Please i really need your advise, I'm in luv with this guy but we've not seen each other only by shearing our pixs, he is going for his service and i am an undergraduate, do u think i should trust or believe in this kind of luv? we've known for 4 months now. pls i really need ur advice.

where did u meet him?on d net?

Be careful of those u meet on the net u neva know if u dealing with a pscypco (sp)

yeah!!reminds me of my own story too. . .

There'z dis girl i met accidentaly on net,we've nt even exchanged pixs nd damn!!,i'm falling for her. . .

The worst thingy iz dat i'm having dis feeling she'z older than moi*Love iz wicked oo!!
I'm a smartazz,but in dis case,i'm dumb nd i nid reas0nable advice!!

you cannot love someone you have never seen EXCEPT God

Cayon:

you cannot love someone you have never seen EXCEPT God

yes.

Meet the person first and see where it goes from there

Cayon:

you cannot love someone you have never seen EXCEPT God

I beg to differ

Our personalities shine through whenever we communicate with someone and it is possible to fall in-love with personalities. . .  the big IF arises when one party is playing a role or taking on another persona,

meeting is highly advisable befor any concrete steps are taken, just to ensure that what u think is there is real!

HR.hotness:

I beg to differ

Our personalities shine through whenever we communicate with someone and it is possible to fall in-love with personalities. . .  the big IF arises when one party is playing a role or taking on another persona,

meeting is highly advisable befor any concrete steps are taken, just to ensure that what u think is there is real!

speaking from experience?

HR.hotness:

I beg to differ

Our personalities shine through whenever we communicate with someone and it is possible to fall in-love with personalities. . . the big IF arises when one party is playing a role or taking on another persona,

meeting is highly advisable befor any concrete steps are taken, just to ensure that what u think is there is real!

I agree with your posts excet the highlighted. My Girlfriend courted and married a guy she never met. The did the Trad wedding in absentia. The guy came back from UK about 4 months after the wedding and they met pysically for the first time. They are happily married now and a kid is on the way.

Poster forllow your heart. Trust your instincts, dont overlook any sign, no matter how small it is. Remember that all you have now is you instincts, so make very good use of it.

Goodluck!!

I suggest that you meet him first. There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a guy you've never met. It's normal

love comes in myserious ways my dear.hav seen a couple who met in the net, and are married today. open up ur heart to love, but be careful.

U neva kan tell dear!

Fallin inlove wiv sum1 u met via 'net isnt a crime!

juzz b kiaful!!!

meet-up in c where it goes 4rm there!!

gdluck!!

HR.hotness:

I beg to differ

Our personalities shine through whenever we communicate with someone and it is possible to fall in-love with personalities. . . the big IF arises when one party is playing a role or taking on another persona,

meeting is highly advisable befor any concrete steps are taken, just to ensure that what u think is there is real!

I agree with you 100%. You definately can fall in love with personalites especially when it turns out that both parties are being honest and truthful with each other.

Ujujoan:

I agree with your posts excet the highlighted. My Girlfriend courted and married a guy she never met. The did the Trad wedding in absentia. The guy came back from UK about 4 months after the wedding and they met pysically for the first time. They are happily married now and a kid is on the way.

Poster forllow your heart. Trust your instincts, don't overlook any sign, no matter how small it is. Remember that all you have now is you instincts, so make very good use of it.

Goodluck!!

My dear, that is a very very very rare case. In fact, I have never heard of such happening but if you say they are happy then they must be.
I personally wouldnt marry someone I have never met. Wetin I go tell my mama?

:-x :-x :-x

spikedcylinder:

I agree with you 100%. You definately can fall in love with personalites especially when it turns out that both parties are being honest and truthful with each other.

My dear, that is a very very very rare case. In fact, I have never heard of such happening but if you say they are happy then they must be.
I personally wouldnt marry someone I have never met. Wetin I go tell my mama?

tell ur mama say na love

spikedcylinder:

My dear, that is a very very very rare case. In fact, I have never heard of such happening but if you say they are happy then they must be.
I personally wouldnt marry someone I have never met. Wetin I go tell my mama?

