The best advice I ever gotten from relationship talks is ' Marry ur friend ' .
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But why do girls finds it difficult to develop sexual feelings for a friend preferring an unknown lover

Sometimes dt frendship ends wen u declare ur intimate feelings 2 a close frnd...he or she might not see u dt way nd dt mit cause he or she to withdraw a little,so I say "as much as its good to date someone u really know,its as dangerous also"

I really would love to know how dangerous it is , cos in a relationship we spend most time try to know n understand our partner , so why don't u go into a relationship with someone u already know very well

K let me come out plain
There is this wonderful female friend of mine , we talk , play together but when I want to press something , she will not get angry , she will just stylishly turn herself laughing n tell me to mind my business .
Earlier in the year , a friend of mine came to my place n before u could know , they were hooked up and my friend even said she initiated a kissing stunt on him but for me peck na once a month.
Luckily this guy don get transferred n their stuff cut prematurely but still no way for me
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WHY
As I dey type this , she dey bed with me now . She even know some girl wey dey come for me

Am not the best in this things, but err...let me try.


Maybe she wants you to come out clean and state your intentions, instead of trying to go round the corner with her. Your friend probably cut the goose chase and that's why she allowed him extra 'touching'

If she's in your bed, means she likes you, but then you still have to tell her what it is you want, stop playing in the friendship zone and tell her you are aiming for more.

Unless, she's pretending and acting coy...for nothing that is. You know you can't just understand some girls.


#TeamArmChairCounsellors


and in another development,

IT, you're cheating on me?
well tell that sissy, that am Mrs Bomb and she should be out before i return from school

^^^
Before you return from school.

Very hilarious stuff! In relationships, I've never been tongue-tied in my life, friend or foe. I'll tell you plainly if I love, like or hate you. To hell with the consequence!

Somehow you will feel as if u r taking advantage of her closeness .
At least I ve shown her my intentions , why can't she just take me in or get the hell outta my way

ITbomb:
Somehow you will feel as if u r taking advantage of her closeness .
At least I ve shown her my intentions , why can't she just take me in or get the hell outta my way

IT don provoke

sorry dude, I guess its a female thing - eating their cake and having it at the same time, me sef don tire.

Bros, it seems like you've been friendzoned or worse still, familyzoned...

Seriously, if she doesn't reciprocate, just look elsewhere while being friends that is if you still can...

IT finally opened up

I'm coming oh! Make I go invite others

Larry-sun and princesa are already here! The party is not complete without foxy, maishot, efe, gluv and the rest of the crew

ItBomb hahahahahahaha

The other day, maishot was whining that his wife locked him outside; asking him to chose between Arsenal and her; now its IT

I dey come, make I prepare special advice for you

@Feraz , the friendzone stuff is not a problem to me , I broke a friendzoned wall to someone's heart last year n I could do it again but I'm not sure about going steady with her but she should make a friend happy once in a while.
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@Mazi, See y I no bin wan go direct, SMH .

ITbomb:
Somehow you will feel as if u r taking advantage of her closeness .
At least I ve shown her my intentions , why can't she just take me in or get the hell outta my way

Shown?

I meant talk. Like open ur mouth and talk about it. Don't know but i think showing doesn't just cut it.

Man up, talk to her, hear what she has to say, know your stand with her and make your decision.

Showing me you are interested in me doesn't move me, if you've not asked, am not assuming or going to read your mind, so that i don't jump the gun and imagine things where they are nothing. She might be trying to be cautious too.


The key is communication. Enuf said.

The truth is that you are in the 'Friend-zone'. Once you fix yourself inside that zone, its hard to get off! I can imagine how you feel when you saw the spark between your friend and her . Trust me, its happened to me b4; and its not a pleasant experience! Has she told you that you're like a brother to her? Hahahaha! I heard that once . You really don't have to listen to princesa; she's just plain jealous

Now let's get serious. You're in the friend zone and its hard to undo. She loves your company and maybe scared the relationship thing may just ruin it all...

Or (the hard truth)...

She doesn't see you as a bf material! She sees you as a nice friend, a calm, easy and good lad; wonderful confidant and advisor. She doesn't see much to fall for; or better still, you haven't shown her much to trip her. Girls like good guys, but prefers 'bad' guys for dating. When it comes to marriage, trust me, you'll be her number one choice; but right now, she needs a rugged guy to make her moan and scream! She doesn't see that in you.

You need to stop playing the gentle man card and go for the kill!

I'll be right back with more if you so need it.

Right now, I can't stop laughing

Jmoor is here already! He will soon go all religious on you

You don enter one chance be that!

