Ladies, will you be mad if a dude, who you're just friends with, says he is gon' call you back later. . . and he does not? Same goes for the fellas, will you be mad if a girl, who you're just friends with, says she is gon' call you back and she does not?

Also, what does "later" mean to you?

getting mad depends on how close we both are and my possible feelings for her, probably i fancy her deeply

StephenP:

Ladies, will you be mad if a dude, who you're just friends with, says he is gon' call you back later. . . and he does not? Same goes for the fellas, will you be mad if a girl, who you're just friends with, says she is gon' call you back and she does not?

Also, what does "later" mean to you?

I do that to people alot, i know it can be annoying but it happens. if a girl has feelings for u or is fond of you she can get pissed off. some people like it when their friends or lovers stick to their words and are more specific about call back of visiting times. as for me, i never get angry because i am guilty of the same thing

I personally feel that if we're just friends, you have no reason to be mad if I say I'll call you back later and I don't call back the same day. Later doesn't necessarily mean in some hours.

@ StephenP,

Women take this as a serious offence.
Many of these women are bored and very idle. . . . When i tell ma female pals i ma call em back in 5 mins and i dont call. . . .It's WAR.
They actually note the time i made such promises and the the time i actually made the call as if it's the biggest crime in the world.
As for me, who cares . . . . . Not calling me means more time to be by maself n make ma own moves.

nah i aint gona get mad!

Jackal:

@ StephenP,

Women take this as a serious offence.
Many of these women are bored and very idle. . . . When i tell ma female pals i ma call em back in 5 mins and i don't call. . . .It's WAR.
They actually note the time i made such promises and the the time i actually made the call as if it's the biggest crime in the world.
As for me, who cares . . . . . Not calling me means more time to be by maself n make ma own moves.

true yarn jackal

@ caruso
no vex about yesterday, the connection thing just chked out itself.

@topic
it pisses me off 2

tope2000:

@ caruso
no vex about yesterday, the connection thing just chked out itself.

nah no worries babes
itz cool
managed to sort it out yet?!
x

Jackal:

@ StephenP,

Women take this as a serious offence.
Many of these women are bored and very idle. . . . When i tell ma female pals i ma call em back in 5 mins and i don't call. . . .It's WAR.
They actually note the time i made such promises and the the time i actually made the call as if it's the biggest crime in the world.
As for me, who cares . . . . . Not calling me means more time to be by maself n make ma own moves.

Thing is, I don't give a specific time, I just say "later". Then when I eventually call some days later, they be telling me how they were hugging up on the phone waiting for me to call and I'm like when did later become in some minutes time? Later to me is whenever you recieve a call from me again. . . same thing I'll talk to you later means.

@stephen
wetin DaPhoenix do this time na?

CARUSO:

nah no worries babes
itz cool
managed to sort it out yet?!
x

still workin on it

Well it depends , If I really need his advise or attention about something then yes, I would be upset but otherwise no I wouldn't be upset. We're just friends, right,

For me it really depends on if i have an urgent matter that i need to discuss with you, then i will press you for what later means and let you know i really need you to return the call. But if it is just me calling to say hey, whats good and whats going on then you get at me when you get at me.

I am not going to get mad if you dont get at me for a few days, shit we friends not lovers.

Nope, not really, unless we had something important to discuss, but casual converstion, it's nothing.

Mesmerize:

@stephen
wetin DaPhoenix do this time na?

LOL!! Nothing. I'm just speaking from previous events.

@ Topic

I will not be angry

mukina2:

@ Topic

I will not be angry

Thank you!

i dont, i simply assume you have something else to do more important and it skipped your mind.
From experience though i think women get upset over this, i've run into trouble so many times over this . . . women take it very seriously.

So pls bros if you promise to call even a female friend, keep your word and do! A word is enough for the wise.

@ Topic

I'll be mad oh. . . nothin to do with being a woman, I was just raised that way, i expect people to keep their word

i once told my dad i'd call him back and didnt. ,   he didnt call me for over a month, and when i fanally called to ask him why he didnt call, he said he had been waiting for my call. . . silly? maybe but thats just the way it is.

you shdnt say something if you don't mean it, people just say stuff to satisfy others at that particular moment, it very hypocritical and unfair to u and the other person. Its little things like that that show people who stand by their words

No, I dnt get mad. .

Well i wont be bad Bcuz my mind would be busy thinking about something else.
But i think if i say I'ma call her later. . .My later could be 1min. . . . 5mins . . . .1hr. . 1day e.t.c
So i don't expect her to be pissed. . .

Mesmerize:

No, I dnt get mad. .

oh yeah. . .

davidylan:

oh yeah. . .

I dnt get mad jor
I am calm as can be

The Sly:

Well i wont be bad Bcuz my mind would be busy thinking about something else.
But i think if i say I'ma call her later. . .My later could be 1min. . . . 5mins . . . .1hr. . 1day e.t.c
So i don't expect her to be pissed. . .

Thank goodness. I thought it was just me

davidylan:

oh yeah. . .

Lol. . . hav u got summin to say?  



@ Post

when u say later, it shd mean within the same day

later by itself doesnt mean anything _{(not anything coherant anyway)}

the correct term shd be "later today" or "later tonight". . .

u cant say "later tomorrow" can u? _{not in proper english anyway}

StephenP:

Thank goodness. I thought it was just me

You're crazy!!
Later in my dictionary means as soon as possible

It has to be urgent for me to give myself hypertension over a phone call. I'm actually guilty of the same crime, so a phone call shouldn't be something I go mad over.

There is nothing in this world that i hate as much as not keeping promises.
Some say I'll call you later today - you go wait soo tey nothing
Some say I'll call you in 10 mins - apparently 10 mins and 10 hours mean the same thing to their sorry selves.
Some will even promise they will call you back and then they just don't call.

It's so vexing cos I try to keep my promises. It is even worse when my bf does it to me cos it means that I'm not on his mind neither am I on his priority list.

depends on said "friend"

anyway I tend to say later and sometimes end up calling whomever 3 months "later"

Lmao!

Mesmerize:

You're crazy!!
Later in my dictionary means as soon as possible

In mine, it means afterward. So I can make it as flexible as I want it to be.

HR.hotness:

Lol. . . hav u got summin to say?  



@ Post

when u say later, it should mean within the same day

later by itself doesnt mean anything _{(not anything coherant anyway)}

the correct term should be "later today" or "later tonight". . .

u can't say "later tomorrow" can u? _{not in proper english anyway}

Not you can't but you can say 2 days later or a week later.

TOH:

depends on said "friend"

anyway I tend to say later and sometimes end up calling whomever 3 months "later"

lol!!


@post
If it's just a friend, wel w/e.
If it's important like sth that has to do with my papers, or maybe the call might help with my study, then I'll get angry.
Yes, I hate when I help ppl but when it's their turn to return it, they "forget".
I could be on life support, would you "forget" to visit?