I really don't know where I should post this, but the Mods can move it to the appropiate section..

There's this my friend in Unilorin, I was at his place during the Ileya period. And we talked n decided to exchange girls, mind you I'm a student of OOU..

He introduced this girl to me, (his coursemate)and he gave me her pin, I added her up and you know the usual ladies' custom "how did you get my pin?" I told her I got it from an app(pin share). She said she once used the app but not anymore and we start chatting.

So, I did a lil intro of myself n she did the same, she's 2 years older than me tho'. So, we were chatting someday and I used "the fear of women is the beginning of wisdom" as my PM, she asked why? and I told her how my ex messed up n cheated on me blah blah. She said ladies are not the same, that she's a living example. I asked how would I know that?.

She narrated how her boyfriend also cheated and she's being single since then, she told me we are in the same boat n could fit in for each other. I was like -are you trying to ask me out?-. She uploaded a ton of pics and asked if she's beautiful, I said Yes of course! She told me her ex only used her for sex.

She finally asked me out, and everytime (till now) she will always start the conversation with sex. In short! She turns our convo to sex chat, told me she loves fell-atio (bl*wjob). She recently asked me to send a pic of my di-ck and I said it is not polite to do such, she sends me her nude pics, sent 3 dis morning, when she was taking her bath. I usually delete the pics, she loves me or let's say infatuation.

She's stays in Lagos. And I have an important thing to do in Lagos next week, lodging at a hotel. I told her n she was glad that she would see me. She said she would spend the night with me. The sex chat gets tougher and told me she would come with a towel and soap, that we would have hot sex in the shower. I'm usually lost of words anytime she starts. I told her I'd be leaving the hotel early the ff morning and she said no pee, That she would leave too that early morning.

She said, I shouldn't come with condoms, that she would like it raw with me. -I was like ewwwww aint nobody does that- I said OK! 'I would call it lust not love.'

Now I need advice(s).. Should I allow her to visit me? I'm never gonna have it raw.. Hope it's not that she wants to sell HIV for me? Experts in this kinda stuff should advise me.

Sorry for the verbose post. I stand to be insulted! But I need matured and experts' advice.. Thanks!

My advice for you is just that you have to be extra careful with her and if you must do it use condom...try and study her when you two are together..and again i will say you must be very careful...

You have laid ur bed

So lie on it

segzyndpep: My advice for you is just that you have to be extra careful with her and if you must do it use condom...try and study her when you two are together..and again i will say you must be very careful...

Thanks bro.. I got you!

ayo_kenny37: You have laid ur bed

So lie on it

she's desperate!

When a child kills rat, he'll eat it alone. Now u don carry something wey big pass you, U run come here....

what was your intention when you decide to exchange girls with your friend? are you looking for true love or someone to bleep.

I'll advice you stay away from someone like that till you conclude your mission in Lagos, after accomplishing your purpose, extend your booking and bleep the life out of her. Shikena!

You need to be careful. She's up to no good. You already said she's older than you, so maybe she's trying to take advantage of a young boy or maybe her boyfriend hurt her and she wants to do the same to others. Maybe she's trying to spread a disease around. You don't know what she's planning, but it's probably no good; nothing that will benefit you. Tell her to stop sending you naked pictures of herself, nasty. Stay away from her.

My guy, this your mission will not end well. You know why? Yeah! Because nothing of this nature has ended well before.

@OP
make your buddy give you all the info about this gals, i mean ALL THE INFOS!!!!
do not have sex without condoms, i wouldnt even let her blow me without condom.
- keep all your valuables in a very SECURE and SAFE place.
- meet her in public first and make sure someone trustworthy see her with you (invite a friend for dinner)
- confirm that she is who she portrayed to be online (ask for video chat before the main meeting)
- confirm on D day that she is the person that you chatted with on video.
- when you get to the hotel, tell her that she has to leave her ID at the reception desk for security purposes....... receptionist should be informed beforehand to write all the girls infos down.
- dont leave the lady unattended in the room, if you go to the toilet, leave the door open. if you want to take bath, bring her in there with you.
- dont drink anything that was not bought by you, and dont leave your drink unattended.

better be safe than sorry!

ps: and by all means, since she said she wants to come and fukc, then fukc the hell out of her, like stole something from you.

if you want HIV from her,just forget condom.. looks like you don't gbadun your precious life that much

try to remember that life is continue so don't use only one night to distroy your life, because there is no how you can observe the lady,a little word is enough for wise man.

gr8ever: When a child kills rat, he'll eat it alone. Now u don carry something wey big pass you, U run come here....

what was your intention when you decide to exchange girls with your friend? are you looking for true love or someone to bleep.

I'll advice you stay away from someone like that till you conclude your mission in Lagos, after accomplishing your purpose, extend your booking and bleep the life out of her. Shikena!

Lol. Tho' I'm keeping a straight face now I had to laugh out loud wen I saw this.. Ok bro! You know what it is.. Thanks man!

Yield: You need to be careful. She's up to no good. You already said she's older than you, so maybe she's trying to take advantage of a young boy or maybe her boyfriend hurt her and she wants to do the same to others. Maybe she's trying to spread a disease around. You don't know what she's planning, but it's probably no good; nothing that will benefit you. Tell her to stop sending you naked pictures of herself, nasty. Stay away from her.

