From a male LIB.

They dated for over six years and she had five abortions for him. He was worried that she wouldn't bear children in the future so, he called off the relationship. He also claim that he was in a hurry to get married and have children because he is the only son of the family. But, he recently learned that she stood up naked in her compound n kept on cursing him. So he is scared and wondering if the curse will surely affect him.

I kept wondering myself, are we to advice him or curse him as well? Lolz. Every action, good or bad, is followed by a reward. Wats gonna b his reward?

Spedy: From a male LIB.

They dated for over six years and she had five abortions for him. He was worried that she wouldn't bear children in the future so, he called off the relationship. He also claim that he was in a hurry to get married and have children because he is the only son of the family. But, he recently learned that she stood up naked in her compound n kept on cursing him. So he is scared and wondering if the curse will surely affect him.

I kept wondering myself, are we to advice him or curse him as well? Lolz. Every action, good or bad, is followed by a reward. Wats gonna b his reward?

He should tell us the truth, he has another girlfriend, if he has faith that his new wife will bear him kids, he might as well have faith that his girlie who aborted for him severally will bear him kids. Shikena. Faith is faith

Yes ke.....the curse go catch am, overtake and destroy him, then continuing in the lives of his children and great grand sef.

no amount of MFM's deliverance go solve this kin matter o!

U think u fit chop ur cake and still possess it. Mbanu! Rara! ko jo o!

U wanna use and dump abi.......ko de ni ragba fun o!

Pls advice the lady to deep her hand in her a55 and curse him... That one works faster and it's very effective.

This is serious trouble o! Not 1, not 2, not 3, not even 4 abortions... 5

Now you realise you need to quickly marry and have kids?

You have surely heaped curses upon yourself.

So bad

The curse will affect and overtake him..He's wicked..What if the lady he's in a hurry to get married to doesn't bear children,what will he do?..

When he was enjoying her for six years he was not in a hurry to get married,,now he's in a hurry..Na God go torture am!

ayobase: Yes ke.....the curse go catch am, overtake and destroy him, then continuing in the lives of his children and great grand sef.

no amount of MFM's deliverance go solve this kin matter o!

U think u fit chop ur cake and still possess it. Mbanu! Rara! ko jo o!

U wanna use and dump abi.......ko de ni ragba fun o!

Ά̲̣̣̣̥​п̥̥̲̣̣̣̥​ƌ̲̣̣̣̥ S̴̩☺̴̩̩̥̩̩̩ shall it be

The only way the curse will get the bastard is if she kills him herself.

ayobase: Yes ke.....the curse go catch am, overtake and destroy him, then continuing in the lives of his children and great grand sef.

no amount of MFM's deliverance go solve this kin matter o!

U think u fit chop ur cake and still possess it. Mbanu! Rara! ko jo o!

U wanna use and dump abi.......ko de ni ragba fun o!

True talk

5 abortions?

Nonso23: Curse ko, course ni.
Abeg, if you are no longer comfortable with the lady, get out of the relationship jor.
Proverbs 26:2
Like a fluttering sparrow
or a darting swallow, an
undeserved curse will
not land on its intended
victim.
Who forced her to have pre-marital sex, who forced her not to use contraceptives, who forced her to have her 1st abortion, why did she still go on to have the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th?
The relationship was damaging her but she chose to stay. Well, this is her karma. Hope she enjoys it.
NB: Don't even try to play the victim card here.

u are such an idiat!!!!!!, wen she had d second abortion y didn't d ignoramus of a boyfriend advice her to use contraceptives? and wetin do d bf wey e no fit use condom? abi shey condom na abomination for him village? wat if na d six children wey she don abort wey God don give am? Now e wan com chop clean mouth Like say Nothing Happen. Make thunder plus liightening Strike am and overtake am!!

He should tell us the truth, he has another girlfriend, if he has faith that his new wife will bear him kids, he might as well have faith that his girlie who aborted for him severally will bear him kids. Shikena. Faith is faith.


Who knows maybe the wife he wants 2 marry had done more dan five abortions. Faith na faith.

