do you guys believe that marriage is all about being lucky.
some people date each other for years and end up getting married to different partners

I think marriage is unlucky cause its the beginning of suffering.

i agree with anthony on this. it's an eternal cage u have to share with just one person.

i agree with anthony on this. it's an eternal cage u have to share with just one person.


stop been sentimental and be realistic there is nothing like been married to the right person is like heaven on earth so it depends on luck all u nid to do is pray and it will work for you.as for me marriage is the best thing in life.

anthony n next poster,how can u talk like that
maybe urs is really bad,better divorce

AnthonyKil:

I think marriage is unlucky cause its the beginning of suffering.

Correct yhur mentality about marriage

AnthonyKil:

I think marriage is unlucky cause its the beginning of suffering.

negative thinking won't get you anywhere, good luck

well marriage was the best thing that happened to me and yes i do believe i am totally lucky, my husband is great.

Nothing like luck in marriage, more like destiny to me!

It is over-hyped, over-exaggerated and most marriages are just a sham (becoz) U see the good-side outside whilst the ugly side is shielded!

Not everyone has "successful marriage bundles" included in thier baggage when they were created

bangbang,r u saying some people have not been destined to marry
i totally disagree wiv u

BangBang!:

Nothing like luck in marriage, more like destiny to me!

It is over-hyped, over-exaggerated and most marriages are just a sham (becoz) You see the good-side outside whilst the ugly side is shielded!

Not everyone has "successful marriage bundles" included in their baggage when they were created

i agree wt d destiny part

but marriage is not all about luck plssssssss,its all about destiny,i don't use that word luck because people fall out of luck

bangbang,r u saying some people have not been destined to marry
i totally disagree with u

people r destined to marry,u got him wrong,the thing is like i said people fal out of luck ,but your destiny remains wt u,and if ur destiny connects u to the right person,then its called destiny and not luck

princess k:

well marriage was the best thing that happened to me and yes i do believe i am totally lucky, my husband is great.

please answer frankly, how long have u been married to this great husband of urs

@topic, marriage is like a well wrapped parcel, what ever u see after unwrapping ur parcel,u take it in good faith.

Lady J:

i agree wt d destiny part

but marriage is not all about luck plssssssss,its all about destiny,i don't use that word luck because people fall out of luck



people r destined to marry,u got him wrong,the thing is like i said people fal out of luck ,but your destiny remains wt u,and if your destiny connects u to the right person,then its called destiny and not luck

@bangbang, does the above highlighted statement really make sense to u?

Lady J:

i agree wt d destiny part

but marriage is not all about luck plssssssss,its all about destiny,i don't use that word luck because people fall out of luck

exactly my point, marriage is not luck at all but your destiny is pivotal to getting married in life, if it is not destined, then it cant happen!!

redeve17:

bangbang,r u saying some people have not been destined to marry
i totally disagree with u

that is fine, u can disagree with me, it is your opinion but i stand by my words, some people are not destined to get married!!!

same as giving birth on earth, why do some people remain barren? explain to me, is it not destiny and God that controls everything?!

U are only lucky when u marry the right person.

redeve17:

do you guys believe that marriage is all about being lucky.
some people date each other for years and end up getting married to different partners

I believe the reason is that a man/woman can give you his/her body during relationship and not their heart

jkpretty:

You are only lucky when u marry the right person.

most definitely

jkpretty:

You are only lucky when u marry the right person.

That is true but both must make up their mind that it will work

I think finding the right partner to marry could be luck. Most of the time we are lucky to find the

right person for us. So, Marriage could be about been lucky.

Broses and Sistahs, let us not deceive ourselves. In my own opinion, the number one problem of problems in marriage is the failure to carry out due diligence before marriage. Many (if not most) of the problems that surface in marriages would have been seen during the courtship days if due diligence was carried out. Unfortunately sex and money blinds our eyes to these facts that and we ignore them.

Secondly, marriage involves investment. You can not cherish what you did not nourish. Invest (non-monetarily) in your woman/man. Spend time to teach them or share with them values/principles that you believe in. But guess what, you can not give what you do not have. What are your values and principles? You don't even need to have a woman/man in your life before you start preparing for or investing in your marriage. Read and do your own research about the things that make the difference between a happy and sad marriage, not only research about whether ladies fart or not.

As an example, someone posted this article (https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-150986.0.html ) on the 15th of july. It has received only 265 views and only 6 replies as at today (18th of July). If it was some junk, time wasting articles/questions about "how to sex from behind" or "how to sleep with married women", the statistics for the views and replies would have been different.

Finally, check yourself and see if 1) you are making any efforts towards having a blissful marital life and 2) your current actions are aligning you to, or taking you away from, having a blissful marital life now or in the future?

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@ chaircover
You are Lucky

chaircover:

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me. I am extreemly lucky & blessed to have met my husband, We are not newly weds & have been married for a while, Kids in secondary school.

There are ups and downs, we sometimes agree to disagree, but we both agreed before we got married that there is no going back so we just make sure that we make our home as happy as we can for ourselves and the kids.

I am also blessed with the best in-Laws in the world and I feel like I have been part of the family all my life.

Marriage is what you make it.

Most importantly marry a man/woman of integrity, what do they do when no one is looking? money is not enough reason to choose a partner.

U ve said it all, those weighty statements answers it all, ur (testimony) or posts gives me hope of gettin married someday

You better marry the person you know!

Luck has nothin to do with it.

Luck is for lazy ass people

Miss Gaminatu. . . .

I guess you ain't heard then. . . . .

Berra to be lucky than Good.

"Luck" only comes to those who know what they want!

Gamine:

"Luck" only comes to those who know what they want!

SHUWO. . , .

Na who no like better thing

Gamine:

"Luck" only comes to those who know what they want!

Err . . . that's FALLACY
Your argument is flawed

Everyone that buys a lottery ticket want to win £32mil, how many pple actually do?

How can you compare Lottery to marriage.

That is just a gamble and theres no luck involved.

So in marriage, you just marry the next female you see and expect things to work??

Please! e no dey parra like that!

eldee:

Err . . . that's FALLACY
Your argument is flawed

Everyone that buys a lottery ticket want to win £32mil, how many people actually do?

darn! you beat me to it.

Nansense.

He beat you to being Stupid, gosh!

Marriage is being lucky ke?

What do you call divorce? Luck gone bad??

Gamine:

How can you compare Lottery to marriage.

That is just a gamble and theres no luck involved.

So in marriage, you just marry the next female you see and expect things to work??

Please! e no dey parra like that!

Come, I said your argument was and is still wrong

"Luck" only comes to those who know what they want!''

There's a reason it's called LUCK
It means you got better than you expected/deserved/planned for.

I never said I supported the poster's point of view, did I?

Gamine:

Nansense.

He beat you to being Stupid, gosh!

Seriously, there's no need to be insultive
If you didn't drop that fallacious statement, u'll be sounding a whole lot more sensible than you are now