There is this girlfriend of mine that was recently proposed to. She met this guy about two months ago through her brother in-law. She lives with her sister sincethey her on holiday. she is in her final year and she has this school boy friend who is madly in love with her. Though the guy that proposed to her also loves her dearly. The problem is, she is confused if she should go ahead with the guy or wait for her school boy friend. I need you guys advice. Thanks.

She should date both of them but avoid gifts and sex.

She should take a time and use her head; the decision isn't that urgent. Mr. Right isn't going anywhere for a year.

Seun, what if one of them gets her with the other probably on a date. Don't you think that won't be fair?

are u sure u'r not telling my story? well it looks like a coincidence?
Am also datin a girl presently who happened 2 meet me through her sister with whom she lives.
The only problem am havin is that she seems 2 have a deep love for her school boyfriend but gives concrete reasons why she thinks she may most likely end up not getin married to him.
As for me ,she knows am serious and she has vowed neva to have an affair wit this guy again.
To my expectation i discovered she still dates this guy secretly.

I however called it a quit cos i realized that even if i get married to this lady she could still be seein this guy(her school boyfriend);and i can never stand such.

She has been beggin me since then. I love her bt i dont know if i should take her back cos this is the second time she's breakin off our relationship 4 these guy.

I understand this first luv thing and how ladies go about it. but i dont think her heart and will is strong enuff to manage the situation.For that i may most likely not accept her coming back

@poster

she should follow her heart, but use her head.
i.e. don't let ur emotions control u, let them guide u.
cos sumtins defy logic.


@hammers
let call it a truce,
i should never have refered to ur mama.
i apologise

@ Olulu
Ma pal
If i know say u go enter this thread i for no post

Anyway thanks 4d response

Truce accepted.
U're welcome

Seun:
She should date both of them but avoid gifts and sex.

She should take a time and use her head; the decision isn't that urgent. Mr. Right isn't going anywhere for a year.

Bad adviser

Lcoolbabe:
There is this girlfriend of mine that was recently proposed to. She met this guy about two months ago through her brother in-law. She lives with her sister sincethey her on holiday. she is in her final year and she has this school boy friend who is madly in love with her. Though the guy that proposed to her also loves her dearly. The problem is, she is confused if she should go ahead with the guy or wait for her school boy friend. I need you guys advice. Thanks.

Sista, who she later marry? If she is still single, i am interested oh
Or even u sef

hammers:
are u sure u'r not telling my story? well it looks like a coincidence?
Am also datin a girl presently who happened 2 meet me through her sister with whom she lives.
The only problem am havin is that she seems 2 have a deep love for her school boyfriend but gives concrete reasons why she thinks she may most likely end up not getin married to him.
As for me ,she knows am serious and she has vowed neva to have an affair wit this guy again.
To my expectation i discovered she still dates this guy secretly.

I however called it a quit cos i realized that even if i get married to this lady she could still be seein this guy(her school boyfriend);and i can never stand such.

She has been beggin me since then. I love her bt i dont know if i should take her back cos this is the second time she's breakin off our relationship 4 these guy.

I understand this first luv thing and how ladies go about it. but i dont think her heart and will is strong enuff to manage the situation.For that i may most likely not accept her coming back

Nwane, you later marri am?