Senior Single Girls (SSG) are ladies well above the age of 30yrs but have been unable to settle down with a man. Some of them are 'baby mamas',a few are 'born agains',others are 'independent women'.

The 'successful' independent women amongst them are quick to brag in the open that they don't need a man-some are lesbians too. But for most of them,after the close of work,at home in their bedrooms browsing Facebook on expensive gadjets,they cry themselves to sleep. This is because on Facebook they are innundated with wedding pictures of close girlfriends- pictures of their children,husbands,family activities etc.

Here are 6 tips that could save women from this predicarment.

1. If you are already an SSG dont set standards, set PRINCIPLES: At this stage you've lost the privilege of setting certain standards for your future man,especially as it concerns his physical attributes. Tall, Short,Black, Yellow...no longer relevant. The question must now be, Can he love you? Is he willing to committ to you? Can you both create a worth while marriage partnership?

2. Be open to younger men: if you are in your mid 30s upwards and still insisting on finding an older man; be prepared to settle down with a divorcee, widower, polygamist, handicap or a homosexual. Go figure.

3. Never close doors to suitors even if you are in a relationship. A lot of women make this mistake and become prey to 'TIME WASTERS'. If a woman is currently dating a man that has not yet paid her bride price she MUST never close her doors to other 'serious' toasters. This doesnt mean she should sleep around,but keep them as friends. You may break off the friendship with all your toasters ONLY after your current boyfriend has presented wine to your family and openly declared his intention to marry you with an established time-table.

4. If he's relocating abroad,break up with him IMMEDIATELY-unless you are on that flight with him. Many SSGs have enough "my boyfriend in abroad" tales-you don't need that.

5. Join an NGO or a Charity group NOT church worker. A lot of SSGs erroneously find solace in church activities,especially those in pentecostals. A few times, things do work out but many times these ladies become prey to their Pastor's se><ual whims and caprices. At times certain 'Daddy G.Os' compulsorily hook up the financially buoyant SSGs with young,upcoming struggling Pastors-hoping that these ladies will use their money to build up his ministry. Of course these 'Daddy G.Os' always use, "the holy spirit revealed to me that he's your husband" line.

6. Stay Sexy: there are many 40 year old women out there that can still give men wet dreams. Some SSGs always end up mummifying themselves like people with no hope...mba nu!

I'll stop here....ladies wishing to learn more and talk to a 'love &relationship' expert can contact: loveinlagos@gmail.com.

CONSULTATION IS NOT FREE O! lol

good advice though...

Space booked.

Kk

Nice one, but the main P ain't getting married, it's staying married.

thanks but know an arrogant bitchy woman will never find a husband.




Go figure

Ruq: Nice one, but the main P ain't getting married, it's staying married.

True that. Cus the divorce rate especially among the upper middle class and wealthy is discouraging. Number 3 is spot on.

publisher: Never close doors to suitors even if you are in a relationship. A lot of women make this mistake and become prey to'TIME WASTERS'. If a woman is currently dating a man that has not yet paid her bride price she MUST never close her doors to other 'serious' toasters. This doesnt mean she should sleep around,but keep them as friends. You may break off the friendship with all your toasters ONLY after your current boyfriend has presented wine to your family and openly declared his intention to marry you with an established time-table.

There's a lot of sense on this point
TIME WASTERS- we have quite a number of them out there.
Ladies be wise

I've read this before; it's not even the complete version.
This is the complete version here: http://mrstanleynwabia..com/2013/11/7-tips-on-how-to-break-senior-single.html

Thrash of the highest order.everyone still remains the alfa and omega of their choices,decisions and the kind of life they want to live,E.O.D!


ANYBODY CAN THINK WHATEVER HE/SHE WANTS TO THINK

Ruq: Nice one, but the main P ain't getting married, it's staying married.

seriously it's not just about getting married but staying married... We see families breaking up every now and then... It's sort of a norm now ... Honestly it's better late than never

Lilimax: There's a lot of sense on this point
TIME WASTERS- we have quite a number of them out there.
Ladies be wise

True talk... But believing the term TIME WASTERS could be dangerous... Accepting anyone could lead you to loosing everyone... Men are conscious of the kind of woman around them and what the future hold... Recently a friend's family caught his girlfriend in a hotel cuddling someone... She left them in an event they all traveled to as a family claiming she want to console her friend who lost a relative only to be shocked when her boyfriends older brother and a senior military officer caught her in the act of been smart.... Be ware ooooo

publisher:

2. Be open to younger men: if you are in your mid 30s upwards and still insisting on finding an older man; be prepared to settle down with a divorcee, widower, polygamist, handicap or a homosexual. Go figure.

3. Never close doors to suitors even if you are in a relationship. A lot of women make this mistake and become prey to 'TIME WASTERS'. If a woman is currently dating a man that has not yet paid her bride price she MUST never close her doors to other 'serious' toasters. This doesnt mean she should sleep around,but keep them as friends. You may break off the friendship with all your toasters ONLY after your current boyfriend has presented wine to your family and openly declared his intention to marry you with an established time-table.

CONSULTATION IS NOT FREE O! lol

No 2 . Tufiakwa. I can never date a boy. Sorry.

No 3 I love it I've always practiced it Man are unpredictable.

business MODE :


True talk... But believing the term TIME WASTERS could be dangerous... Accepting anyone could lead you to loosing everyone... Men are conscious of the kind of woman around them and what the future hold... Recently a friend's family caught his girlfriend in a hotel cuddling someone... She left them in an event they all traveled to as a family claiming she want to console her friend who lost a relative only to be shocked when her boyfriends older brother and a senior military officer caught her in the act of been smart.... Be ware ooooo

I don't think OP meant having more than one relationships simultaneously. He meant having friends, who are possible suitors

Can't trust a man these days

Nice tips but I have issues with no.3. My friends usually talk about no.3 but I don't quite understand it or maybe I just have a different view point. When you are in a relationship, I believe you should tell every other person who is interested in you about your relationship status. Hiding it from them is the first step in cheating. That's my opinion. Its just unfortunate if he/she turns out to be a time waster. If you keep giving room to more suitors, it means you have an element of doubt in your relationship and that doubt will make you not to give it your best shot which will eventually lead to failure.

There is always the 'nobody is indispensable' syndrome and 'afterall there are many others' which makes you not to give it your best.

Hmmmmm, na wah oooo.

Well, op, i avoided all those six points on ur list.., yet, i am still a senior single girl.

Pls, i need anoda list of wat nt to avoid.., maybe it will help.

Atleast all this banga pple( nairaland guys) will give us some peace.