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Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by tiemod: 2:54pm On Jun 30, 2014
what can I say to get my ex-boyfriend back?

My ex-boyfriend and I were living together for a year.. but when I moved my bedroom furniture over along. With changing my address we got into a huge argument over things that were bothering me, I became so frustrated because he ignored me, saying that I threw one of our pictures on the carpet and the glass broke…as I did this he, by the way, he is military of 30 yrs, recorded me and called the cops trying to have me removed! The same day gave me an eviction notice! I LOVE HIM BUT OMG ALL THAT OVER A PICTURE FRAME!! I now live with a friend and throughout our year he was so good to me... it's been 2weeks and we text very little and he"s shut down anything too emotional.. its like he's a robot where before he was SO SO affectionate..help! what should I do to get my ex-boyfriend back

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Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by mstik(f): 3:03pm On Jun 30, 2014
Love na by force?
Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by Enegod(m): 4:02pm On Jun 30, 2014
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Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jun 30, 2014
WTF.. Mehn what's possibly wrong today.

This should be the fifth thread I'm coming across of Babes yelling to get back with their EX.

Is this some kind of omen that I'm getting dumped today?
And what's with You Ladies And EX?... So irritating.

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Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by sexylogan(m): 5:58pm On Jun 30, 2014
tiemod: what can i say to get my ex boyfriend back

My ex boyfriend and I were living together for a yearr.. but when I moved my bedroom furniture over along. With changing my address we got into a huge argument over things that were bothering me, I became so frustrated because he ignored me, saying that I threw one of our pictures on the carpet and the glass broke…as I did this he, by the way he is military of 30 yrs, recorded me and called the cops trying to have me removed! Same day gave me an eviction notice! I LOVE HIM BUT OMG ALL THAT OVER A PICTURE FRAME!! I now live with a friend and through out our year he was so good to me..its been 2weeks and we text very little and he"s shut down anything to emotional.. its like hes a robot where before he was SO SO affectionate..help! what should i do to get my ex boyfriend back

You can't force a man to man to love you. Most likely there was anoda babe and he was waiting for the slightest opportunity

to end it with you. You need to move on with your life. I pray the next man treats you better.
Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by sexylogan(m): 5:59pm On Jun 30, 2014
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Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by sisinaijayeye0: 7:51pm On Jun 30, 2014
sexylogan:

You can't force a man to man to love you. Most likely there was anoda babe and he was waiting for the slightest opportunity

to end it with you. You need to move on with your life. I pray the next man treats you better.

I totally agree with you
Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by sisinaijayeye0: 7:55pm On Jun 30, 2014
tiemod: what can i say to get my ex boyfriend back

My ex boyfriend and I were living together for a yearr.. but when I moved my bedroom furniture over along. With changing my address we got into a huge argument over things that were bothering me, I became so frustrated because he ignored me, saying that I threw one of our pictures on the carpet and the glass broke…as I did this he, by the way he is military of 30 yrs, recorded me and called the cops trying to have me removed! Same day gave me an eviction notice! I LOVE HIM BUT OMG ALL THAT OVER A PICTURE FRAME!! I now live with a friend and through out our year he was so good to me..its been 2weeks and we text very little and he"s shut down anything to emotional.. its like hes a robot where before he was SO SO affectionate..help! what should i do to get my ex boyfriend back

What we ladies dont know is that we dont see clearly till we hate them, or move on, obviously rhis guy is not right for you, if he can do this over a little vase, what will he do if you bash his car or do something accidental and u r married and pregnant he will throw you out, trust me i had a sweeter guy than you and he ended up squeezing life out of my neck,

Mve on. Its a slow progress but trust me six. Months from today you will know that you are worth more than this guy, if he misses you hewill call dont make any move on him, start playing subway surfers trust me ull feel better
Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by wazobiaforu(m): 8:33pm On Jun 30, 2014
i can tell you what to say to him to have him back as your boyfriend

BUT

i cant tell you what to say to him to marry you

Because he is done with you. just take heart and move on

even if he is an hired assassin, no man will use his energy or actions on the woman he claim to love, he supposed to use it to protect her
Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by joanrivers(f): 2:32am On Jul 02, 2014
It is always what you say that decides the fate of your relationship. While saying the wrong things will end your relationship, saying the right words can help you salvage it. Here is what you should avoid saying and what you need to say to your boyfriend to get him back.
Wait it out before you do anything
The thing is if you say anything too soon then it's most likely to backfire badly. Before you make a move and attempt to say anything to your boyfriend you must make sure that you have let a bit of time pass. Make sure that your boyfriend doesn't hate you and is willing to at least hear you out.

