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How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Jonesjoe(m): 10:11pm On Jan 03, 2014
Fellow nairalanders, I have always been challenged with the issue of chatting up the female folks without them seeing me as asking numerous questions__________ I knw it can be very boring, so I need examples of discussion lines that they won't tag as being questions#
;DFellow nairalanders, I have always been challenged with the issue of chatting up the female folks without them seeing me as asking numerous questions__________ I knw it can be very boring, so I need examples of discussion lines that they won't tag as being questions#
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by 3coins(m): 10:21pm On Jan 03, 2014
most nigerian gurls dunno hw to chat...chatting is a two way tin bur they tend to make it 1sided..making yuu ask All d questions...try to get interesting gurls to chat wiv..yu'll hv a beta chattn experience..TRUST ME

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Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by borntobegr8t(m): 10:24pm On Jan 03, 2014
Omo jus talk abt urself and and all the babes U don straff...girls like such discussion grin
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by importer56: 10:29pm On Jan 03, 2014
3coins: most nigerian gurls dunno hw to chat...chatting is a two way tin bur they tend to make it 1sided..making yuu ask All d questions...try to get interesting gurls to chat wiv..yu'll hv a beta chattn experience..TRUST ME

Asin bro, u hit the nail on the skull mehn, u used exactly my words. ''Chating is a 2 way thing" any girl that replies me with a syllabic word is not worth chating to, she can die in her ego. If a girl replies me faint, i assume she either dosnt like me or shes a bad communicator, whichever it is, i simply block them. There are girls who can chat n u can spend hours chating with them, they bring out the life in chats sef. Biggups to u ladies that can chat mehn.
If you wanna chat for fun tho, u can add me up. Lol
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Acidosis(m): 10:52pm On Jan 03, 2014
See if you're looking for a girl who would ask questions about you, your ideas, motivations, your day, work experience, skills, family life, etc..


Then, forget it.

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Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Jonesjoe(m): 10:54pm On Jan 03, 2014
Yea, most naija babes are really not kool chattin wit. Dey often leave d chats for d guy alone# while some of dem are gud at it, nd chattin wit d later is alwaz fun
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Jonesjoe(m): 10:55pm On Jan 03, 2014
Yea, most naija babes are really not kool chattin wit. Dey often leave d chats for d guy alone# while some of dem are gud at it, nd chattin wit d later is usually fun
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Nobody: 12:52am On Jan 04, 2014
the only thing I hate is when you write heaven and earth then shes like "K"
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Sam32(m): 6:32am On Jan 04, 2014
Asking questions is not a very good option, because most tyms they are closed questions and may only lead in a direction dat ur partner may not be willing or interested to go

Instead, trying to transform question into statements. Especially wen u r gettin stuck on d question train. Consider dis example, i culd say sumtyn short and simple lyk 'love is wicked' instead of asking a gurl abt how are her past relationship was(wc is usually hurtful most often). Its shows u opened up to her, hence u wil spark her interest as to y u think so and make it easy for her to reciprocate

Its good to open up about alot abt ursef in a conversation wit a gurl bfore u bombard are wit questns. Talk abt ur core self coz every gurl is interested in knowing who u are, and shows u rnt scared to reveal sumtyn abt ursef. So its only natural dey start to open up. When dey start to just follow up wit open ended questn, How? Why? What made u do dis?...blah blah blah

If u want to connect with people, drop ur shield and reveal urself wit ur flaws and u wil be suprised dat pple will flow u to do so. Coz everybody has to need to appear perfect bfor odas and dat can rily stop connection in conversation

sorry for d long story

hope u find it interesting chattin wit our gurls. On d flip side, sometyms gurls r too busy chatting wit odas so dey cant invest in a conversation lyk u expect, dey might be in a bad mood nt ready to chat well and so on. So when a gurl doesnt respond jst relax nd move to someone wu is ready. Be cool!
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Jonesjoe(m): 9:15am On Jan 04, 2014
U r on point @ sam32___________________itz rily so so so funny after u myt hav said heaven nd earth nd u get funny replies lik. '' K'
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by SenatorJames(m): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2014
Most of these girls are so secretive. Go to facebook and Check how many ladies have thier phone numbers and e-mail on their profiles. Whereas guys dont mind


I hate it when I will always be the one to bring up new topics or always being the first to say hi/hello to you
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Getrich47(m): 11:40am On Jan 04, 2014
Sam32: Asking questions is not a very good option, because most tyms they are closed questions and may only lead in a direction dat ur partner may not be willing or interested to go

Instead, trying to transform question into statements. Especially wen u r gettin stuck on d question train. Consider dis example, i culd say sumtyn short and simple lyk 'love is wicked' instead of asking a gurl abt how are her past relationship was(wc is usually hurtful most often). Its shows u opened up to her, hence u wil spark her interest as to y u think so and make it easy for her to reciprocate

Its good to open up about alot abt ursef in a conversation wit a gurl bfore u bombard are wit questns. Talk abt ur core self coz every gurl is interested in knowing who u are, and shows u rnt scared to reveal sumtyn abt ursef. So its only natural dey start to open up. When dey start to just follow up wit open ended questn, How? Why? What made u do dis?...blah blah blah

If u want to connect with people, drop ur shield and reveal urself wit ur flaws and u wil be suprised dat pple will flow u to do so. Coz everybody has to need to appear perfect bfor odas and dat can rily stop connection in conversation

sorry for d long story

hope u find it interesting chattin wit our gurls. On d flip side, sometyms gurls r too busy chatting wit odas so dey cant invest in a conversation lyk u expect, dey might be in a bad mood nt ready to chat well and so on. So when a gurl doesnt respond jst relax nd move to someone wu is ready. Be cool!

K....lol
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by 3coins(m): 7:55pm On Jan 04, 2014
importer56:

Asin bro, u hit the nail on the skull mehn, u used exactly my words. ''Chating is a 2 way thing" any girl that replies me with a syllabic word is not worth chating to, she can die in her ego. If a girl replies me faint, i assume she either dosnt like me or shes a bad communicator, whichever it is, i simply block them. There are girls who can chat n u can spend hours chating with them, they bring out the life in chats sef. Biggups to u ladies that can chat mehn.
If you wanna chat for fun tho, u can add me up. Lol
dose boring gurls re nt worth it jawe......make dem swerve jhooor
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by kokoA(m): 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2014
Most nigerian girls are very dumb.. You can hardly sustain a meaningful chat with them, trust me. I chat with ladies from other countries, they are different from our girls. I dumped one pretty girl because of her "olodoness". I can't date a girl who can't engage in intelligent conversations with me. If you can't talk about career, sports, politics, current affairs, etc with me, then you don't deserve me. The few different ones I've met are usually quite proud and rude to an extent.
Re: How To Chat Wit Babes And Avoid Being Seen As Asking Plenty Questions by Sam32(m): 10:40pm On Jan 04, 2014
Jones joe: U r on point @ sam32___________________itz rily so so so funny after u myt hav said heaven nd earth nd u get funny replies lik. '' K'

dat happens, its possible dey culdnt relate to wot u said, or jst too busy, not interested one way or the other. Its jst beta to move on to sumone else if dey continue dat way

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