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10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by Babztemmy: 8:43am On Nov 15, 2013
I call it help cos we are their helpmeet, and trust me sometimes all they need is that help.
Some people believe that when you check a man's phone you are giving yourself high blood pressure, well that might be true, some people believe you should leave them cos it runs in their DNA, that might be true too. Let me tell u a short story, my aunty's marriages just crashed after 10years, she lost him to the woman that runs the boutique where her husband buys her clothes from. Why? She left him alone, she didnt help him when he probably needed it. she never asked questions even when she smells a rat. She belived in let him have peace, due to that she lost him easily. Now that man has packed out of hishouse and gone to his mistress who is now carrying his child.
Dear women, we dont have to fold our arms in the name of u dont want to have high blood pressure.. At the same time u dont av to choke them, or follow them everywhere, or ask them where they r, u can ask though, but obviously we dont always have to, u can call him and just say " i love you baby" or something nice nd romantic. Just trying to remind him u r at home nd u miss him.
Here r some tips we might wanna work with:
1) pray for him at alll times, anywhere u find urself mk sure u r praying for him. Silently or loudly.
2) please dont leave their phones ooo, dats one of the utmost places d secret u need to counter is. Note that u dont av to be a pest on him or on the phone, u could check once in 6months. If u observe anything ask him questions really gently. "The gently part is kinda hard for me though" or ask him after making out, he will answer u, if u dont feel comfy with this female friend tell him, infact suggest u do the chasing. Lol, but its easier you do the chasing either by a simple harmless call to her or text message begging her to please leave ur man, cod this wayward gurls out there r ready to destroy any good thing, they actually dont care about u or your happy home, so you have to beg them.mk sure ur hubby reads it b4 u send it, cos she might respond by insulting you or not, and u need ur husby's backing on that.
Am a leaving testimony to that, though i made a mistake by not showing him d msg b4 sending it and he really didnt believe the message i sent was trully harmless due to the response i got from the b***h So show the message to him befor you send or make sure hez dere during ur convo with her.
3) show him some good good love, remind him of how much you love him every minute, through messages or calls, even while he is doing the major in the toilet. Lol. Tell him u love him.
4) when or if u find anything on his phone, dont conclude he is guilty just yet, many times this girls are the problems, talking about the response i got from the lady: fine my husband did flirt with her, but he probably didnt want more, but the girl did and wouldnt care if he is married or not, cos she fell inlove with his personality and charisma, at that point she will willingly break a happy home. Also be careful of your choice of words cos anything u say might be held against you.
5) there is always something a man loves other than making out, either pedicures, or cleaning their ears, or playing with their hair, or face or his nails, there is always smtin else, once a while offer to do it for them. No one is forcing you to do it, but if u want him to stay then do it. If mistresses r willining to do anything to steal, then wives should be willing to do anything to keep.
6) pray again and again for him to be the man you want, love God more than anything else, am sure it wont make u happy to see your husband not make heaven. love you through fat or thin, ugly or beautiful. Love his home.
7) make sure ur husband invest in you, and your children. It always reminds them to behave.
cool Do devosions together, get a devotional guide to put you through the day. Lay ur hands on him and prophesy into his life, let him do same for you everymorning.
9) Be his LovePeddler* in bed . They love it.
10) pray for yourself to be what he wants you to be and your fellow women out there, many of them might just need ur prayers too.
I adopted this rules for my marriage and so far its bin working, am not saying it should necessarily work for you, but we could all try.
We dont always av to stick to the old school rules all the time, many times our men needs us to call them back to order, many times they dont even know what they r getting into, if you love him then help him . # okbye

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Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by Tabelachizza(f): 10:49pm On Nov 16, 2013
10"MAYBE TIPS"to "HELP"UR woman from infidelity nko?
Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by Babztemmy: 7:50am On Nov 17, 2013
Tabelachizza: 10"MAYBE TIPS"to "HELP"UR woman from infidelity nko?
Am sorry but i dont expect any responsible married woman to think it talkless of caught cheating
Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by SisterCaro(m): 10:05am On Nov 17, 2013
Tabelachizza: 10"MAYBE TIPS"to "HELP"UR woman from infidelity nko?
1. Give her money
2. Take her shopping
3. Go to the gym and get 6packs
4. Buy himself bleach cream so he doesn't look like gorilla
5. Take her to dubai or portuguese islands
6. Buy her the lastest phone
7. Buy her a car and a house
8. Only offer sex when she is in the mood
9. Pay a surrogate mother to give birth to your children, so she doesn't get fat
10. Always compliment her and tell her you love her

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Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by Babztemmy: 8:18pm On Nov 17, 2013
SisterCaro:
1. Give her money
2. Take her shopping
3. Go to the gym and get 6packs
4. Buy himself bleach cream so he doesn't look like gorilla
5. Take her to dubai or portuguese islands
6. Buy her the lastest phone
7. Buy her a car and a house
8. Only offer sex when she is in the mood
9. Pay a surrogate mother to give birth to your children, so she doesn't get fat
10. Always compliment her and tell her you love her
Lmao. I like.

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Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by mayorall(m): 10:29pm On Nov 17, 2013
Nice one Op.
Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by Babztemmy: 7:55am On Nov 19, 2013
mayorall: Nice one Op.
Wink wink
Re: 10 "Maybe" Tips To "HELP" Your Man From Infidelity by pato405(m): 3:07pm On Aug 08, 2016
OP, pls could you PM your number? We need to talk plsssssss. It's URGENT.

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