Nonso23: Curse ko, course ni.
Abeg, if you are no longer comfortable with the lady, get out of the relationship jor.
Proverbs 26:2
Like a fluttering sparrow
or a darting swallow, an
undeserved curse will
not land on its intended
victim.
Who forced her to have pre-marital sex, who forced her not to use contraceptives, who forced her to have her 1st abortion, why did she still go on to have the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th?
The relationship was damaging her but she chose to stay. Well, this is her karma. Hope she enjoys it.
NB: Don't even try to play the victim card here.

are u sure he is nt ur brother? U sound more lik him.

Spedy: From a male LIB.

They dated for over six years and she had five abortions for him. He was worried that she wouldn't bear children in the future so, he called off the relationship. He also claim that he was in a hurry to get married and have children because he is the only son of the family. But, he recently learned that she stood up naked in her compound n kept on cursing him. So he is scared and wondering if the curse will surely affect him.

I kept wondering myself, are we to advice him or curse him as well? Lolz. Every action, good or bad, is followed by a reward. Wats gonna b his reward?

Off course it will! I mean why not? After knacking all the Akpakos and hitting all the soft furnishes, you want to bail abi? Better marry the girl if you nor wan die.. Chop n Clean Mouth like you!

Nonso23: Curse ko, course ni.
Abeg, if you are no longer comfortable with the lady, get out of the relationship jor.
Proverbs 26:2
Like a fluttering sparrow
or a darting swallow, an
undeserved curse will
not land on its intended
victim.
Who forced her to have pre-marital sex, who forced her not to use contraceptives, who forced her to have her 1st abortion, why did she still go on to have the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th?
The relationship was damaging her but she chose to stay. Well, this is her karma. Hope she enjoys it.
NB: Don't even try to play the victim card here.

Who is dis specimen & what re u spewing?

Biko STOP rendering bacterias homeless.

Who re u to judge d girl alone?
Is d guy a daft not to knw wen to withdraw?
Dont he knw d consequences of unprotected s*x?
Did u knw how he might had pressured d gal into having an abortion.

Thank God ur quote said "undeserved curse."

@op, ur guy shud not take dat lightly- cos he really offended d gal. If he cant marry d devil he knw, den he shud nt be optimistic abt d angel he knw nt.

What is d guaranty dt d one he may opt to marry now, have not had series of abortions in d past?

I'd rather he marries dt devil he knw- both of dem acknowledging deir state b4 God n ask for His Unalloyed forgiveness n Blessings. I knw my God is Too Merciful. After all he ain't GOD dat gives children.

My 2cent.

Matildachinyere: u are such an idiat!!!!!!, wen she had d second abortion y didn't d ignoramus of a boyfriend advice her to use contraceptives? and wetin do d bf wey e no fit use condom? abi shey condom na abomination for him village? wat if na d six children wey she don abort wey God don give am? Now e wan com chop clean mouth Like say Nothing Happen. Make thunder plus liightening Strike am and overtake am!!

i dnt lik u bcus of dis statement "u re such an idiat" Pls be ur age.

sexymoma: Pls advice the lady to deep her hand in her a55 and curse him... That one works faster and it's very effective.

Noted

He's got to apologize to the lady sincerely whether or not she forgives him if not those curses would work. And if he's leaving her solely on her present condition, then I'm afraid of what could happen.

Spedy: i dnt lik u bcus of dis statement "u re such an idiat" Pls be ur age.

Sure u wont like dat post cos d truth is bitter. I may nt concur on d extent he went in expressing his opinion- but believe me, 90% of d ppl dt'll read d op re nt gonna support ur guy.

So if u re here to choose d comments u like n resort to insulting dos u dd nt like, definitely u're nt gonna get a good advice for ur guy.

Pick d good, d bad n d ugly advices- substitute n compile.

Nonso23:

Madam, I demand an apology for your first sentence

Did I in anyway insult you, the o.p or the Lady involved in my post?
If you feel throwing insults at me will change my mindset then you might as well go on with it till you are exhausted.

