There is this guy that likes me , and I had lunch with him three times ,so we had dinner last week ,and I offer to paid for the meal because I don't feel comfortable with him always paying . It was like I insulted the guy , he said why did i spoil good time we were having by offering to pay. He gave a list for all the reason why he should pay . He said its was biblical that he pays because he made more money than me, He asked me out so he should pay, he the guy... I was upset & shocked by his actions. He apologized and said that he knows I meant well , but he will pay the bill because he is the guy , and he did. What are your opinions on this guy ? Huge ego ? Who should pay for dinner on a date?

See too much money...
Una come dey fight on top who go pay for dinner
Abeg, wire that dinner money to me sharpaly jare

@op... your tenses are...

Anyone can pay tho

Joliecoco: There is this guy that likes me , and I have had lunch with him three times , so we had dinner last week ,and I offer to paid for the meal because I don't feel comfortable with him always paying . It was like I insulted the guy , he said why did i spoil good time we were having by offering to pay. He give a list for all the reason why he should pay . He said its was biblical that he pays because he made more money than me, He asked me out so he should pay, he the guy... He realized that I was upset & shocked by what was happening. He apologized and said that he know I mean well , but he will pay the bill because he is the guy , and he did. What are your opinions on this guy ? Huge ego ? Who should pay for dinner on a date?

Some men just have massively big egos and are too proud. I personally find it disgusting, even in times of need, they'll still be forming. Mschew

Its a crazy world we live in, I swear. Lol

Are you a gay?

For you to offer to pay for the dinner you both had, that speaks well of you. Your type may not necessarily be a burden or a parasite, we don't get to see such gestures so often, very very rare.

Well for the guy, he is just trying to form Mr nice and caring guy. You know when you're in the early stages of a r/ ship, as a guy, you'll like to impress the girl and make her feel loved. But that was unnecessary, since you offered to pay, he should have just it be.

But again, he may have though that you were trying to 'test' him to see what his reaction would be cos some girls are known to always come up with some really crazy and silly tactics.

Its people like you that make ASUU go on strike half baked graduates. Go back to your village and stop feeding us with fake stories.

The guy's a learner. There's no need to be angry even if he disagrees with you about paying. His attitude=red flag. Be careful.

@op where have u been all my life

shizzle11: For you to offer to pay for the dinner you both had, that speaks well of you. Your type may not necessarily be a burden or a parasite, we don't get to see such gestures so often, very very rare.

Well for the guy, he is just trying to form Mr nice and caring guy. You know when you're in the early stages of a r/ ship, as a guy, you'll like to impress the girl and make her feel loved. But that was unnecessary, since you offered to pay, he should have just it be.

But again, he may have though that you were trying to 'test' him to see what his reaction would be cos some girls are known to always come up with some really crazy and silly tactics.

Exactly, I felt bad because he always paid when we go out. He should have simply accepted the offer , but he went on about the amt of money he made which was unnecessary . Money does not impress me, character us very important to me.

Joliecoco: Exactly, I felt bad because he always paid when we go out. He should have simply accepted the offer , but he went on about the amt of money he made which was unnecessary . Money does not impress me, character us very important to me.

Nne what's with u and dis 'paid'? U do know oda tenses of d word exists n are to b used? Abeg change ur title to 'pay' joor!

ok...i hear u