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Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 1:38pm On Oct 02, 2013
"We all know you love your own man and he love you back, and you will do just about everything and anything to show you care apart from giving him your Body, no questions about that, Figuratively, he can't marry you until he pays your bride price right? Ladies, can you help him out after all love is sharing including money, remember, there is no law that says we men must provide everything, that's one of the many reasons why GOD says "let HIM create for us a helper" Abi no be so?

So ladies, can you assist your Man, YES or NO?
Reasons i ask this question is because i ask a friend of mine(a lady though)who has been dating her guy for like 5 years now and age is knocking on her face, and here is what she said to me " mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew! i dey crase?"


Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Oct 02, 2013
How many times una wan open this thread? ?

NO!!!! Abi that's what you want to hear. tongueundecided
Mtcheeeeeeeeeww! I dey craze?
Unless he'd pay me back shaa tonguetonguegrin

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Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 4:24pm On Oct 02, 2013
Baybe: How many times una wan open this thread? ?

NO!!!! Abi that's what you want to hear. tongueundecided
Mtcheeeeeeeeeww! I dey craze?
Unless he'd pay me back shaa tonguetonguegrin

lmao! I didn't know nah a thread and needle like that had been woman?
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 02, 2013
If he takes my surname after that then yes I will help him

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Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by sunnyt1(m): 4:39pm On Oct 02, 2013
Before one considers marriage, it is imperative to note this; maturity must be ascertained.

There are 3 forms of maturity and each must be in place before marriage should cross anybody's mind;

1) physical maturity
2) emotional/mental/spiritual maturity
3) financial maturity

Anyone who is not sure abt these stages of maturity shouldnt even consider marriage. Why wud a man who cant pay the bride prize on his own think abt marriage? Take more abt getting a gud shelter, providing gud food for the home etc.

Let me explain what marriage means. You are poing to somebody's house to change the possession of his daughter. From birth, he has bin feeding her, clothing her, giving her some or all of the tins she needs. Asking for her hands in marriage means you are ensuring the man that you are gonna do all those tins and more. So why should you come if you cant even feed her?

For ladies, these 3 stages of maturity apply to you as well, it goes beyond physical maturity alone.

In a nut shell, anyone who is not ready for marriage should wait until he/she is ready.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 4:47pm On Oct 02, 2013
If the amount is worth a capital for investment, she shld either pay me, borrow me, or i invest my cash undecided

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Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 5:04pm On Oct 02, 2013
mondi_cheeks: If he takes my surname after that then yes I will help him
Like wtf? disrespecting your man
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 5:05pm On Oct 02, 2013
SLIDE waxie: If the amount is worth a capital for investment, she shld either pay me, borrow me, or i invest my cash undecided

Would prefer the word borrow sha if i were a lady
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Oct 02, 2013
Donalð Genes:
Like wtf? disrespecting your man
See your mouth. tongue Why should he disrespect me by borrowing my brideprice from me. undecided
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 5:31pm On Oct 02, 2013
Baybe: See your mouth. tongue Why should he disrespect me by borrowing my brideprice from me. undecided
Common, carry your stinginess comot for road, after you will profess undying love for your man, even when a guy is trying, you think say na beans
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Oct 02, 2013
Donalð Genes:
Like wtf? disrespecting your man
how so?
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Oct 02, 2013
Donalð Genes:
Common, carry your stinginess comot for road, after you will profess undying love for your man, even when a guy is trying, you think say na beans
Lol! gringrin

How can I pay my own bride price? undecided Does it sound appealing to the ear?
If you don't have money for bride price then you'd have to wait till you get money. Or like I said earlier, if I give you the money you'd pay back, definitely. tongue tongue
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 10:18pm On Oct 02, 2013
[quote author=Baybe]Lol! gringrin

How can I pay my own bride price? undecided Does it sound appealing to the ear?
If you don't have money for bride price then you'd have to wait till you get money. Or like I said earlier, if I give you the money you'd pay back, definitely. tongue tongue[/quote

Asking me to wait till i qather more money right? and probably age is knocking seriously on you, and you have the money to help me out and you asking me to borrow from you" listen to yourself, Is the money still not qonna go back to our family after the wedding? na waoooooo think am
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by sennykenny1(f): 10:01am On Oct 03, 2013
If he can't afford my bride price nw, hw would he be able to cater for my needs. I cherish my hubby for dat

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Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Acidosis(m): 11:00am On Oct 03, 2013
But Bride price is less than N50 in some part of Nigeria..