Infact I was initially shocked. I advised her against it. I even told her she was deperate to get hooked to a 'janded' guy. She almost gave it up cos of me, but I guess she decided to follow her heart. God I would have hated myself if I made her lose such a beutiful thing. That I wud say is a one in a million case. And it thought me a few lessons . . . a) You can meet your true love anywhere/anyhow b)Never underestimate you instincts.

haw will i jus luv sumbody av never seen

Baby e de happen, am in the same situation, am in love with a lady for a year now and we have not met. We have made arrangement to meet next week for the first time. so that
we can move to the next level. Try and meet him and see if you can take your relationship to the next level. Cheers!!!

@ Poster

run run run

It's absurd and i can't just fathom how u could fall in love with somebody you have not seen physically before.
Listen, and don't get carried away with tales by moonlight. The use of the word LOVE has been bastardized by a lot of people especially Nairalanders.
LOVE is a deep thing, and certainly INTERNET LOVE is not deep enough.

Anny, tread carefully!
On this internet, there are many pythons- beware!!!!!!

akiro:

It's absurd and i can't just fathom how u could fall in love with somebody you have not seen physically before.
Listen, and don't get carried away with tales by moonlight. The use of the word LOVE has been bastardized by a lot of people [b]especially Nairalanders.
LOVE is a deep thing, and certainly INTERNET LOVE is not deep enough.[/b]Anny, tread carefully!
On this internet, there are many pythons- beware!!!!!!

Hmmmmn. . . . . you dont say.

If its not love, what else could it be? esp when it looks so real eventhough u two havent met,

meet up first before you decide that you are in love.

@topic it works for some! and some people have been bitten by this same method!

meet with this your love interest

not once or twice

spend time with the person

then make your decisions


^{(but of course!  if you know a good  CIA or FBI agent hire him/her to help you investigate)}  _{you can't be too careful when it comes to love issues}

I honestly think this scenario works mostly for those who fall for appearance but, personally i think its all about chemistry, if the perfect chemistry exist then its very possible to fall in love esp when u two have so much in common it doesnt matter if u havent met physically

lonelypal:

I honestly think this scenario works mostly for those who fall for appearance but, personally i think its all about chemistry, if the perfect chemistry exist then its very possible to fall in love esp when u two have so much in common it doesnt matter if u havent met physically

I certainly share your opinion. I used to think it was possible but now i realise its a waste of time. The most important thing when it comes to love is that you both share a deep bond that goes far beyond what she looks like (of course she has to be fine in the first place).
If the chemistry isnt there, i just cant feel anything for the most beautiful woman on earth.

davidylan:

I certainly share your opinion. I used to think it was possible but now i realise its a waste of time. The most important thing when it comes to love is that you both share a deep bond that goes far beyond what she looks like (of course she has to be fine in the first place).
If the chemistry isnt there, i just can't feel anything for the most beautiful woman on earth.

for real man, the watch word is[b] CHEMISTRY[/b]
She must definitely strike d right chord in me,

In situations like this one must be carefull and be properly guided. If you have the gift of a psychologist that can tell a person personality by their eyes and the shape of their face then you are lucky. But the truth is even psychologists make mistakes. Evn those we know trick us during courtship how much more someone weve not seen.

Even though weve not seen God we see his works in nature,we know he is kind,we know his words,so we know many things about him.But even the persons voice through MTN is distorted a bit.
You just have to be cautious.

akiro:

It's absurd and i can't just fathom how u could fall in love with somebody you have not seen physically before.
Listen, and don't get carried away with tales by moonlight. The use of the word LOVE has been bastardized by a lot of people especially Nairalanders.
LOVE is a deep thing, and certainly INTERNET LOVE is not deep enough.

Anny, tread carefully!
On this internet, there are many pythons- beware!!!!!!

like i said, love comes in mysterious ways.there is no codified formular 4 love. dat u ar ignorant of its existence doesnt make it non existent. if d guy is a fraud, she will find out herself. they will meet somday wont they?

emmyjojo:

like i said, love comes in mysterious ways.there is no codified formular 4 love. that u ar ignorant of its existence doesnt make it non existent. if d guy is a fraud, she will find out herself. they will meet somday wont they?

Very kindly true. She/he shouldnt count on it until they meet. Emmyjojo do you agree with me?
No strong feelings should be nutured until they eventually meet.

u absolutely true, d meeting is like d consumation u know.