I'm 21yrs old and a 200level student... I met diz grl and she z 18yrs old...... She z natural,I mean beautiful without make ups,caring,smiles a lot and intelligent.... She bears d qualities I want in a woman. We are deeply in love bt I'm afraid,I don't wana loose her 2 any man in future... Should I pay 4 her bride price nw and wait after my sch 2 marry her or jst 2 engage her nw and leave everytin till I'm done with my education... What do u think or what will u do if u are d one.... Tnx.... Insult needed bt need 2 be cleared on dat....

Whatever happens to courtship!
Why pay bride price first? this shows you are not ready for marriage as you are putting the cart before the horse!!

In my own opinion,you just have to wait for the right time and the right woman will be available for you.

AV U BEEN PREPARING TOWARDS QUIZ

Actually, I'm thinking of engaging her but I knw actually dat engaging no longer works datz y I'm confused..... 2ndly she z still a virgin,should I go on with our dating till I'm ready bt if I knw I won't be getting married 2 her I will like 2 sex her,hope I'm right?

@ Ignatiusprince, take it easy. Try and finish your academic career first and secure yourself a job before getting married. There are other good girls out there who are better than her waiting for someone to tie knot with them. Getting married with her now will only weigh you down except if your parents are ready to take care of her responsibility.

U are right but what dat makes me 2 love her d more was dat of her virginity...... What if I decide 2 sex her since I knw I won't b marrying her.....?

YOU ARE A LEANER.
YOU WILL MEET GIRLS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER BEFORE YOU GRADUATE.
FACE YOUR STUDIES, FORGET MARRIAGE THING FOR NOW.
FINE GIRLS DEY FINISH?

Tnx man not dat I'm a learner..... I b baba 4 dia...... Jst dat nah only diz grl wey enter my eye.... I feel am well well.....

wat is courship meant for, nd pls dont go abt disturbing her for sex

Face ur studies so dt u wil graduate wit gud result. Get a lucrative job, help ur family and urself.This is whn u can now be talking of marriage.Slow and steady wins d race.... plz dnt rush marriage cos u r too tender for it. Dnt forget(1) to follow ur brain and nt ur hrt whn falling in luv (2) D beautiful ones r nt yet born (In igbo, we call it ifeoma adighi agu agu). Lastly, "To whom BRAIN is given, SENSE is expected"

Tnx man

Ignatiusprince: I'm 21yrs old and a 200level student... I met diz grl and she z 18yrs old...... She z natural,I mean beautiful without make ups,caring,smiles a lot and intelligent.... She bears d qualities I want in a woman. We are deeply in love bt I'm afraid,I don't wana loose her 2 any man in future... Should I pay 4 her bride price nw and wait after my sch 2 marry her or jst 2 engage her nw and leave everytin till I'm done with my education... What do u think or what will u do if u are d one.... Tnx.... Insult needed bt need 2 be cleared on dat....

pm me her number, i will talk and advise her for you; you knw small girls of thesedays can be foolish...