Chioma was well educated and from a rich family, but he was not well educated and was a poor driver from a poor family, yet she gave him her heart and soul.  He was not God fearing and had loose morals. They have been dating since 2005, but his infidelity hurt her badlly. He was seeing and sleeping with another woman and even moved his things into the woman's residence. She was disappointed and left Nigeria for the UK. She wanted to break up with him, but he came back begging for her forgiveness when she returned and she gave in to him.  She was very good in bed and was willing to satisfy him anytime he wanted sex. She gave him whatever would make him comfortable, because she truly loved him and wanted to be his wife for life.

He was very possessive and jealous. He felt uncomfortable anytime he saw her in the company of her male colleagues and beat her up after he saw her male colleague in her flat. She was pissed and took back the key she gave him to have access to her flat. He later pleaded for mercy and she was willing to forgive him. He seemed to be ready to make amends and he was even going to a popular pentecostal church with his aunt and they got engaged to wed last April. Then he did the worst when he was caught sleeping with the wife of a senior official in the LNG company where both of them were working. He had been seducing the wives of his bosses whilst on official duty as their chauffeur and nemesis had caught up with him. She was heart broken. The husband of the woman he slept with was so ashamed that he asked for transfer and left without the adulterous wife. The sex scandal shook the whole management and Chioma was too ashamed to hold her head high in office. This heartless driver fooled her. This was the last straw. Chioma resigned and left Nigeria for the UK without even telling us.   


I felt sorry for Chioma as Jennifer and I discussed the romantic predicament of having a relationship with a man who is like a reed in a quicksand. He was unfaithful and unworthy of being trusted with such a precious heart.
"I hope she finds her true love in the UK," I said.
"No man tramples on the heart of a woman and escapes the grave consequences," Jennifer said.
She was missing Chioma who was very close to her and she had wished that Chioma would wed after her own wedding last year.
"That is why it is always good to look before you plunge into the swimming pool of romance, lest you end up swimming in the murky waters of shame and slime," I said.

N.B:
This is a true story and the events happened in Rivers state, Nigeria. I have changed the real names of the people mentioned in the details.

Nice story oh! Tell that to all those girls who dont know how to tell when they're not wanted.

Chioma is blameless.

She believed in true love, but gave her heart to a heartless man.
God will comfort her.

Chioma was apparently sightless.

Interesting story it is not who you(women) love it is who loves you (men) for a relationship to work. Most men are domineering

Gamine:

Chioma was apparently sightless.

You get it.

aww!! sighs, , borin. too long.

@poster
are you sure its not nollywood,cause it has nollywood written all over it, chima played by stella damascus the husband played by oju yobo jim iyke and then rmd as the husband of the adulterous wife

lol

@gamine y is it that u always have nothing to say to every thread but lol?

because im tired of typing

and the topics never change

lol

@gamine now i understand. that's true anyway.

Life goes on anyway.

Many hearts are broken everyday. But that does not stop people from falling in love.

Some are lucky in love and others are unlucky.

Better know the truth before the wedlock than be stuck in an unhappy marriage.

Many marriages are nightmares.

nice story

but the chioma herself was very stupid,y fall blindly in love?does blind love still exist?

In some cases it's really hard to tell when you're not wanted BUT in this case even if he genuinely cared for her, she didn't mean much to him, he treated her appaulingly and she just had too much forgiveness in her heart. You should never let too much love overpower your logic I believe, though I have been on the receiving end I always believe that use your brain, walk away if he/she is hurting you in the process.

@topup weytin u dey type gan wey dey make ur fingers dey uncontrollable gan? too long.

The fact is she won and he lost, because she can still walk tall, but he is bad news and the stigma is public knowledge.
He had no dignity and no integrity. He would have been worse as her husband.

She is in the UK and he is far behind her.

What of the Ghanaian surgeon who had a well educated British wife and chose to have sex with their dirty and filthy housegirl who gave him pubic lice? Then he passed the lice to his innocent wife who was in a state of trauma for months.

There are many men without scruples. And it is a waste of time to give what is precious to them as Jesus Christ warned us about such dogs and pigs.

Yes, there are dogs and pigs among men.