So whats all the noise about bride price?
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Acidosis(m): 11:01am On Oct 03, 2013
I think one should be concerned about the wedding and engagement expenses and not the "bride price"
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 10:56pm On Oct 04, 2013
Acidosis: But Bride price is less than N50 in some part of Nigeria..



So whats all the noise about bride price?
lmao! abeg which tribe abeg
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Beync(f): 7:03pm On Oct 07, 2013
Talk about traditional rites and bride price precisely, a prospective husband should be reasonable enough to provide for them.
But when it comes to the wedding ceremony, the intended bride should help as much as she can.

No. I couldn't have paid my bride price, it's not our tradition. The man pays the bp
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 7:56pm On Oct 07, 2013
Beync: Talk about traditional rites and bride price precisely, a prospective husband should be reasonable enough to provide for them.
But when it comes to the wedding ceremony, the intended bride should help as much as she can.

No. I couldn't have paid my bride price, it's not our tradition. The man pays the bp
bleeep that tradition abeg, are you marryinq your Tradition or your husband? You understand me now?
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Beync(f): 8:05pm On Oct 07, 2013
Donalð Genes:
bleeep that tradition abeg, are you marryinq your Tradition or your husband? You understand me now?
so when u r ready for marriage, ur intended wife with her parent will bring drinks to your family to pay your groom price abi?

As long as I know, the man pays the bride price. Well, to suit you, you might as well source the money from ur bride before that day. But on that occasion, you pay it. Happy now?
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by mspee(f): 8:16pm On Oct 07, 2013
No, sorry! embarassed
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 9:15pm On Oct 07, 2013
Beync: so when u r ready for marriage, ur intended wife with her parent will bring drinks to your family to pay your groom price abi?

As long as I know, the man pays the bride price. Well, to suit you, you might as well source the money from ur bride before that day. But on that occasion, you pay it. Happy now?
Happy with your last paragraph,That said, i mean you qirls must also contribute haba, why una dey do like say na tradiion superceed your love of your man....
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 9:16pm On Oct 07, 2013
ms_pee: No, sorry! embarassed

lolzzz you stinqy woman
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by mspee(f): 10:39pm On Oct 07, 2013
Donalð Genes:

lolzzz you stinqy woman

Thanks dear. Why is he a man if he can't pay ordinary bride price by himself? undecided
If e never ready, make e wait na. Shuo! embarassed
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 12:24pm On Oct 08, 2013
ms_pee:

Thanks dear. Why is he a man if he can't pay ordinary bride price by himself? undecided
If e never ready, make e wait na. Shuo! embarassed
then why are you a Wo-man if your job is not a helper?
Then you qo wait till age pass you bye
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Monicasque(f): 12:29pm On Oct 08, 2013
i can help him with a lot of things including our household financial commitments after marriage but as a lady your bride price is your pride so i would help him with that particularly
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 1:12pm On Oct 08, 2013
Monicasque: i can help him with a lot of things including our household financial commitments after marriage but as a lady your bride price is your pride so i would help him with that particularly

so na pride una dey want or love? Smh!
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by greedie1(f): 1:25pm On Oct 08, 2013
no.
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by Idowuogbo(f): 1:37pm On Oct 08, 2013
tufia! NO!!!
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 1:40pm On Oct 08, 2013
gree-die:
no.
Taaaaaah you and Idowuigbo should comot for my front jor, stinqy girlfriends.com
Re: Nigerian Ladies, Can You Assist Your Boyfriend In Paying Your Bride Price? by DonaldGenes(m): 1:42pm On Oct 08, 2013
Idowuogbo: tufia! NO!!!
hmmmmmm see who am sawinq lolzzz
e don teh i never see ya black Azz.abi you dey hide

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