Is it right for lovers to live together b4 marriage and live the daddy and mummy life and sleeping on the same bed

Nah. I dont think it's good

no no no

I have a friend who did it and they got married last december.

He said, it isnt the best but some good can come out of it.

He said he wont really advice anyone to do it

dont know about others but I will personally wont do it

I dont see what is wrong in it, they wil save money off rent, and eat together, and sleep together.
But the man cld take advantage of that and dont wanna marry anymore, cos why would he wanna pay for it when he is already having it all for free?

Whats all this save money, save money

You guys eh!

Gamine:

Whats all this save money, save money
You guys eh!

Say mr A and Miss B are dating and living apart
Mr. A will be paying like 1000$ for rent
Miss B will be paying 1000$ for rent
that will b2 2000$
so if they reside together, they only pay 1000$ and cld save more on feeding, and even going to bed together makes you more sane.

I know!

So saving bill is more important than saving hearts

Gamine:

I know!

So saving bill is more important than saving hearts

if a man isnt so much in love with the woman, he will never allow living together, imagine a man that still playing games, how will he play his games, so that means we have already moved passed the saving heart, cos na only love fit make man co-habit with a woman oh.

Hahaha

You really expect me to believe what you posted.

oh my! A cheating man will cheat regardless of who dey hin house o!!!

Gamine:

Hahaha

You really expect me to believe what you posted.

oh my! A cheating man will cheat regardless of who dey hin house o!!!

i never said a cheating man wont cheat, but what i am saying is that, for a man that is yet to take a babe to the alter and agreed to house same woman to live under same roof, i personally think that such man must have real love for the woman, cos not easy to have ur space clouded and a woman in ya face all the time? it gotta be love.

Yeah what happens when it dies

Thats why a marriage is binding

Recycled thread na.

Nywaz, it's wrong

Gamine:

Yeah what happens when it dies

Thats why a marriage is binding

Nothing is binding, cos even in marriage when love dies, the only thing that holds it is the commitment.

Its binding, you cant throw your wife out legally.

A girlfriend is still just a girl friend, too many cases

of one being thrown out and another steps in.

If u are freshly married, u cld divorce easily and if no kids are involved, u guy cld path ways and no money will exchange hands.
Dont get me wrong, i am not in support of thrwoing out of ur wife or even girlfriends, i think it is all about understanding jare.

Yeah, Understanding

The girl understanding that if the guy no wan do again

na she go pack her load comot.

Such kinds of understandment, i no want!

Its worked for some,it turned some others to recyled Okirika.From Johnnys house to Polycarp room.I personally wont go for that.

LOL.

yeah, its worked out for some

but they wont even advice it for anyone else

So what difference does it make when they aint married, but yet the babe comes every weekend and spend weekend, and in my house, she has some few things, like clothings and shoes and all stuff, when we break up, she will still have to leave, i rather see them work things out and be4 they start lving together, make sure they know what they want and really wanna be together, and nto just some arranged free 'in house pu**Y" or "in house d**k"

nigerians and pretence, there s nothing wrong with unmarried couples living together once they have made a conscious decision to eventually get married,though the christian religion frowns at it, some couples dont live together and they have done every taboo under the sun 3some,swinging e.t.c its not about conforming to societal values but what works for a couple especially if they have to save for that wedding and evetually married life,mortgage e.t.c

Well, I have been living with my chick for 2 years now . . . . . . I must say it takes all the excitement out of relationships. . . . . not because of any religious stuff but because familiarity breeds contempt.

@ thread whatevere is wrong is absolutely wrong, no matter how we paint it

Essentially OSU(now OOU) runs

I must say it takes all the excitement out of relationships, not because of any religious stuff but because familiarity breeds contempt.

So you're inevitably going to have a lot of contempt for your wife? And she for you?