Mazi_Omenuko:
Jmoor is here already! He will soon go all religious on you

You don enter one chance be that!

lol, now that you're here, i can rest easy cos my IT is in good hands, afterall, what do i know?

and yes am jealous
that lady is playing with my IT

ITbomb: We have treated ur case before but I will still ask Ifa , it may be a case of spiritual wife

This was your response to someone else in your similar dilemma

What goes around sure comes around

Wait, make I consult amadioha, it could be a case of familiar spirit

@Mazi , to be sincere the friendzone stuff is not a bother .
This is a nice girl I would really love to have as a wife but if I'm to go all the way n talk like Princesa said right now and peradventure she agrees , my life will be one hell of a complication.
All I'm asking is to please a friend once in a while at least for the fuel I burn to give her light to watch movies , charge phone , sleep on my bed , small recharge etc

Mazi_Omenuko: The truth is that you are in the 'Friend-zone'. Once you fix yourself inside that zone, its hard to get off! I can imagine how you feel when you saw the spark between your friend and her . Trust me, its happened to me b4; and its not a pleasant experience! Has she told you that you're like a brother to her? Hahahaha! I heard that once . You really don't have to listen to princesa; she's just plain jealous

Now let's get serious. You're in the friend zone and its hard to undo. She loves your company and maybe scared the relationship thing may just ruin it all...

Or (the hard truth)...

She doesn't see you as a bf material! She sees you as a nice friend, a calm, easy and good lad; wonderful confidant and advisor. She doesn't see much to fall for; or better still, you haven't shown her much to trip her. Girls like good guys, but prefers 'bad' guys for dating. When it comes to marriage, trust me, you'll be her number one choice; but right now, she needs a rugged guy to make her moan and scream! She doesn't see that in you.

You need to stop playing the gentle man card and go for the kill!

I'll be right back with more if you so need it.

Right now, I can't stop laughing

Oga Maaaaaaazii !
You don't seem to have changed oo

plainmirror:

Oga Maaaaaaazii !
You don't seem to have changed oo

Aahhhhh!!! My good friend! Long time no see! My battery go soon run down so make I use the small remaining bar laugh at my friend IT

Friend-zone unlimited! See but don't touch; feel but don't consummate; imagine but don't create

Friends for life!!!!

You have been friendzoned bro

You are 6 feet deep into the friendzone

friendly zone....stay clear!!!!

ITbomb: @Feraz , the friendzone stuff is not a problem to me , I broke a friendzoned wall to someone's heart last year n I could do it again but I'm not sure about going steady with her but she should make a friend happy once in a while.
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@Mazi, See y I no bin wan go direct, SMH .

Are you ready to sacrifice your friendship for some fizzling emotion? I always thought friendship was more important though.

E be like say i go port to friendzone too?

Eat ur cake and have it kinda zone.

IT burns fuel and charges phone, yet nothing. Am gradually grasping the picture

^^^ Don't you ever try it

ITbomb: @Feraz , the friendzone stuff is not a problem to me , I broke a friendzoned wall to someone's heart last year n I could do it again but I'm not sure about going steady with her but she should make a friend happy once in a while.
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@Mazi, See y I no bin wan go direct, SMH .

There's still hope in the friendzone compared to familyzone which I think is the zone you are in... I mean, she's in your room and she's prolly thinking you can't do anything even if you see...

Mazi_Omenuko:

Aahhhhh!!! My good friend! Long time no see! My battery go soon run down so make I use the small remaining bar laugh at my friend IT

Friend-zone unlimited! See but don't touch; feel but don't consummate; imagine but don't create

Friends for life!!!!

Maybe you should check this

Choicegirl:

Are you ready to sacrifice your friendship for some fizzling emotion? I always thought friendship was more important though.

when will d friendship not get strained abeg... he is gonna get tired if he cont lik dis

ITbomb:
^^^ Don't you ever try it

aww honey, don't get angry, we've passed the bridge already, no more friendzone for me



am jez talking about the future though

#TeamFriendZone

@itbomb "GUY CODE" make the girl jealous, tell her that her friend is hot! make her think you are into some of her friends...

Nothing excites a girl more than a mysterious douchebag.
The moment they get to know you well, forget it. You will be sentenced to the jail of friend zone by default.

losprince: @itbomb "GUY CODE" make the girl jealous, tell her that her friend is hot! make her think you are into some of her friends...

You are the man , I will try this n come back with situation report

Maybe she's one of those women who think male friends shouldn't become male livers. But if she trusts you enough to be on your bed, that's a very good sign on the level of trust she his for you IMO.