I am a working class lady and it took me 5 years to finally register that i am not available to my male bosses. I am strong hearted and was subjected to humiliating schedules yet i did not give in. Why is such practice allowed?

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It takes strong will not to be bullied

ammyluv2002: It takes strong will not to be bullied

Very true

Not all male bosses!

Iaz93: Not all male bosses!

thats true.not all male bosses.an example is my boss.he is very strict and soesnt have time for nonsense.infact he only plays once in a while.even when he calls me into his office and he is discussing with me,it is strictly official.he doesnt look at me from my neck down wards.he carries a straight and serious looking face when he is talking to me and whenever he calls me into his office,he asks me to leave his door opened and shut it behind me when i leave.


So is it such a type of person that will presurize a lady into an affair.someone that will say,please if you know you dont have anything official to say,dont come into my office.as a matter of fact,the distance between him and you is his table which is very big.dr xyz no get time for woman,so who he wan pressurize.if you like dress naked enter im office,if its not official,the way he go drive you out no go get part 2

sometimes sef i wonder whether he has had experiences with sexual harassment because i have noticed he is more strict with ladies than guys.he is more jovial with guys,but with ladies,he keeps them at arms length

^^^^ ladies can be deceptive, probably that's why he is plain with them.

@OP, I must say that you are one of the women I adore. May U surpass Prof Akunyili achievements.

kulyie: thats true.not all male bosses.an example is my boss.he is very strict and soesnt have time for nonsense.infact he only plays once in a while.even when he calls me into his office and he is discussing with me,it is strictly official.he doesnt look at me from my neck down wards.he carries a straight and serious looking face when he is talking to me and whenever he calls me into his office,he asks me to leave his door opened and shut it behind me when i leave.


So is it such a type of person that will presurize a lady into an affair.someone that will say,please if you know you dont have anything official to say,dont come into my office.as a matter of fact,the distance between him and you is his table which is very big.dr xyz no get time for woman,so who he wan pressurize.if you like dress naked enter im office,if its not official,the way he go drive you out no go get part 2

sometimes sef i wonder whether he has had experiences with sexual harassment because i have noticed he is more strict with ladies than guys.he is more jovial with guys,but with ladies,he keeps them at arms length

Correct!

Some men can't control their urge. The OP's boss is one.