well i am confused because i married this Nigerain man and at first i really loved him and our love was amaizing. the thing is that when time went on our marriage i met a lot of ######### and i fell in love with some of them that means i am having an affair. i want to be with this other man he is from Jamaica and he really love me and do not know how to tell my husband that i do not want to be with him anymore. we have a baby together that was in June and i am not sure if its my husbands of this other guy i love. well what can i do now because i don't want this Nigerian man anymore and i tried to show him that i want him out of my life, but he still loves me.

Tell him u are HIV positive!!!
That should send him 2000 miles away.
Goodluck.

Where are all these "white" women resurrecting from sef

umm you are a real bitch why did you marry him @ 1st, well that will teach him to marry his own people

lol

@poster it's obvious u're love with d magic stick.

marriages with white women doesnot last,it wont take long b4 she kick the jamaican out.

Simply tell him what you just told us although the HIV positive idea is quiet inticing. Think if the baby isn't his then there would be no strings attached and then your Jamaican guy will be the one (until you find another nationality). I hear Jamaican sperm is very potent and can fertilize even the most dormant of wombs. Hear say is however not admissible in court.

Let him catch you in bed with the other man. Just make sure there is nothing in the house that he can use to chop off your head and you will be fine. He will leave and never come back.

@savahana more!!! give her more stroking,dat will make her think with her head not her hole.

ladyolis:

umm you are a real bitch why did you marry him @ 1st, well that will teach him to marry his own people

Yeah, coz his "own people" are the epitome of virtuousness, eh?


@ Topic
Hate to be crude but shit happens. You aren't the first and you'll definitely not be the last.

Something was obviously missing in your marriage or you wouldn't be out there looking at another. If you think there's a chance you can work it out. . . do try and if it's done well then it is done, I say tell him as soon possible.

Good luck.

christyike:

well i am confused because i married this Nigerain man and at first i really loved him and our love was amaizing. the thing is that when time went on our marriage i met a lot of ######### and i fell in love with some of them that means i am having an affair. i want to be with this other man he is from Jamaica and he really love me and do not know how to tell my husband that i do not want to be with him anymore. we have a baby together that was in June and i am not sure if its my husbands of this other guy i love. well what can i do now because i don't want this Nigerian man anymore and i tried to show him that i want him out of my life, but he still loves me.

take him on the maury povich show.

lol

WHat is it with NL pple that makes y'all so quick to be soooooo judgemental and Immature?


to the extent that someone is calling her a bitch!!
I hate Hypocrites. . .  no one is perfect pls.

Gamine:

lol

gamine what are you laughing about? what's up baby, how's your relationship? let me know if you need any advice.

Busta:

WHat is it with Nairaland people that makes y'all so quick to be soooooo judgemental and Immature?


to the extent that someone is calling her a bitch!!
I hate Hypocrites. . . no one is perfect please.

Thank you Busta!!!
Many women would do worse than her. . . . . .

i need advice, abeg IM me quick quick!

Gamine:

i need advice, abeg IM me quick quick!

only if you promise not to bite me. i am very afraid of your paralyzing venom.

Venom, abeg oo

Elves no dey spit

@ busta what makes her then because she said she is married and she is living the her husband right now under the same roof. while she is fu cking some man WHAT MAKES HER?

Gamine:

Venom, abeg oo

Elves no dey spit

okay if you display your im I will try to get in touch within 72 hours. need to verify your credentials first.

My IM dey there, na so u blind reash!

ladyolis:

@ busta what makes her then because she said she is married and she is living the her husband right now under the same roof. while she is fu cking some man WHAT MAKES HER?

TRUE!!. . . . that don't make me or anyone else better than her
who am i judge her? . . .besides pple make mistakes and what happened to her could have happened to anyone.
I just don't see the need to call her names. . . I guess she should know better and like I always say, KARMA has a way of catching up with pple.

I really cant advise you on this one oooo
Agreed. . . . . . . .No one is perfect but. . . . . . . . . . .

At least now we are having a role reversal,,,,,,,

It is the white woman who is kicking the Naija guy out and not the other way round. Hope Oprah ()  is attuned to this

The Sly:

I really can't advise you on this one oooo
Agreed. . . . . . . .No one is perfect but. . . . . . . . . . .

But . . . . . .what??
Cut this woman some slack!!!!!
She made a mistake and she is trying to correct it. . . .Whatz the fuss in that??

Gamine:

My IM dey there, na so u blind reash!

LOL!!! Ohh   .   So is that yahoo or aim?   Your eyes are like    

Didnt u just try to add me.

Aim ko!

christyike:

well i am confused because i married this Nigerain man and at first i really loved him and our love was amaizing. the thing is that when time went on our marriage i met a lot of ######### and i fell in love with some of them that means i am having an affair. i want to be with this other man he is from Jamaica and he really love me and do not know how to tell my husband that i do not want to be with him anymore. we have a baby together that was in June and i am not sure if its my husbands of this other guy i love. well what can i do now because i don't want this Nigerian man anymore and i tried to show him that i want him out of my life, but he still loves me.

[b]Dear christyike,
From reading your thread I realized or assumed YOU ARE  A WHITE WOMAN MARRIED TO A NIGERIAN MAN. "I really loved him and our love was amaizing", which means that you loved him at the time for length of his privates and the amounts of sexual intercourse he was having with you? And afterwards you met a lot of what?? NIGGERS, AND you fell in lust with SOME OF THEM? And you want to be with one of them who is from JAMAICA, because he has a bigger privates than the Nigerian man?
          YOU ARE AN EMPICABLE REASONS WHY I ALWAYS WRITE THAT WHITE WOMEN ONLY DATE BLACK MEN FOR THE SIZE AND STRENGTH OF THEIR DICK.
On behalf of your Nigerian husband, may thunder strike you down in the name of Shango, Ogun lakaaye osinmole, olominile fejewe, olasonile fimokimo bora mAY THE AFRICAN DEITIES BRING YOU TO JUSTICE BY SUNDOWN. MAY YOU LIVE A MISERABLE LIFE FOREVER. If you don't know the meaning of my eternal blessings for you, I advice you ask members of Nairaland to interprete the blessings to you. You are even bold enough to come to NAIRALAND of all places to complain about your Nigerian husband, calling black men NIGGERS, and praising yourself for sleeping around like a dog, delivering a BASTARDIZED CHILD for a Nigerian man, on Nairaland?  I STRONGLY WISH THE JAMAICAN GIVES YOU AN IMPORTED SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES.
YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO ALL WHITE WOMEN, oloshi, odoko, asewo, alailojuti. omo Ale.[/b]

Hannibal:

But . . . . . .what??
Cut this woman some slack!!!!!
She made a mistake and she is trying to correct it. . . .Whatz the fuss in that??

Mistake is inevitable. . . . . . .True That!
I am not condemning the babe. . . .
I just don't buy the idea of these hide n seek games. . . . .
If she wants out. . . . . .Let her say it to her dude's face bluntly . . . . Its as simple as that

@ LAKANYE~

are u and are naija hubby relatives?
that one too much now?

besides the jamo guy too na black guy now . . so hin too go get the long thin if that was the case.

Gamine:

Didnt u just try to add me.

Aim ko!

No i did not try to add you yet.  I will let you know when I do.  Got my hands tied up at the moment.