Should your patner know how much you earn?

Big deal!!!

Ofcourse, it is very important for him/her to know how much you earn, or how do u guys plan to budget for the upkeep of the house, when one is hiding how much he/she is earning?

partner-not necessarily, but wife-a definite yes

thendo:

partner-not necessarily, but wife-a definite yes

So a wife is not a Partner?

$$Rhino:

So a wife is not a Partner?

no mind am, na south african!

Brash!:

no mind am, na south african!

i think the guy na aboki

$$Rhino:

i think the guy na aboki

$$Rhino:

Ofcourse, it is very important for him/her to know how much you earn, or how do u guys plan to budget for the upkeep of the house, when one is hiding how much he/she is earning?

You are right man.

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@ $$Rhino

what does this statement mean: i think the guy na aboki

there is no use using your lingo knowing that i wont understand

@ Brash!

was it going to be better if i was not a South African. what does being a south african got to do with my comments. get over your hatred of your fellow africans.

i think dudes generally feel more comfortable disclosing wages or salaries if they earn more than their partners.

jay bee:

i think dudes generally feel more comfortable to disclose wages or salaries if they earn more than their partners.

Regardless who is making more, it is called being open.
IF ia man could be hiding something so petty as how much he is making, i wonder what else he would hide, mind you, the woman is not telling you to bring the money oh, cos it is for the household

of course! it's very important that spouses know how much they (each) earn.

thendo:

@ $$Rhino
was it going to be better if i was not a South African. what does being a south african got to do with my comments. get over your hatred of your fellow africans.

last i checked, it wasn't Nigerians getting all xenophobic

carmelily:

last i checked, it wasn't Nigerians getting all xenophobic

dont mind the idiot!

thendo:

@ Brash!
was it going to be better if i was not a South African. what does being a south african got to do with my comments. get over your hatred of your fellow africans.

i dont give a bleeting fuc.k
i dont hate fellow africans, i just said u were from there and if ur worried about that statement, then u shld examine ur past!

carmelily:

of course! it's very important that spouses know how much they (each) earn.
last i checked, it wasn't Nigerians getting all xenophobic

i cld sue you for anger without right information, but cos i am in a good mood, i will say, it is all good.

Brash!:

don't mind the idiot!

i don't give a bleeting fuc.k
i don't hate fellow africans, i just said u were from there and if your worried about that statement, then u shld examine your past!

Dont start wat u cant finish, but i dont exchange words or insults, so i will say, One love brother.

Why not? She can know how much i earned.

$$Rhino:

i cld sue you for anger without right information, but because i am in a good mood, i will say, it is all good.

what are you on about was not referring to you!

$$Rhino:

Dont start what u can't finish, but i don't exchange words or insults, so i will say, One love brother.

i move mountains and nations bruv, so i would finish anytin!

but no need for insults like you said, so i sheat my sword!

@ Brush

you are one angry guy. loosen up

thendo:

@ Brush
you are one angry guy. loosen up

I refuse to be tempted Nando's or Thando or whateva your name is!
Now run along and play with your BMX

@ brush or Brash


dude, you got a wicket sense of humor . you honestly think at this age im still riding a bicycle, come on dude you can do better than that

Brash!:


i move mountains and nations bruv, so i would finish anytin!

but no need for insults like you said, so i sheat my sword!

That is more like it, and the brash that i know have respect for himself.
One love

i think that should not be a big deal, i suggest both partners have a joint account where each partner pays in cash at
the end of the month for the upkeep of the house which normally is the man's job to do. but we are in another age of
marriage so both parties will definately be involved.

thando and brash!! you guys should face the issue and stop being like, adults

I would think if you're really partners there should be no secrets whatsoever.