hello nairalanders, i am in a quagmire on my choice of man. the first guy works with an oil company and he is AS while the second one is struggling as the MD of a microfinance bank but he is AA. i dont know which to go for, but i really prefer the AS guy but genotype problem.this is a marriage issue .
pls help cos your advice is needed

What is your genotype

How u take get the two of them sef?

How did you get into this situation? Were you dating the both of them? What is the problem with AS genotype? are you AS yourself?
If money isn't an issue, then go with the person that you wouldn't mind being with forever.

I really wonder why some people will have spare tyres and things.

dating two guys? nawa o

Gamine:

I really wonder why some people will have spare tyres and things.

dating two guys? nawa o

lol,it's fun o

nana:

lol,it's fun o

fun ko

not surprised,all runs finally ends up in a dilemna

Fun ke?

omo, u never see trouble

den ur mouth no go say fun, e go turn

if am not mistaken,this is the same aisha that told us sometime ago that she got a new man and a new everything, but darling u didn't say u got new men,

@topic, tell us ur genotype maybe then we'll decide.

nana:

lol,it's fun o

@Hazel

she is not the same person

that was aisha2

Nana ahhhhh
dating 2 guys is fun
ashiri ti tu!!!

@Poster
e be like say na money u dey find for the thingy
from ur description of those dudes, nothing to show how well behaved they are. what mssg are you passing across?
that u only date men with deep pockets!!!

what about their attributes like morality, decency, honesty, integrity, probity et al
na real wa!

@ poster

there is no need to be confused.
your case dey very simple.
if you are AS,you should not marry AS. Simple.
unless u want to tempt fate.
if u risk am go born sicker picken,then your eye go open.

if u be AA,then give us more info,we go fit help you decide.

Don't make a choice based on pay grade . . . they are both employees and can loose everything in a blink . . .

@gamine, thanks dear for the info.

the solution is very simple.

marry the AS and use the AA to father your kids.
that way u still eat both ur cake and ice-cream. lol

@poster,you are a gold digger
why not date hustler?

@poster the way you described the struggling m.d. tells us whom you've already chosen so why ask again? you're obviously after the oil money, hope you won't regret it.

@ poster

why the emphasis on their jobs and position?

@Poster
Take a day off, sit down and take a self-assessment
Ask yourself, 'what do I really want?'

Make a mental scale of preference, will you risk your childrens' health for financial stability?
Will you be ready to keep hoping with the struggling bloke?
What do they have that will buy you to their sides?

When you're done wiv 'em questions, you've solved your problem

Let your mind guide you. or you get your self another man.

i am AS myself and the struggling M/D seems to have good character than the oil guy who is AS as well but you know in marriage everything must be put into consideration .That is why i am asking
Thank you all for your response. i am expecting more genuine response

u prefer the AS guy because he works in an oil coy? na lie?

follow ur heart jare my sister, God dey!

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@Poster.

First off, I cannot commend you for dating 2 men at the same time. Not sure what this world is coming too sef. Oga oh, oshi nile pako.

Secondly, I will for the sake of your future children and marriage, marry the AA genotype guy. It has been said that 1 out of 4 will be SS with to AS's BEING married but I have witnessed a marriage with all 3 children that have SS genotypes and 1 of the children just passed away few months ago. Other than that, it will be selfish for you to put your child's life at risk because of the love you have for someone or the wealth that they have. You know the facts now of their genotypes so ignorance will not be an excuse.

Always Remember, no condition is permanent so a wealthy man today could be a pauper tomorrow.

goodluck to you double dater

You did not say one is loving, God fearing and very attentive all that is obviously important in making this decision is their money or potential to make money. Do you even LOVE any of them?

I don't know why people are upset that she was dating two guys at the same time?Did you want her to put her eggs in one basket?These days you have got to plan well and always have a plan B.As long as she wasn't screwing both of them,I see nothing wrong in dating two people.

@Poster,what is your genotype?That should be a major factor in your decision not the job either of those guys have.Status can change at any time.

I Wonder how this one will stay fateful in her marriage.



Lechatee

You are have warped values, thats why you don't see anything wrong in it.

Studentet:

I Wonder how this one will stay fateful in her marriage.



Lechatee

You are have warped values, thats why you don't see anything wrong in it.

Since your own values are not warped,kindly tell me what's wrong with dating two people if you are not screwing either of them.

Lechatee.

Wrong because your heart is already deceitful.