Admit your mistake
The first thing that you must do is to admit your mistake. The fact that you are taking ownership of your actions and are willing to go beyond and even take ownership of what was beyond your control is something that won't go unnoticed. This is bound to make your boyfriend feel a lot better.

Apologize
Just admitting your mistake isn't enough. You have to follow it up with an apology. Tell your boyfriend that you are very sorry for what you have done. Tell your ex boyfriend that you really feel bad for hurting him and it was never intentional. Don't validate what you did or try to justify your actions unless he asks you to. Just make the apology heartfelt.

Say you were lucky
Make your ex boyfriend feel a little better by telling him that you feel that you were really lucky to have him in your life. All you need to tell him is how enriched your life felt because of him and how much you have grown as an individual because of his presence.

Keep the spite and negativity out
When you are talking to him he might say some things that you feel are unfair. It's in your best interests to just swallow your pride and hear him out. Trashing out negative things about him now is only going to make things worse.

Hear him out
Listen to what he is saying. Sometimes listening is as important as saying things. When you give him a patient hearing you get to understand his side of the story and figure out your next move.

Wish him well
Once your conversation is over, all you need to do is wish him well like you mean it. Tell him that all you want is for him to be happy even if it means that you have to be sad. He will see your good side and will soon be back with you.

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Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by joanrivers(f): 9:12pm On Jul 06, 2014
Discussing with your boyfriend after your break up can be quite uncomforting. But if you know what to do then the task becomes easy and you can be a smooth operator. Here is what you need to do when you want to talk to your ex boyfriend.

I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back So Badly - Don't Be Unreceptive
Being angry or hostile is not going to help you in any way. If you feel that by giving your ex a piece of your mind will make you look like the stronger person then you are wrong. Being hostile just makes you seem bitter, jealous and petty.

Do Not Push Him
Don't push him to talk to you soon after a break up. Take a little bit of time so that he can cool off and be able to talk to you. Making a move too soon will only result in him rejection so give him some time alone for your sake. And in this time do not make any attempt to even be seen by him.

Resolve Any Issues
Take some time out for yourself and resolve the conflict and hurt that you are feeling inside. If you harbor the dreams of getting back with your ex you need to know why you did things that you did and what you need to change. You also have to let go of your anger before you talk to your ex as if you go with unresolved issues, all might seem great initially but soon the differences and anger will begin to show.

Establish Conversation By Saying Hello
After some time has passed you will need to make the first move. So, start by working on your body language and making it more confident. Once you have your confidence in place then the next time you see him look into him eyes and smile and say hello.

Do Not Use Any Cocky Moves
Not saying anything is much better than using some cheesy or corny introductory line. Remember that you are not trying to pick him up. He was you boyfriend and you are trying to be friends again. So a bit of humility is what is going to come in handy.

Keep The Conversation Broad
Try to keep the conversation generic in the beginning. Don't pry into him relationship status. Talk about how things have been so that he doesn't get uncomfortable with you.

Sign Off Quickly
Do not talk to him for a long time. Keep the conversation short and impersonal yet warm. Tell him you'll call him sometime and that you should hang out sometime. That should do the trick for you.
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if you are out there passing through any of
this problems listed below:


1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
(cool If you need financial assistance.
(9) How you been scammed and you want to recover
Re: Things To Say To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back What Can I Say by mabelbrilliant: 12:20am On Aug 04, 2014
Hi Tiemo, I really need your advice on how to get my ex boyfriend back. I love my ex so much and am sure he also love me when he told me he cant live without me, we share everything together even our account details and password. We had a fight and lost communication, a month later i saw him with another lady of on street kissing and i felt a pain go through my heart. Brad please come to my rescue, am in pains.

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