ummsulaym: [/b]

@first bolded, maybe not the worst but one of the worst things... I doubt if I can forgive my man for that(may Allah distant us from infidelity)...

@second bolded, better agreed upon if you had typed women and not 'muslim' women... As much as I'd want my man to myself(not shared), I wouldn't mind 3 more rivals if infidelity becomes an option... Women are possessive of their men(ofcourse, we should be) but a muslim woman should not put her husband's aqeeda in jeopardy because of her emotions...

bukatyne:

A Muslim woman should allow her husband marry extra wives to prevent him from sinning?

Sweetheart, what does the Muslim husband do for his wife? What concessions does he grant her?

Please dont bring your women liberation message to our Muslim sisters..

deols:

The seconded bolded is actually right!!

Mr Aboki:


If only life were ideal..

I do however agree that 'muslim' didnt need to be in my post as the feeling cuts across board.

Mr Aboki:


Please dont bring your women liberation message to our Muslim sisters..

Mr Aboki:


Please dont bring your women liberation message to our Muslim sisters..

bukatyne:

you do not have a choice in the kind of marriage you have??

Who does?

deols:

She said we have a choice and that is true. Everyone has a choice.

bukatyne:

She said we don't have a choice

Okija_juju:


I told my wife the only way I would not forgive her is if she sleeps with a person that is lesser than me 'generally'.. Sex is not the problem, love is.

A prostitute has a partner she loves dearly. But she sleeps with men for money. Sex not love. My wife has said it that her greatest fear isnt that I would cheat on her sexually, but that I would cheat on her emotionally..

Plus! My wifes bosses are women. Her male boss that I know, I will forgive her instantly becuase if I was a girl, I would f|uck him as well..




Infidelity is not the worst thing in a marriage.

Ask those muslim women.. They would rather have their homes all to themselves and have a husband that f|ucks around, rather than share their home, husband and everything with 4 - 20 other women.

deols:

Read the Op again.

khattab02: It is not Fard ' not compulsory ' but optional. Let us consider some logical reasonings why Islam permitt some certain men to marry morethan one wife. Any paediatrician will tell you amle and female are born in equal proportion but the female s.ex is stronger than the male. So in children age there are more males dieing as compared to females. As life goes on there are males dieing due to alcohol, wars, accidents, drug abuse there are more men in the prison yard as compared to female. Today if you analyse in the world, in New york alone there are 1m females as compared to male, in America as a whole there are 7.8m females morethan males, in Uk 4m, Germany 5m, Russia 9m and God alone knows how many females are morethan males throughout the world.

Bpriest: ^^^ You gotta love the spirit. I like Muslim girls because they are submissive and always want to please their husbands.

Bpriest: they still have side chicks in polygamy. Men are only being men . You must accept us the way we are

khattab02: It is not Fard ' not compulsory ' but optional. Let us consider some logical reasonings why Islam permitt some certain men to marry morethan one wife. Any paediatrician will tell you amle and female are born in equal proportion but the female s.ex is stronger than the male. So in children age there are more males dieing as compared to females. As life goes on there are males dieing due to alcohol, wars, accidents, drug abuse there are more men in the prison yard as compared to female. Today if you analyse in the world, in New york alone there are 1m females as compared to male, in America as a whole there are 7.8m females morethan males, in Uk 4m, Germany 5m, Russia 9m and God alone knows how many females are morethan males throughout the world.

pickabeau1:

if only the chics will allow

They develop this brain loss and mind-boggling envy when another woman comes near their pwoperteee....
Interestingly these same women will come and say they dont need men..


women cannot live with each other sharing a man unfortunately... even up till old age

i really wonder how the arabs/northerners do it....

[img]https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/7127184896/h0629606A/[/img]

bukatyne:

Why don't you men teach us how?

I mean, men are soooooo good in sharing their women with other men that we women need to learn how NOT to be jealous...

