AnodaIT: You better find a way to stop that before she begins to snatch another girl's bf or husband

bellong:

This is harsh and why do you think she is here? It would have been better you offered her a way out than what you wrote...


@Op, whenever she does that, stop her from doing it. Be firm in your decision and never mind her blackmail cry. Tell her what she is doing is bad and you will not condone it. When she sees your firmness with time she will adjust. Need I add that you add spanking once a while to let her know you are serious about it.

AnodaIT: ^ I did not complete it

@OP , first step, teach her responsibility. (the two of them together)
Give her something delicate (but disposable ) make a mark on it and tell her to hold it for you for some time (start with 5 mins) . tell them to make sure no one takes it from each of them. If it work for 5 mins, try another item and move the time up till it might be a whole day.
When she knows that 'This is my thing and no one should take it from me' , she might well understand when someone else says 'This is my thing . .'
If she get this going, the next thing will be to teach her giving and politely asking.

Ninapha: She is just showing dominance trait. How can u stop her, stand firm and not just her even her twin. Insist she gives it back to her twin herself. Pls start now to teach them to hold hands, dance together, sing song of apprecition together, it helps enhance their bonds and reduce her dominace as well increase the others esteem.

Dont fail to add force where necessary but be cautious. Welcome to the world of mama ejimas

yellowpawpaw:
Good point u hv here.
Whenever she snatches anything from her sis, tell her sis to go take it back. Encourage her to fight for her right. Where u really need to work is on her sis.
They r twins, so competition is always going to be there.
She starts crying, completely ignore her and watch her sis, she want to mellow, tell her not to. I will definately work on that but its so annoying most times.
She will get d message. As time goes on, her sis esteem will rise and she can be able to challenge her.
Try putting food together for them and observe them.
U can't change their personalities but let the calmer one be able to stand up to her this early stage cos its def coming.

Somebody adviced they should be doing things together and u teach them how to ask for something politely. All good but also know that not all asking will be giving even if asked politely.
Especially from d sis. Children r very smart. All d best.

amiskurie: : hw old them be?

samyan12:
I have 10 month old twin girls, and my Taiye bullies her sis like this too.she always takes her toys, scratches her face, pulls her hair.kenny is gentle, so she cries all the time, only lashing out back occasionally. They are too young for me to discipline i think.I am also at a loss to what to do.

mutter:
I think you should not worry about it. The one that appears more dominant may not even be the dominant one later. The important thing you need to know is that the other twin gives the things to her. They have a special bond and will relate to each other in a special way. I would just do as bellong advised and be firm so she learns not to take things from people without asking.
Something about these children that appear to be so soft and give in to everything- they end up as totally hard core later on. Perhaps because they accepted so much when they were young.

AnodaIT:
You better find a way to stop that before she begins to snatch another girl's bf or husband

KanwuliaJara:
Separate them!
They can't play together until. . .the aggressor changes!
Enroll her in 'behavior modification' classes.
ONE ON ONE TUTORING.

No violence necessary o. . . .since she does not need help in that department!

LordReed:


There are such things for two year old human babies?

systacee:


Too young for you to discipline? I don't think so. It's not too early to express your displeasure at any bad behaviour. Scold, frown, brandish a cane and promise to use it next time - just don't let it pass. Keep correcting. With time, device measures appropriate for their age. Always let them know certain behaviours are ' no - no'. Parenting? Lord have mercy!

AnodaIT:
You better find a way to stop that before she begins to snatch another girl's bf or husband