Is it possible to live with your wife throughout without lying to her one day?
Under what condition do you think it is justifiable to lie to your dearest wife?
If She later find out, what would you say in other to make her trust you later?

princeshow:

Is it possible to live with your wife throughout without lying to her one day?
Under what condition do you think it is justifiable to lie to your dearest wife?
If She later find out, what would you say in other to make her trust you later?

Do not lie to the wife at all, but since you are talking about dearest wives, so no wahala now.

Are you saying that i can lie to her?
But you never tell me the condition that could make one lie to his wife,

Omo, he no easy o, but as far as i am concern, I don't have any plan to deceive my wife,
I prefer to run an open door policy.
With God, nothing is impossible.

princeshow:

Are you saying that i can lie to her?
But you never tell me the condition that could make one lie to his wife,

i never said i can lie to my wife oh, cos one lie needs another 12 lie to cover it up, and truth always find a way to be exposed.

What about lies like
- I don't have much on me
- Am in a board meeting
- I thought about you throughout today
- I can't do without you
, and so on

princeshow:

What about lies like
- I don't have much on me
- Am in a board meeting
- I thought about you throughout today
- I can't do without you
, and so on

You are a wicked man oh, so u lie with such?
If u have much on u, why would u have to lie to ur wife that u dont, it is either u have some hidden agenda or u just wanna be wicked, cos what you have is hers and what she has is yours, so such lie, i deem pretty stupid.

- Am in a board meeting
If you werent in a board meeting, why such lies, either you wanna feel important and leave a fake life or u wanna use that time to go somewhere else, what will it take to just tell her you wanna be left alone.

- I thought about you throughout today
If you werent thinking about her all day, and not thinking about work or something that has to do with her, what else will u be thinking about? ashewo.

- I can't do without you
If u lie about such, it means you dont love the woman.

So all those kinda lies are petty and childish.

If u must lie,do lie diplomatically.

No condition justifies your lies. The truth will always spring up, complicating things even more.

Try and be open to your wife,
With that, she will always trust you.
Good luck.

I think we should know what would make a wife to lie as well, this shd be a thread as well, cos all the ladies are giving men advice never to lie now, and i am sure some of them cld lie better than satan.

You could as well discuss it here@$$Rhino

You mean man can lie to his wife systematically? @ifyalways

no matter the condition,don't tell lies.

Quote from: princeshow on August 27, 2008, 04:33 PM
What about lies like
- I don't have much on me
- Am in a board meeting
- I thought about you throughout today
- I can't do without you
, and so on

lies, no matter how much we dislike it i believe is  very import. there are somethings the husband or wife would just not understand and to avoid unneccessary wahala lies should be told.

- i don't have much on me. There are expenses the wife would not agree  with but that doesn't it  make less important. So the husband has some money on him but lies that he doesn't have much so he will be able to use the money. makes sense to me( no point in agreeing he has money, but wants to use it for xyz which the wife thinks otherwise about, that will just bring avoidable problem)
- Am in a board meeting. If you have the kind of wife that expects you at home immediately after work, i think this lie is ok  if you want to do something else like hang out with friends.
- I thought about you throughout the day. Women just expect this lie even when they know its not possible. To be a loving guy,i think this lie is key
- I can't do without you. Same as above.

I'm yet to meet the man/woman who can live witout lying to his/her partner.
Its impossible.

Under What Condition Do You Think It Is Justifiable To Lie To Your Dearest Wife?

When saying the truth will break the marriage, if u are not asked dont talk about it let it just die except in a situation you know she will find out about it.

'Sorry dear, it wasnt my fault it was my friend that made me sleep with a lady during my last business trip/during my holiday in UK' - This kind of telling d truth when u were not asked will kill and bury trust forever. Even though i am not in anyway encouraging infidelity or lies, i will say when saying the truth will destroy your home dont say it, pray to God to 4give you and desist.

I would say whenever the occassion demands it. If one has to do it all the time to save one's marriage, fine.

i lie to my dearest wife wen i want to tell the truth to my dearest girlfriend

If it is btw life and death and will safe her life

yea right u guys shd be realistic nobody can be 100% truthful even if u r a saint.

I guess they never know there is white lies

^^^ Very true.
But as a man we get to decide what is life and death

See you, i dont blv in man is always right, that was meant to be a joke . . . . atole.

Under no condition should a man become a compulsive liar.