18, 2013
cant ladies just work for their own cash? to me happiness and peace of mind comes first

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