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Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by flexshop(m): 11:43pm On Oct 06, 2013
I'm angry, annoyed and amazed all at the same time.
I have noticed a sad sequence on nairaland romance section.whenever someone brings a complaint here or seeks advice, Every tom d!ck and harry Esp the ladies will rush to say dump him/her, break up already,move on without even digesting the content of the thread.I'm a silent reader most times because I come here to catch fun but some people don't know that some of these stories are real life experiences of real people and some advice we give them here may affect them either positively or negatively.
I don't know if that's the trend, it really makes me wonder if peoples mind are on a moveon/quit default setting.
Case study thread:
By kfmemm2013:
https://www.nairaland.com/1464588/think-should-end-it-really



(in Mr CoR::Ks voice) pls adviise
angry
Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by skyscraperTM(m): 1:33am On Oct 07, 2013
is that why you had to open a thread?!

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Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by Nobody: 3:54am On Oct 07, 2013
Not "we". Some of us are exempt. cool

There are a good number of Nairalanders that don't take the forum seriously, even when someone comes with seemingly candid problem. They don't think before they type. They don't realize that there are people who would actually take advice to heart, whether it's good or bad. I wonder if people would heed the advice they give sometimes.

It's always good for one to be cautious of what he or she says, most especially in such situations, in my opinion. It's always good to take anything on this forum with a grain of salt, however. You don't know how old the people commenting are. You don't know the kind of experiences, or lack of, for them to be saying/typing what they do. It is what it is for the time being.
Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by Nobody: 7:38am On Oct 07, 2013
ogugua88: Not "we". Some of us are exempt. cool

There are a good number of Nairalanders that don't take the forum seriously, even when someone comes with seemingly candid problem. They don't think before they type. They don't realize that there are people who would actually take advice to heart, whether it's good or bad. I wonder if people would heed the advice they give sometimes.

It's always good for one to be cautious of what he or she says, most especially in such situations, in my opinion. It's always good to take anything on this forum with a grain of salt, however. You don't know how old the people commenting are. You don't know the kind of experiences, or lack of, for them to be saying/typing what they do. It is what it is for the time being.

WHY U HIDE MY POST ?

NO BE TRUE SAY UR E-BF DON SPOIL THIS SITE?

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Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by dBard: 7:56am On Oct 07, 2013
ogugua88: Not "we". Some of us are exempt. cool

There are a good number of Nairalanders that don't take the forum seriously, even when someone comes with seemingly candid problem. They don't think before they type. They don't realize that there are people who would actually take advice to heart, whether it's good or bad. I wonder if people would heed the advice they give sometimes.

It's always good for one to be cautious of what he or she says, most especially in such situations, in my opinion. It's always good to take anything on this forum with a grain of salt, however. You don't know how old the people commenting are. You don't know the kind of experiences, or lack of, for them to be saying/typing what they do. It is what it is for the time being.

I totally agree wit u.
Some comments here makes me want t up n put a whip t someones backside.
Read in d family section about a NLander that has killed herself..yet she's bin here crying out n peeps probly didn't take it serious.
If its a serious thread from personal experiences then true opinions are t b expected.
This trend is killing this site..Truth.
NL no longer holds d attraction it held f me before.
The mods demselves,I tink, need t b a bit proactive..deleting, hiding/ blocking comments that r insultive, not contributory or do not express any part opinion in order t curb dis habit.
Nice thread@o.p
Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by skyscraperTM(m): 8:30am On Oct 07, 2013
nairaland is too funny to be taken seriously, some of us came here to have fun, tryinq to qet our minds off the unendinq nigeria problems, and we like it that way. i hope the op has heard about the difference between a nigerian advice and a foreign advice. nigerians are funny naturally so we tend to take everythinq as a joke. if somebody needs an advice he or she should qo meet a counsellor or betterstill register on a foreign website like yahoo et all. lobatan¡
Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 07, 2013
ROTFL. grin

Why should anybody take Nairaland seriously?
Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by flexshop(m): 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2013
sкчscrαρεr™:
is that why you had to open a thread?!
YES, its a matter of concern.
At least in the fun,let's give the person d benefit of the doubt that the complaint might be genuine.
Re: Why Are We Like This? Romance Board Or Bored by flexshop(m): 1:39pm On Oct 07, 2013
ogugua88: Not "we". Some of us are exempt. cool

There are a good number of Nairalanders that don't take the forum seriously, even when someone comes with seemingly candid problem. They don't think before they type. They don't realize that there are people who would actually take advice to heart, whether it's good or bad. I wonder if people would heed the advice they give sometimes.

It's always good for one to be cautious of what he or she says, most especially in such situations, in my opinion. It's always good to take anything on this forum with a grain of salt, however. You don't know how old the people commenting are. You don't know the kind of experiences, or lack of, for them to be saying/typing what they do. It is what it is for the time being.
yeah, that's the reason I started this thread.to raise awareness so that our actions or inactions won't have a negative rebound effect. That about people who give advice,you wonder whether the person even opened the thread or read its contents.its terrible.SMH

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