This happened recently and made me wonder what my girl gets up to behind my back.

I bumped into an old friend of mine in Benin this past weekend. He had been abroad for ages and it was nice seeing his face again. After, the handshakes and back-slapping, he invites me to his hotel so we could talk about old times. This dude was a real "BAD-OOH" during our undergraduate days 
and I was wondering if he had changed. I wasn't to wait long to find out.

As we were talking, dude dials a number on his phone and began to direct a lady how to locate the hotel where we were. Very soon, the lady, an innocent looking babe, joins us. My friend introduces us and we shake hands. I notice that she has an engagement ring on her finger. As we make convo, her fone rings and she tells the calller : " Baby, please I'm coming. I'm with my TAILOR !" TAILOR ?? Omo, see lie ! Anyway, after we gist for some more minutes, dude says to me : "Guy, abeg I dey come O. I wan quick STRAFF this girl !" Chei ! This guy hadnt changed ! He'd always been as raw as they come. So, he gets up, leads her by the hand and she sashays away with him shaking her tail feather behind her.

Some fifteen minutes later or thereabouts , dude calls my phone and goes " Bros, how far ? You go STRAFF ? I know say you been dey dig babes with big juggs those days" ! I told him I'd pass, he guffaws and jocularly calls me " fake guy ".

When they were done, they return to join me at the bar where I was seated. I couldn't help but look at the girl's face. She matches my gaze with defiance and the look on her face was "IT IS WHAT IT IS"! Jeeze mehn ! This na somebody babe / fiancee / wife O ! Then again, my guy is somebody's guy / husband also abi ? So, I guess maybe " IT WAS WHAT IT WAS"

I left my friend some 10 minutes later. As I drove, I saw the girl hugging some dude and talking animatedly with the dude, maybe her fiancé. She waved at me as I drove past. I stole a look at the guy and my mind shouted at him: " BROS, YOU NEVER GET WIFE O !!" I asked myself, "what about you ?" Do you know what your own is doing ? I wonder.

Hmmmm! now thats deep.

Hmmm***sitting down,hands on cheeks,**:Do u wonder wat ur guy does behind ur back?**shaking head**mtchew**

Honestly,sm gurlz have no virtue,n disz d same reason why,sm guyz will neva trust their babes,n some foolish ones with a gurl who loves them to d bone,will listen to advice 4rm foolish friends n start misbehaving n even taking advantage of d gurl.its vice -versa jare!

Tabelachizza: Hmmm***sitting down,hands on cheeks,**:Do u wonder wat ur guy does behind ur back?**shaking head**mtchew**

I'm not "a friend of Dorothy", so I can't answer that.

St Christina: Honestly,sm gurlz have no virtue,n disz d same reason why,sm guyz will neva trust their babes,n some foolish ones with a gurl who loves them to d bone,will listen to advice 4rm foolish friends n start misbehaving n even taking advantage of d gurl.its vice -versa jare!

To me, I've had an experience in the past which wobbled my trust for a really great girl I was involved with. I guess it left a scab on my psyche such that whenever I see/hear things related to the topic. I tend to ask myself questions and tell myself " it could be you". Thus, I hardly judge.

St Christina: Honestly,sm gurlz have no virtue,n disz d same reason why,sm guyz will neva trust their babes,n some foolish ones with a gurl who loves them to d bone,will listen to advice 4rm foolish friends n start misbehaving n even taking advantage of d gurl.its vice -versa jare!

you are just on point dear

nuattitude74:

To me, I've had an experience in the past which wobbled my trust for a really great girl I was involved with. I guess it left a scab on my psyche such that whenever I see/hear things related to the topic. I tend to ask myself questions and tell myself " it could be you". Thus, I hardly judge.

Have seen similar such things but that shouldn't make u give up on life, love and commitment. Life is too short 2 waste just straffing any antonie, doyin or amara. If u believe what will be will be, u'd learn 2 let things off ur shoulders.

Trust is important in every relationship. Its up to d couple to either keep that trust or break it. They say every day is for the thief...... N we all know that Karma is a biotch