Roger! Thanks sis.. I don't want to sound rude by telling her to stop the pics but I delete dem wenever I receive dem, so no one gets to see it and spread.. thanks so much.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
make your buddy give you all the info about this gals, i mean ALL THE INFOS!!!!
do not have sex without condoms, i wouldnt even let her blow me without condom.
- keep all your valuables in a very SECURE and SAFE place.
- meet her in public first and make sure someone trustworthy see her with you (invite a friend for dinner)
- confirm that she is who she portrayed to be online (ask for video chat before the main meeting)
- confirm on D day that she is the person that you chatted with on video.
- when you get to the hotel, tell her that she has to leave her ID at the reception desk for security purposes....... receptionist should be informed beforehand to write all the girls infos down.
- dont leave the lady unattended in the room, if you go to the toilet, leave the door open. if you want to take bath, bring her in there with you.
- dont drink anything that was not bought by you, and dont leave your drink unattended.

better be safe than sorry!

ps: and by all means, since she said she wants to come and fukc, then fukc the hell out of her, like stole something from you.

Wow!!!! See mind-blowing points.. I've drafted this on my memo pad.. Jah bless you!! You must be a maestro lol

Michelle55: if you want HIV from her, just forget condom.. looks like you don't gbadun your precious life that much

Of course! I dey gbadun my life.. @bolded it aint gonna happen.. Forget werrin?
Thanks sis!

olanre12: try to remember that life is continue so don't use only one night to distroy your life, because there is no how you can observe the lady,a little word is enough for wise man.

Hmmmmmm... Fact! Thanks bro.

Thanks all. More advice is needed tho'..

just be careful dude maybe she loves you anyway

Amefrica! Amefrica!! Amefrica!!!

You really need to be careful with the girl in question, it is very clear and evident from your narration that all she has for you is infatuation. She only wants to use you to kill her urge.

The fact that she's even talking about the no-protection thing calls for a better scrutiny of what she is trying to do with you.

One has to be really careful at first with any love found online, you can never know if it is real until you take the bold step of finding out.

What if your friend knows something about the girl and he is not telling you?. Who brought up the idea of exchanging girls, was it you or your friend? What if the girl has an evil plan towards you?. What if this is a ploy by the devil to ruin your God given life?.

Prevention they say is better than cure.... Thread carefully Bro!!!

awwww... my dear Amefrica **hugs** Listen to Olarwarlay. ^^

olarwarlay: Amefrica! Amefrica!! Amefrica!!!

You really need to be careful with the girl in question, it is very clear and evident from your narration that all she has for you is infatuation. She only wants to use you to kill her urge.

The fact that she's even talking about the no-protection thing calls for a better scrutiny of what she is trying to do with you.

One has to be really careful at first with any love found online, you can never know if it is real until you take the bold step of finding out.

What if your friend knows something about the girl and he is not telling you?. Who brought up the idea of exchanging girls, was it you or your friend? What if the girl has an evil plan towards you?. What if this is a ploy by the devil to ruin your God given life?.

Prevention they say is better than cure.... Thread carefully Bro!!!

Waoh!! I love this bro..
Actually, I raised the idea. He gave me 3 pins, so I decided to follow the most beautiful along. Just to talk to wen boredom arrives.. I never knew it'd turn out like this, she changed it for me, from normal chat to sex chat.

I was confused and didn't want her to see me as a weakling..

Yvete: awwww... my dear Amefrica **hugs** Listen to Olarwarlay. ^^

Awwww.. My sister! Abeg nor look me as a wayward/promiscuous/bad guy oo.. Not my fault! I'm sure gonna listen to Wale's advice.

She prolly aint really. and if she is, self-service on.

Amefrica:

Waoh!! I love this bro..
Actually, I raised the idea. He gave me 3 pins, so I decided to follow the most beautiful along. Just to talk to wen boredom arrives.. I never knew it'd turn out like this, she changed it for me, from normal chat to sex chat.

I was confused and didn't want her to see me as a weakling..

It's better to appear as a weakling sometimes, than to do something that might ruin your life... My 2 kobo.

Ruq: She prolly aint really. and if she is, self-service on.

She's so real.. I compared her nude pics(exposing her face) with the display pictures. I'm just not sure why she does this.

olarwarlay:

It's better to appear as a weakling sometimes, than to do something that might ruin your life... My 2 kobo.

Thanks bro. I roger that!

My Advice,

I was once in that situation believe me... and this time with a long time friend saying she would be coming to Lagos and spending the night with me... after talking dirty as usual.

Whats Next? I told her we were asked to back up the whole banking database at work and that na real big job... so sorry I wont be available overnight... but mind you, she still came the next morning finding me at home.

She MUST now know the hotel u'll be lodging abeg... Fashi such girls that are in it for sex alone jare... dem no get sense.

ledafaze: My Advice,

I was once in that situation believe me... and this time with a long time friend saying she would be coming to Lagos and spending the night with me... after talking dirty as usual.

Whats Next? I told her I we were asked to back up the whole banking database at work and that na real big job... so sorry I wont be available overnight... but mind you, she still came the next morning finding me at home.

She MUST now know the hotel u'll be lodging abeg... Fashi such girls that are in it for sex alone jare... dem no get sense.

Ok!! Thanks boss..

Guy send me her bb pin so that I can advice her on your behalf.

7footre: Guy send me her bb pin so that I can advice her on your behalf.

Hahahahahahahaha!!!!! see thief...

poster at your age you are still asking for advice on issues like this? smh