Guys, pls this question has been bothering me for sometimes now, am in luv with this girl, but I just discovered that I am only 5months older than her. And we are planning to get married. So guys is it right to marry her, will she look older than me after sometimes as it is always said. Girls in d house please wat is ur view.

Useful comments and advice only that is needed.

Why not. Even older sef, dont you know the older the better

Don't know for you o but for me, the minimum age difference is 6 years.

I would want to enjoy my wife even when I'm still bubbling at 50

ITbomb: Don't know for you o but for me, the minimum age difference is 6 years.

I would want to enjoy my wife even when I'm still bubbling at 50

So are tryin to tel me dat its nt advisable?

Me brother, in marriage what matters most is respect if she treats you with all respect and understands you very well and you truly have peace of mind when you come back home, please marry her. There are some ladies that you will be older than even with two digits and yet after you marry them, they won't even consider that you are their husband, nor the digit of your age. In fact they will see you as their mate and drag you to the mold. See we human we get tired of bleeping one woman when we marry them, its actually takes more than sex to keep a marry.

Bro, many Nigerian ladies will never defer to a man if the age gap isn't wide.

Many Nigerian ladies today are closet feminists. The only man they'll regard must be older, wiser and more successful. They keep competing with their male peers as if that is the essence of relationship.

Why would I be looking for my mate (who gives needless vain competition) when my juniors are falling head over heels for and looking up to me?

PAT4HOT: Guys, pls this question has been bothering me for sometimes now, am in luv with this girl, but I just discovered that I am only 5months older than her. And we are planning to get married. So guys is it right to marry her, will she look older than me after sometimes as it is always said. Girls in d house please wat is ur view.

Useful comments and advice only that is needed.

Don't break that babe's heart

In marriage, age dsnt define respct.... Its funny som educated persons of 21st century stil av awkward sense of reasoning and funny enough ppl who think dis way ar bein driven my negative influence and foolish motives....Though am not a fan of getn married to a lady older dan me buh I see no reason y a man wld set an age gap claimin d years gap btw you and ur wife determines the respect.... Pls let's change our mentality and stop thinkin dey way dey think in 1800BC

PAT4HOT: Guys, pls this question has been bothering me for sometimes now, am in luv with this girl, but I just discovered that I am only 5months older than her. And we are planning to get married. So guys is it right to marry her, will she look older than me after sometimes as it is always said. Girls in d house please wat is ur view.

Useful comments and advice only that is needed.

If you really love this girl you'll know that age is just a number Aaron Johnson 22 maried a woman of 43 yrs. They are blessed with 4 kids. So as for you I see nothing wrong. Because age should not be a criterion for marriage.

it looks like USA is goin to equalize...
ya @OP, like some on above said, what really matters is if u feel at home around her; she respects you, loves you, and she shows it!

ty-tymer:
Bro, many Nigerian ladies will never defer to a man if the age gap isn't wide.
Many Nigerian ladies today are closet feminists. The only man they'll regard must be older, wiser and more successful. They keep competing with their male peers as if that is the essence of relationship.
Why would I be looking for my mate (who gives needless vain competition) when my juniors are falling head over heels for and looking up to me?

Your post is kinda funny. i have seen a young lady who still treats the husband as a sham yet the man had the aforementioned things. The younger the lady, the younger her sense of reasoning, she still sees herself as being in vogue, after all there are many guys out there. She gets everything on a platter of gold so she can afford to toy with it. Not a matured lady that has understood life better. Like i keep saying, be in here or anywhere, its takes more than sex and beauty to keep a home.

PAT4HOT: Guys, pls this question has been bothering me for sometimes now, am in luv with this girl, but I just discovered that I am only 5months older than her. And we are planning to get married. So guys is it right to marry her, will she look older than me after sometimes as it is always said. Girls in d house please wat is ur view.

Useful comments and advice only that is needed.

You didn't set your priorities right. You are planning to get married and you are now considering the age gap? I don't think it should be a problem IMHO.