When can I come for tutorials?

bukatyne:

A Muslim woman should allow her husband marry extra wives to prevent him from sinning?

Sweetheart, what does the Muslim husband do for his wife? What concessions does he grant her?

tintingz: I guess adultery is a christian thing

pickabeau1:

Me ke.. i dont know how to share women....also dont forget a man will rather have his own harem than share another man's

De Beauvoir:

By the way there are not more females than males in the world, please please please, for the sake of Allah, you people should stop spreading misinformation because you want to justify your islamic practices.
The other day one of them was telling lies about how girls in the past used to attain puberty earlier than girls these days just because he wanted to justify child marriage, now they have taken to telling lies about the ratio of males to females.

Proof that the ratio of men to women is the same:
https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/xx.html

From CIA world factbook:

Sex ratio:
at birth: 1.07 male(s)/female
0-14 years: 1.07 male(s)/female
15-24 years: 1.06 male(s)/female
25-54 years: 1.02 male(s)/female
55-64 years: 0.96 male(s)/female
65 years and over: 0.8 male(s)/female
total population: 1.01 male(s)/female (2013 est.)

De Beauvoir:

By the way there are not more females than males in the world, please please please, for the sake of Allah, you people should stop spreading misinformation because you want to justify your islamic practices.
The other day one of them was telling lies about how girls in the past used to attain puberty earlier than girls these days just because he wanted to justify child marriage, now they have taken to telling lies about the ratio of males to females.

Proof that the ratio of men to women is the same:
https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/xx.html

From CIA world factbook:

Sex ratio:
at birth: 1.07 male(s)/female
0-14 years: 1.07 male(s)/female
15-24 years: 1.06 male(s)/female
25-54 years: 1.02 male(s)/female
55-64 years: 0.96 male(s)/female
65 years and over: 0.8 male(s)/female
total population: 1.01 male(s)/female (2013 est.)

bukatyne:

Then your post doesn't really make sense (no offence intended)

You should know that it is 'a human thing' and not male/female

Just how no normal man wants to share his woman, no normal woman wants to share her man!

Don't make women how do not want to share guilty!

pickabeau1: debeauvoir...
you name reminds me of new orleans ish.. what does this variant of your moniker mean
Nice facts.. do you have anything that shows the correlation between age availability of men viz a viz women especially in an african context
A 25 year old will almost not marry another 25 year old chic but will step down 3 years or more
Ditto a 40 yo man will not marry a 40yo women... his range of chics is from 21 to 32
Anything above that is old .. below maybe too young
So your facts do not reflect the abundance of marriageable young women who have no husbands to marry ...

lanrexlan:
The number of men and women in the world is roughly equal,though men hold a slight lead with 102 men for 100 women (in 2010). More precisely,out of 1,000 people,504 are men (50.4%) and 496 are women (49.6%). For every 100 girls, 107 boys are born,but males have a higher risk of dying than females,both in childhood and at adult ages.
So at a certain age, the numbers of men and women even out. In France this occurs at age 25 (in 2010).Beyond this age, women outnumber men and the numerical difference between the two sexes increases with age.In France,eight centenarians in ten are women (in 2010).
www.ined.fr/en/everything_about_population/faq/theme_1/bdd/q_text/are_there_more_men_or_more_women_in_the_world_/question/53/

tintingz: What about the ratio of single men and women?

De Beauvoir:

This doesn't mean that their is an inbalance in the number of available men for women.
While the 27 year old is looking to marry the 23 year old woman, the 29 year old is looking to marry the 25 year old and so on and so forth.

All you have said is that men marry younger women, you didn't prove that there are not enough men to go round.

pickabeau1:

You are considering facts for facts sake.....

The reality is that in Afrika n Asia men dont marry old cargoes

pickabeau1:

You are considering facts for facts sake.....

The reality is that in Afrika n Asia men dont marry old cargoes

De Beauvoir:

I don't understand you. How does this prove that there are not enough men to go round for women?
Please explain it in your next post.