Hello nairalanders, here are some few things we need to understand: when i was still a small boy my mum always told me that if i do good by obeying elders i did it for myself and she also tells me that if i did bad i also did it for myself.
One day, i took money from my mother that i wanted to pay for my fees. I misplaced the money and i told my dad but he did'nt believe me, i told my mum but she replied saying'if you stole the money i did it for myself, but if i misplaced it, i also did if for myself'.. I felt scared,ashamed and stupid.
Pls i really need to know what she meant..