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Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by muhsin(m): 7:28pm On Sep 29, 2008
The experience of the term “love” has long been known as an ineffable and absolutely elated one, which whoever you are most of the times, you can neither tell its purpose nor it’s beginning.

It severely and truly happened. To start loving someone is based on no any concrete reason, wish, or desire, but it ineluctably occur. It’s a conspicuous and inevitable ostentatious game we used to find ourselves playing that is described by scholars like William Shakespeare as: the most lovable game, which playing never run smooth.

Love is the most strongest and powerful affectionate feeling one would have, ever had, or ever will have toward somebody, something or an activity, be it adorned or not. But, dishearten enough such idolatry use to be taken in a total disdain as a result of “stand-offish” and “arrogant” attitude-unnatural one of some heads among us. What a demoralizing?

As in my little perspective. If my door is knocked in such situation, I definitely will open and let it ajar, not completely open to get enough chance of discovering it’s head and tail. But, this is just my view on this very matter, which won’t likely be akin to yours, but how do you think or look at it? Is it from right or left angle?

Though still, it’s totally inane to turn down someone’s offer of love my dear good people. Do think, a reflective one, it can lead to the destruction of his/her ego. Think of how forlorn, helpless and hopeless you are going to left him/her. Can’t you be a little bit friendly if not too open to him/her. Pack aside your being dated, courted or even betrothed to someone else. Remember if you were him/her.
Re: Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by CyberG: 12:55am On Sep 30, 2008
Wow, I am not the first person to read this but, o boy, I don laugh tire ooo grin grin

Seems @poster has just 'suffered' from one of our Naija sisters? Abeg, we need sisters to the rescue! In the meantime, I go siddon look, make we see how our sisters (I no go mention names o) go helep this our brotha. Wey my guguru and cashew nuts??  grin
Re: Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by HRhotness(f): 12:58am On Sep 30, 2008
Errrrr . . . Sorry!
Re: Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by richo(m): 1:03am On Sep 30, 2008
muhsin:

The experience of the term “love” has long been known as an ineffable and absolutely elated one, which whoever you are most of the times, you can neither tell its purpose nor it’s beginning.

It severely and truly happened. To start loving someone is based on no any concrete reason, wish, or desire, but it ineluctably occur. It’s a conspicuous and inevitable ostentatious game we used to find ourselves playing that is described by scholars like William Shakespeare as: the most lovable game, which playing never run smooth.

Love is the [b]most strongest [/b]and powerful affectionate feeling one would have, ever had, or ever will have toward somebody, something or an activity, be it adorned or not. But, dishearten enough such idolatry use to be taken in a total disdain as a result of “stand-offish” and “arrogant” attitude-unnatural one of some heads among us. What a demoralizing?

As in my little perspective. If my door is knocked in such situation, I definitely will open and let it ajar, not completely open to get enough chance of discovering it’s head and tail. But, this is just my view on this very matter, which won’t likely be akin to yours, but how do you think or look at it? Is it from right or left angle?

Though still, it’s totally inane to turn down someone’s offer of love my dear good people. Do think, a reflective one, it can lead to the destruction of his/her ego. Think of how forlorn, helpless and hopeless you are going to left him/her. Can’t you be a little bit friendly if not too open to him/her. Pack aside your being dated, courted or even betrothed to someone else. Remember if you were him/her.

u think u be english master? u are wrong you cannot use most with a superlative most strongest strongest tongue

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Re: Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by Tatase(f): 6:07am On Sep 30, 2008
richo:


u think u be english master? u are wrong you cannot use most with a superlative most strongest strongest tongue

LOL!!! The grammar is quite erm something. Real ESL-ness

muhsin:

The experience of the term “love” has long been known as an ineffable and absolutely elated one, which whoever you are most of the times, you can neither tell its purpose nor it’s beginning.

It severely and truly happened. To start loving someone is based on no any concrete reason, wish, or desire, but it ineluctably occur. It’s a conspicuous and inevitable ostentatious game we used to find ourselves playing that is described by scholars like William Shakespeare as: the most lovable game, which playing never run smooth.

Love is the most strongest and powerful affectionate feeling one would have, ever had, or ever will have toward somebody, something or an activity, be it adorned or not. But, dishearten enough such idolatry use to be taken in a total disdain as a result of “stand-offish” and “arrogant” attitude-unnatural one of some heads among us. What a demoralizing?

As in my little perspective. If my door is knocked in such situation, I definitely will open and let it ajar, not completely open to get enough chance of discovering it’s head and tail. But, this is just my view on this very matter, which won’t likely be akin to yours, but how do you think or look at it? Is it from right or left angle?

Though still, it’s totally inane to turn down someone’s offer of love my dear good people. Do think, a reflective one, it can lead to the destruction of his/her ego. Think of how forlorn, helpless and hopeless you are going to left him/her. Can’t you be a little bit friendly if not too open to him/her. Pack aside your being dated, courted or even betrothed to someone else. Remember if you were him/her.

Aside from the fact that a lot of what you wrote was difficult to understand, there are some basic flaws in your love argument 2 of which I identified in bold:
1.) Unless you're talking about, parental love, love without reason and from nowhere is infatuation, not love. You can't love someone if you don't know them. You can be infatuated by their physical appearance maybe,  but love,  lets not exaggerate. Also, Love is not a game. Romance is. Seduction is. But Love? No. Love is serious business. To be with someone when times are hard and you look at them and you don't like them much, that's not a game, that's love.

2.) So you're saying you must agree just because someone says they're in love with you. That's not possible. That's absolutely ridiculous. You can't be in love with someone just because they're in love with you, it's not by force, it doesn't work like that. How many people will you say yes to? Whether you're a guy or a girl. Come on.

Whatevs anyway, just 2 examples of flaws in your love statement.

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Re: Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by iice(f): 9:34am On Sep 30, 2008
Ughhhh people haven't learned that you can't force a person to love you.
A person can stay with you out of pity or fear. If you want that, goodluck.

B.T.W are you talking about the giver being melancholic or the refuser being nonchalant? undecided

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Re: Melancholic Attitude Of Some People Toward Love by muhsin(m): 12:00pm On Oct 01, 2008
Hey you guys. Thanks or the correction, thats for the begining. Appreciate it.

Secondly, though eventually; I don't have that much time to respond fully to everyone above. Yet, I think saying something quite scanty could help 'some' matters out, huh?

@iice

No one can ever force anyone to love someone. Undeniable.
A person can satay and show 'bits' of care to someone that says love to him/her. Apt.

Thirdly, the giver is who has that melancholic attitude, I think, ehe?

Many thanks guys. Waiting for more of your views. By God's grace when I get back, will respond.

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