We All Know The Rules Surrounding Dating
Especially If You Are A Lady That Wants To
Make The First Move And You Are From Nigeria.
Our Society Strongly Frowns At It, They Don't
Care Who You Are Or The Position You Hold In
The Society, They Don't Even Believe That This
Is 21st Century That Things Has Changed. They
Will Tell You That Approaching A Guy First Is A
Sign Of Desperation Or That You Are A LovePeddler
Don't Listen To Them Except You Want To End
Up Like Me That Went From Wanting To Be
Lover, Possibly A Wife To A Chief Bride's Maid.
It All Started One Christmas Period And I Saw
This Car Pull Up And The Owner Came Out, He
Was The New Occupant Of The New House
Across Ours. He Was Tall, He Had This Huge
Shoulder That Was From Years Of Work Out, He
Was Tall, Cute, Has This Great Arms That A Lady
Wouldn't Mind Laying On 24/7, Red Lips, (The
Type Of Lips You Always Want To Feel On All
Part Of You). He Has This Killer Smile That Will
Make A Lady Stutter And Lost For Word, A Kind
Of Touch That Will Sent Shiver Down A
Woman's Spine, He Has This Accent That You
Would Think He Is From Mexico And The Way
He Walked Made Ladies Jaw Dropped And Guys
Envy Of Him. His Name Was Derrick. Yes
Derrick Like That Of One Movie Star That Acted
Greg Anatomy, He Played The Role Of A
Resident/Doctor And A Lover To Meredith Greg
An Intern. Unlike Me Meredith Had A Lot Of
Courage. It Took Me Six Months To Know His
Name, Because I Was The Shy Type And I Only
Got To Know His Name When He Accidentally
Bumped Into Me.
Derrick Was My Secret Crush And I Was Madly
In Love With Him. I Told My Mama She Told
Me That On No Account Should I Be The First
To Woo Derrick That It Was A Man's Job To Do
The Chasing Not The Woman's, That In Her Time
My Father Did The Chasing She Just Gave Him
Hint That She Wanted Him And That Was How
They Got Married. In Her Own Quote She Said
Esther, You Must Never Go After A Man Let
Him Come After You If You Want To Be
Respected And Valued. My Friends Too Said
Same Thing That It Wasn't Right And Ladylike. I
Was Dying In Silent For Three Years Hoping He
Would Do The Chasing When I Couldn't Take It
Anymore, I Muster Up Courage, Put On My
Sexy Outfit, An High heels And A Red Lip, Cause
I Heard Somewhere That It Brings Confidence.
Damn The Consequences I Walked Over To His
House, Rang The Bell And He Opened The Door,
He Was Wearing A Black Long Sleeves Shirt,
Button Down And A Blazer With A Cute Smile.
Damn! He Was Fine. I Said To Him Derrick
Would You Like To Have Dinner With Me And
He Replied I Thought You Would Never Ask.
I Felt This Touch Like Someone Was Trying To
Get My Attention, I Was Startled When My
Book Fell Off My Lap, I Realized I Was In A
Coffee Shop And I Must Had Dozed Off And It
Was All A Dream, But When I Turned He Was
Standing There, He Said Hey Esther! Sorry For
Waking U Up I Just Needed To Give You
Something And I Asked What?He Brought Out A
White Envelope And Said Am Getting Married
And This Is Your Invite, I Didn't Know Whether
To Laugh Or Cry. I Just Sat There Like One Of
Those Robots You See On Television, When I
Finally Gathered Myself From The Shock, I
Asked Him I Never Knew You Had A Fiancée And
He Replied
Derrick: It A Funny Story
Me: Tell Me
Derrick: Am A Man That Likes Being
Approached By A Lady, I Have Great Respect
For Such Lady Cause She Knows What She
Wants And Go After It So When She Came Along
I Just Knew She Was The One.
Me: Wow
Derrick: So Would You Do Me The Favor Of
Being My Fiancée Bride's Maid? Cause She Is
New In Town
Me: Sure
My Advice To All Ladies If You See A Guy You
Like Don't Hesitate To Let Him Know How You
Feel Cause If You Don't Someone Else Will.
Forget What People Will Say Or What The Guy
Will Think Of You. If He Rejects You, At Least
You Tried And If He Accepts, You Took A
Chance. Don't Die In Silent And Allow A Good
Man Pass You By... Cheers

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Hmmnn. R U sure diz ur story aint cooked up??

Sounds cooked up jo. Coffee shop my a..s!

sarbest001: Hmmnn. R U sure diz ur story aint cooked up??

Obviously