Olaitan and Jide worshipped at the same Church where they were workers in different Ministry. Olaitan was the leader of the Choir and each time she came forward to lead a song, Jide could not help but admire her for her beauty, sonorous voice and of course the level of her commitment to the things of the spirit. Brother Jide on the other hand , was the assistant head of the Ushers and a banker by profession, he only got born again 2 yrs ago after a riotous life with various women of shapes and sizes by virtue of his profession which affords him to meet scores of women on a day to day basis.
One fateful day, Jide decided to act on his fantasy by asking Olaitan of to be his wife. Olaitan to say the least was shocked at the proposal because Jide had been one of the most eligible bachelor since he joined their local parish. Olaitan was privy to how many sisters in the church would do anything to marry Jide. She counted herself blessed to be his future wife out of all of them but she did not allow her emotions to rule her as she told Jide that she would pray about it before giving him an answer.
Jide persisted for almost three months before Olaitan finally agreed for them to date, preparatory to their eventual wedding 6 months later. Their problem started on their wedding night, Jide was very eager to make love to his wife after a three year break( he suspended all illicit sexual activities with the opposite sex since he got born again.) Olaitan who got born again almost 15 years ago was frigid and she detested sex with a passion. She begged Jide to allow her sleep till the morning as she was too tired to have sex that night because of the stress she went through during the preparation for the wedding and on the wedding day. Jide reasoned with her and they both slept off. The following morning she jumped off the bed to the kitchen before Jide woke up to start preparing breakfast. Olaitan is such a nice cook that Jide licked the plate and asked for more. They did not make love until the night of the following day and it was such a disaster because it ended abruptly when she was complaining of pains in her abdomen.
Now, Olaitan is a good cook, a wonderful and dutiful church worker who would not miss any night vigil irrespective of her husband’s feelings, a prayer warrior, a good house keeper. However she was frigid (a condition that makes sex to be unpleasant and uninteresting for a woman) Jide suggested they seek medical help but she insisted that she will attack it spiritually. She has prepared a roster of the number of days they would be having sex and some of the days sex is forbidden are the days she decides to pray in the middle of the night or she decides to attend their Church’s night vigil which is held twice in a month. Jide tried complaining but she pleaded for more understanding from him as she makes effort spiritually to address her conjugal challenge.
Jide was in a serious dilemma . His faith forbids extramarital sex but he is seriously burning as his wife only allows him sex according to the roster and her mood. They are blessed with two female children to date.
DO NOT ASK ME WHAT JIDE HAS BEEN DOING BEHIND THE SCENE TO HELP EASE THIS TENSION

Well, they both attend a church and since she is looking for spiritual help, let him report her to their pastor for spiritual deliverance from spirit of frigidity

now this is where a gud pastor educates the wife olaitan on the matters of the physical dat needs to be handled physically. As long as the husband is not happy she should forget about heaven which she is pursuing fervently because her home is her first ministry, when u fail in that u fail in all. Its a very worse mentality for a godly woman to make roaster for s3x cos its not what u plan for the urge comes anytime and anywhere...my own view anyways