This has been bothering me for a while.i met a guy in school i.e very religious.i liked his character nd we bcame frdz cuz i wantd him to help me in my spiritual life.frm bin frdz,we startd havn feelings 4 each other.one day,he sat me down nd told me he rly loves me bt he is nt ready for commitment nd he wants us to have sex dt anytime am Hot,i shud alwz cum bk dt he wil satisfy me.am stil a V.i was dumbfounded.i tod hm t nt posible bt lately he hz bin disturbn me dat he regretd teln me d truth cuz f he hadnt,i wud v hd sex with him.he z so obsessed with dz sex issue.i stil dnt undstd d kind of frdshp.

Yes if u both are disciplined n can keep d tempo real n cool.

No...Well, thats the way nature has intended it
to be. Have you ever seen the ocean
without the sound or waves, have you
ever seen the thunder without the sound,
have you ever seen a night without a day,
have you ever seen moon but not the
sun afterword, thats how the sex is in the
life of a humanbeing, part of it...

Having read ur episode, u don't live in anyone's standard,he wants sex n u want love,two divert aims...Girl,pull out of such situation n focus on more important things dat wud add value to ur life,all he wants to do is 2 use n dump n believe u me,once u have given in,dats when love turns bitter, u don't rush things or force it to work,allow it 2 flow naturally

no. It doesnt work. Unless u want to play the part of a fool, while your gal is giving out her home theatre to another guy.

Look, speaking of which, in this game of love you ladies can never win us men, barring any thing, your indifference to the your BF demand might result in your eventual break up,which to me i don't pray for such, but if he still harangue you on this se.x issue, and you don't concede,then his love will regress...Don't blame him if he stops calling you as often but blame the world.blame your fellow women for seducing men with their skirmpy outrageous dress sense,The Ball is in your court to decide on what next move to do, you know the rest nah

He told u he wants sex only no string attached. U decide if u want 2 b a toy just 2 satisfy his sexual urge. I wish guys wil just b straight up lik dat,so we just keep walkin

Dubemkelly: Yes if u both are disciplined n can keep d tempo real n cool.

Easy to say kelly!!...nt easy no act on...d flesh is neva born again...although am running a relatnship witout sex so its very possible...bt am gotta run out of dat relatnship sooner or later..although nt because of sex oo..far frm it!!!

Baby montana: This has been bothering me for a while.i met a guy in school i.e very religious.i liked his character nd we bcame frdz cuz i wantd him to help me in my spiritual life.frm bin frdz,we startd havn feelings 4 each other.one day,he sat me down nd told me he rly loves me bt he is nt ready for commitment nd he wants us to have sex dt anytime am Hot,i shud alwz cum bk dt he wil satisfy me.am stil a V.i was dumbfounded.i tod hm t nt posible bt lately he hz bin disturbn me dat he regretd teln me d truth cuz f he hadnt,i wud v hd sex with him.he z so obsessed with dz sex issue.i stil dnt undstd d kind of frdshp.

Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. My friend just got married to her husband after a 2yr sexless relationship. It's possible. If he can't deal with no sex then bow out, after all na u get urself, don't be pushed into doing what he wants.

Dubemkelly: Having read ur episode, u don't live in anyone's standard,he wants sex n u want love,two divert aims...Girl,pull out of such situation n focus on more important things dat wud add value to ur life,all he wants to do is 2 use n dump n believe u me,once u have given in,dats when love turns bitter, u don't rush things or force it to work,allow it 2 flow naturally

.u realy nailed it.he wants sex though he claims he loves me bt i jus want love.even f we are to v sex,t shud cum naturally.i'l heed ur advice.dia are oda guys out dia

Rummenigge: And you said he's religious? If he's truly religious he won't demand for sex. He wants to use you and dump you, keep your virginity and run for your life

d religious part ws wt attractd me to him.wen i tod my galfrd,he ws askn me out.she said am vewi lucky cuz he wont ask 4 sex bt we nva knew we were wrong.

zeb04: He told u he wants sex only no string attached. U decide if u want 2 b a toy just 2 satisfy his sexual urge. I wish guys wil just b straight up lik dat,so we just keep walkin

.am hapi he was honest with me bt d truth hurts sha.he said he doesnt want to hurt me dts y he tod me bt f guys are alwz truthful,no much heartbrk

I think the best way to avoid sex is to stay away the guy's gifts and don't ask nor collect his money.

Cos immediately u start to collect he will want to collect urs too

Donalð Genes: Look, speaking of which, in this game of love you ladies can never win us men, barring any thing, your indifference to the your BF demand might result in your eventual break up,which to me i don't pray for such, but if he still harangue you on this se.x issue, and you don't concede,then his love will regress...Don't blame him if he stops calling you as often but blame the world.blame your fellow women for seducing men with their skirmpy outrageous dress sense,The Ball is in your court to decide on what next move to do, you know the rest nah

no sense in ur contribution

YES a relationship can exist without sex.

Yes! It's called LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP! I love it!

Dextra: Yes! It's called LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP! I love it!

.lol bt wt hapns when u guys see each oda.u wil actualy want to eat him up

dfav: I think the best way to avoid sex is to stay away the guy's gifts and don't ask nor collect his money.

Cos immediately u start to collect he will want to collect urs too

.i dnt ask him for anytn.am a gal who doesnt depend on guys.he jus want sex

Baby montana: .lol bt wt hapns when u guys see each oda.u wil actualy want to eat him up

Hmmmmm..... I haven't thought about that!

Daresh:

Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. My friend just got married to her husband after a 2yr sexless relationship. It's possible. If he can't deal with no sex then bow out, after all na u get urself, don't be pushed into doing what he wants.

.tanx dear.i wil heed ur advice

mencade6:
no. It doesnt work. Unless u want to play the part of a fool, while your gal is giving out her home theatre to another guy.

lol @ home theatre

zeb04:
U decide if u want 2 b a toy just 2 satisfy his sexual urge.

she will also satisfy HER sexual urge too or is it only guys that enjoy sex?

zeb04:
He told u he wants sex only no string attached. U decide if u want 2 b a toy just 2 satisfy his sexual urge. I wish guys wil just b straight up lik dat,so we just keep walkin

wat do mean by "satisfy his sexual urge"? is she givin him a blowjobbb? u made sex sound as if it only enjoyed by d guy!! c'mon u girls should stop dis mentality ibeg

youngds:


wat do mean by "satisfy his sexual urge"? is she givin him a blowjobbb? u made sex sound as if it only enjoyed by d guy!! c'mon u girls should stop dis mentality ibeg

tell them o

Rummenigge:
And you said he's religious? If he's truly religious he won't demand for sex. He wants to use you and dump you, keep your virginity and run for your life

seconded.We stand 2 b corrected.

it is possible. sexual urge can only be quenched by jesus christ

Giftedscholar:



Easy to say kelly!!...nt easy no act on...d flesh is neva born again...although am running a relatnship witout sex so its very possible...bt am gotta run out of dat relatnship sooner or later..although nt because of sex oo..far frm it!!!

#sameTeam . Dat stuff called relationship is just so draining in every aspect. Tho' am the #NoS*x type and when we started she said she wont ask for it because she be confirm V and i be confirm V too. I cant just imagine she is bothering me now. She's even affecting me with her "demand" the only thing that has kept her all this why is the Distance btw us.

agudaisy:
no sense in ur contribution

You hit the nail

Pls,dnt be deceive by that fake brother,how could a man of God asking for sex from a lady make to be another man wife?be wise.