@your questions: when she had the first abortion the handwriting on the wall was clear enough to tell her that she's with a man that's up to no good.
2nd; on whom is the condom used on?? if you don't insist on his using it who will do so on your behalf. Who gets pregnant after unprotected sex? the man??
For heaven's sake, if a relationship is without codes then it is not worth continuing. What happens to 'it's either condoms or no sex??' And even if she likes it raw, are the pharmacies around out of postinor 1&2?
If those are the only kids she was 'destined' to have, well that's the price she has to pay for making bad decisions and choices. She is an adult capable of taking stands on issues concerning her well being not some toddler.

u even know d names of emergency contraceptives, so wat u are trying to Say in summary is dat she is a chop and clean mouth material and not a wife material abi?. the lady has her own share of blame but you shouldn't heap the whole outcome on her head. And for ur apology u Are getting none. *no beefs*

Nonso23:

it's your opinion. Like every other person, you are entitled to one.

@your first question: one who chooses to see things from a different angle.
2nd bolded: If God is merciful and wants us to love our fellow humans like he did, us, then why should she be cursing another human being for no reason
I thank God for he's merciful because such curses bear no fruit.

All in all, you just played the 'victim card'.No credible point to back your opinion just plain sentimentalism.

u are just writing Big big English without meaning, I also tank God for his mercies because no sin goes unpunished *wen he was f**king her, he didn't realise it was fornication.Wen she was aborting the pregnancy that he was responsible for, he didn't realise it was murder abi?* Oga nonso pack well abeg!!

Spedy:

i dnt lik u bcus of dis statement "u re such an idiat" Pls be ur age.

Who is dis?!! mtcheeeeeeew, u better modify ur English language before i descend on u. wat is d meaning of be ur age? and i never asked u time like me In d first place.

Matildachinyere: ...... And for ur apology u Are getting none. *no beefs*

What if this brother goes naked n curse u for not apologizing,will d curse work? LOL #joking.

@op, its bad oh, it will surely work, even without her cursing him, her own penance for d abortions maybe not getting pregnant again or not marrying again, but since he is a partaker, if sure has some penance to do too

Nonso23: Curse ko, course ni.
Abeg, if you are no longer comfortable with the lady, get out of the relationship jor.
Proverbs 26:2
Like a fluttering sparrow
or a darting swallow, an
undeserved curse will
not land on its intended
victim.
Who forced her to have pre-marital sex, who forced her not to use contraceptives, who forced her to have her 1st abortion, why did she still go on to have the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th?
The relationship was damaging her but she chose to stay. Well, this is her karma. Hope she enjoys it.
NB: Don't even try to play the victim card here.

on point, well said

Nonso23:
Isn't it better to know the names of thousands of contraceptives than to have countless abortions
Glad i'm not getting any apology from you , it sure would have been a half-hearted attempt at saving face. Thankfully, I don't accept 'half-hearted'
I don't know how you people measure wife-material or chop and go material in a woman i don't care what category you choose to fit her into, all i'm saying is simple 'if i keep feeding you poison and you are aware and are also under no compulsion whatsoever to stay and accept it, what stops you from walking away?
I didn't exonerate the guy nor did i blame him for it's no good flogging a dead horse. The clause 'he's up to no good'(my first post) is enough to tell any avid reader my opinion of him. Concluding that i entirely heaped the blame on the lady is a fatal appeal to ignorance. Or were you expecting me to start raining curses on him like the others?? I don't do crowd sentimentalism sorry to disappoint.


Fact: Whatsoever you give your consent to in your full senses is entirely your responsibility no matter the eventual turnout.
@O.P tell her to pick up herself, count her losses and move on. Unfortunately in life, some actions can't be undone. I hope she finds someone who can appreciate her for who she is. That guy can't. She should deal with it.

And also, she should stop wasting her time... uh ... 'Cursing' him. That's not going to work.
Life is GIGO.

point of correction,I don't regret anything dat i av written, so pls clear ur head of d tought of me trying to apologize to save face. On the other hand u gave a very wrong impression about ur opinion and urself wen u posted ur first comment and u didn't ascertain d fact dat d guy was up to no good and had a share of d blame in ur comment, So mr nonso in ur own words, Stop trying to safe face.