I was going through some blogs,with some personal experience i'v had with some nigerian ladies,here are 9 reasons,i think why some nigerian ladies remain single for life.........true or false ?
1. Many nigerian ladies will end up singles for life because of media
exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a
mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell
me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a
fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?
2. Many nigerian ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just
because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing
men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a
destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African
family setting that made our previous African marriages
everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude,
how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he
knows he is
only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men
off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike
excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they
often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it
cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and
complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight
makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look
simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-
minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not
thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick & Harry! No
man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is
always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a
playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or
Are Dating- because your best friend married without
contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t
mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards
equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to
his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding
value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his
goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by
not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be
solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a
husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating
which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not?
When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has
not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for
your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve
it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things
or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single.
Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and
companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single
man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex,
good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married
counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to
marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires
from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part
of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on
sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so
why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy,
adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest;
more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than
adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to
you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking
guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy
and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent
satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by
media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for
certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be
careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a
seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home
Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks
will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your
inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with
nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways,
the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie
devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please
do away with it.

hmmm

Yeah....n i no single ladies in their 30's wunt lyk dis

Here we go again.this thread has been recycled and recycled and recycled again.una nor dey tayaaaaaa

So all this while that this kind of post has been posted in almost every site i know, how come things have not changed and such ladies dnt care about such posts?? Doesnt that tell you that you shouldnt be soooooo jobless to drink panadol over a person's headache by constantly posting this kind of post? Why dnt u post reasons why we have lots of bachelors who have refused to get married?

Women don suffer for Naija. . . .Chai!!!

This 'MARRIAGE' of a tingy NA ALFAFA AND OMEGANA!
I hope the men will take the advice too. . . or be MISSSSSSERABLE SERIAL DIVORCEES aka recycled blokoses!!!