Pls, i need an urgent advice, i have a wife with a son of almost a year and d problem is that my wife dos'nt listing to me at all. She is d angree type always like to dominate me nd everything about me. She pick offence at every little opportunity. At a point am seriously considering divouse but each time i look at my son i felf so soory for even thinking that way. I dont love anymore. I donot knw what to do... I need advice frm nairalanders.

Try the family sectrion

Poliz: Pls, i need an urgent advice, i have a wife with a son of almost a year and d problem is that my wife dos'nt listing to me at all. She is d angree type always like to dominate me nd everything about me. She pick offence at every little opportunity. At a point am seriously considering divouse but each time i look at my son i felf so soory for even thinking that way. I dont love anymore. I donot knw what to do... I need advice frm nairalanders.

How does she manage that sir?

Poliz: Pls, i need an urgent advice, i have a wife with a son of almost a year and d problem is that my wife dos'nt listing to me at all. She is d angree type always like to dominate me nd everything about me. She pick offence at every little opportunity. At a point am seriously considering divouse but each time i look at my son i felf so soory for even thinking that way. I dont love anymore. I donot knw what to do... I need advice frm nairalanders.

okay sir!calw down 1st!

Lets now consider some tings!
+are u both working?
+wen last did u both did anytin togeda
+do u both attend church?
+who pays the bijs in the house!

Then let us move to more sensitive issues
+wen everywhere is nt heated up.try,try listen to what she is saying(do not add/subtract)understand exactly what she said witout biase.now u know what she wants u compare wit u on expectations.dnt mak deciion yet.table everytin between u both reach a compromise!
2.u also need to go out often witout the kid,jst to rekindle romantic feeling
3.always spend time praying 2geda & praying for 1 anoda selflessly.
3.dnt little tins lik buying fruits
4.hug ur wife evry morng b4 goin to wk!
5.try giving her som responsiblties in the house to handle nt just house chores!
6.let her wit tim understand u!

Lol,orisirisi.let me first go and eat this yam and egg before comming back,o well,not after em family section clowns have come to display.


Albeit,your spellings and mode of communication is cracking me up i must confess

@op.your marriage is still young and at teething stage. You are both still learning about and understanding each other. Just as you are learning to become the husband she needs, she is also learning to be your wife.

Having said that, you need to love her. Love here is an action word and it covers all things. if she's not listening to you, correct her in love and watch her change. She will begin to feel odd if you treat her well and she is misbehaving.

God will help you.... but don't throw in the towel. Shalom.

Don't you noticed all this character in her before marriage

OR

You marry her out of pity?

My advice

i strongly believed your quarrel must not be all days.
Any day you have so much smile between both of you. Wake her at the mid of that night. Speak to her in a lovely language and let her know how joyful and fulfilled a peaceful family could be.

Miner13: My advice

i strongly believed your quarrel must not be all days.
Any day you have so much smile between both of you. Wake her at the mid of that night. Speak to her in a lovely language and let her know how joyful and fulfilled a peaceful family could be.

op neva try wale up a woman in the mid nit

baralatie:
op neva try wale up a woman in the mid nit

e.g a woman like me.i no dey use my sleep play 8-)

anything you want to say can wait till day break

kulyie: Lol,orisirisi.let me first go and eat this yam and egg before comming back,o well,not after em family section clowns have come to display.


Albeit,your spellings and mode of communication is cracking me up i must confess

That is, eh... You nor see as I take hand cover mouth??

You try @op?

The laugh no gree make I make sense!