lets be honest here, Fellas do u check her phone and read her text messages?? well i confess i do and i nopticed that her collegue who is married and knows me very well, was asking her 2 date him by d side. i was so put off and i called him to ask wat all dat rubbish was abt. he reported to her and now she is taking it out on me for callin d guy, sayin she could hav handle him her herself. wat do u think

i think you should not have snooped on her phone in the first place.
you should trust her and respect the fact that she is still entitled to some privacy.
even married women get asked out,so there really is no big deal in in her colleague asking her out.it happens often.
besides,she did (or has) not accepted.
i think your snooping round will only make her not love you as before because she would feel you dont trust her or something.
i personally never look at their phones,and i would not appreciate a lady spying on my phone either.
there has to be some trust and respect of the privacy in a relationship.

Everyone is entitled to his or her privacy, don't go snooping through people's phones. Some time ago i would have bothered over this, but now i don't care, if u go through my phone without my permission u've got to learn to battle with the emotional torment.

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i love your girl already, she can handle her issues herself so quit ur help from her privacy.

When you go looking for trouble you often times find it. You should not be snooping.

@ Topic
Personally, I wouldn't do it to a guy because if I find something I don't like then I'll have to get mad and do the whole "I am mad at you but I won't tell you why because I want you to automatically guess why I am mad even though I know it's not possible but it doesn't stop me from getting madder because you can't tell" thing and when I do finally tell him, we will now have the real fight. . . quite frankly, I'm too lazy for that. It's better I stay away from the phone.

In that vain, I refuse to be held responsible for whatever he sees in my phone while snooping. Your girl is on the right track. . . being mad at you, I mean.

Curiosity killed the cat is a quote I take very seriously.

Thats what guys with low self esteem do

Whatever gave yhu d guts to call d dude?

When im not there my guy loves to read my text messages, I now call him snoop dog.

No, its just wrong,

its wrong to go snooping around. Everyone needs privacy. Ur girl is treating u nice if i wuz the one i would be flaming mad. Just remember this "wat u don't know won't hurt you " don't give ur self a high bp it aint good for you

I am not a guy but I hate Whem My man answer my phone calls when I am in the room. I hate also when He read my texts and my e-mails. I should have never told him the ID.

i read and in fact it is necessary to read your woman's messages. however it has to be done covertly. that's the only way you can catch the ones that are cheating.

No, thats wrong, I say you deserve whatever reaction you get. You are breaching upon her privacy.