hell no

unless you are in the habit of giving stupendous gifts like cars and flat-screen Teevees I would not mind leaving behind borrowed monies, old pyjamas, T-shirts, memories etc (see the type of gifts you can afford to leave behind?)

From my experience, gifts you give because you expected or are expectign somethign back, you tend not to want to leave behind when things don't work out, but if you gave when love suckered you, then it is okay and easier to forget it and move on, (that was an expensive camera, darrn!!)

It depends on how the affair crumbled. If this guy has been totally honest sexually and financially and she dumps or double-dates this guy. This one-girl man will be seriously perturbed and can demand some things back from her to erase her memories completely. However, don't women give gifts? She should get hers back. I bet handkerchiefs and poor-quality boxers and towel. Don't mind them but protect yourselves guys.No heartbreaks no heartburns.Bad people!

Not all all, I won't. What will I use them for? That's way too cheap!

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@ gbengaijot. finally, thank goodness someone's not so petty about getting things back. and the things are even yours. it takes a real man not to ask for those things back. see how it even worked in your favor. girl wants you back. you must be THE man. hahahaha.

@soulpatrol, i believe everyone have their own opinion and sides to things, as far as i am concerned(apart from a gold ring), i cant give a lady material things that i cant afford to give someone else.
So if sdhe mess up at the end, i believe if its just a casual friend, i would have given her nearly dsame thing.

As for the girl-- I can't take her back coz she told me i was such a loser, and thats why she broke up with me, everybody can u imagine that?

The girl harsh oh!

She is so harsh @fabian. I guess if a lady knows you truly love her and you show it, she takes it for granted and hurt you real bad.

You need to see the look on ma face when she said it. I was so mad and same time broken down. I couldn't believe it.

gbengaijot:


As for the girl-- I can't take her back because she told me i was such a loser, and thats why she broke up with me, everybody can u imagine that?

when did you become styl plus? i loooove that song!

lol thats a funny one o . My man is gonna take back a gift that he gave me?? No that's not going to happen he gave it to me and its now mines and he's not getting it back no matter what i do.

@ soulpatrolno one likes styl-plus on nairaland like i do. I am the greatest styl-plus fan.

men, this is not hard o.

MEN! Here's one advice for you. If you have plans to marry a girl, and after putting rock on her finger she breaks it up. Im telling you. STALK HER TILL SHE GIVES U that rock back. Well if u bought a fake sh1t, don't even embarrass urself by asking for it.

If the girl is like me sha, i'll even return it before u ask for it.

@hot-angel
thanks for that. that was exactly what i said. how can i leave my rock for her? and i dont even buy fake cuzz im all real from hair to toe.

Women say that they want a man to spend 2 times his salary on their engagement rings. If all men are to go by that rule. Heaven knows they have the right to DEMAND and COLLECT that ring back if they break up before marriage.

another good point. i hope hotstepper and the rest are seeing this.

If a man was the cause of the break up, probably if he was cheating on you and you CAUGHT him red handed.

Diddy there's a twist!!

If you catch ur man cheating on you red handed, and he's given you the ring, Hey my ladies. Y'all need to hurry ur ass down to a pawn shop and pawn the sh1t out of that ring. Don't matter if it's a gazillion dollars. PAWN it. He doesn't deserve to have it back.

Diddy, im sure u agree with that too.

ermmmm, hottie, i think you lost me there although i wont cheat on her but still u suppoz know say the thing na money.


ok, make i use style agree cuzz it wont happen to me.

would i take my things back ? No , it just doesnt make sense.

@ diddy, ha i see. U better not let it happen to u oo. lol

@hottie

there is a way of doing dis. just get closer to her b4 she reacts and take the ring. she can take the car is she wants but that rock is important.

Well, i wont buy a rock that i cant afford to loose. so if she no give me back, to hell with her and the ring!

I will not collect back my phone.

what if the guy is the one paying the phone bill

let her say hello to bills cuzz i aint paying no more.

awww, thats mean

thats why i wouldnt rely on any man for anything in case this kind of stuff happen

well, if u got a nice man, try hard to keep him unless he is a nice stupid man and i know nice and stupid dont go together.

nahhh baby, you gon get you a nice responsible man. just the way u like it.

but i hate breakups, the thought of it makes me,

LOL LOL OMG nike

@nike

not only u. i too hate break ups. dats y after my first r/ship, i have sworn to be single for as long as it takes. dont worry mami, you gon get you a right guy right thurr.

ha! i think i gat him already, not a walk on the beach tho

i cant face breakups, it hurts like wow! u try and act like you are not bothered but inside you wana rip your heart out

anyways back to presents, if its an antique like picture frame or something i shall return it, i dont want anything to remind me of it. it cant be a phone because i buy my own stuff myself!

dats more ike it. go girlll.