Please I wanna know if it is Possible for one to categorically state that a particular guy or lady is capable of cheating in marriage by his or her Behaviour/lifestyle while single.

Men and women who wear red underwears often are liable to cheat.













Believe that at your own risk.

You can't know beforehand if someone ll cheat in marriage, cheating is spontaneous, you don't swear that you must cheat when you marry, until you marry and something or somebody make you snap.

It will be written in their foreheads..

On a serious note.... cheating is determined by a lot of factors during the marriage.

But a little history of the person you getting married to will give u a slight but inaccurate idea.

Has he / she been cheating "regularly" during courtship?

Does your partner value faithfulness even when there is distance?

Does he/she have a very high sexual drive more than yours?

Does he;she keep a string of "anonymous friends" of the opposite sex that u dont feel comfortable with?


Has your partner ever made such comment as "if you cheat on me I will also cheat on you"? Those who make such comments will most likely go ahead to cheat even if you don't.


Those are just little signs to consider but are not a sure sign of a cheating partner.

Best of luck in your quest Monsieur!!!

Naetochukwu: Please I wanna know if it is Possible for one to categorically state that a particular guy or lady is capable of cheating in marriage by his or her Behaviour/lifestyle while single.

women - when the right böob is bigger than the left.

men - when the left testicle is bigger than the right.

however, you cannot know this until you get close. in other words, stop bothering about this. go into a relationship & hope for the best. if you get burnt, start again.

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Take your mind away from it.
If you over-obsess over this, it will likely happen.

Past experience will likely serve you inadequately on this too. Anybody can do anything at anytime. Yes, even that spirit-filled brother or sister.(though chances are less)

The most important question you should be asking is: "If this person cheats, even if it were hard, do I see myself being able to forgive him/her?"
If your answer is no, then you shouldn't marry that particular person.

You wan write PhD thesis on it








because the science of cheating is evloving daily and no one can predict correctly the symptoms, causes and objectives of a cheat and cheater

i wld av ask dis man bt.....,so lemme ask d oda man

Don't date a liar.

coogar:

if you get burnt, start again.

For how long will one continue "starting again"

2buff:
The most important question you should be asking is: "If this person cheats, even if it were hard, do I see myself being able to forgive him/her?"
If your answer is no, then you shouldn't marry that particular person.

Honestly not just a particular guy but whosoever I marry and he cheats on me I don't think I can forgive the person.
I have trust issues, and if I distrust a person I don't think I can ever believe what he/she says again let alone trust.

May be marriage is not for me...

Naetochukwu:
Honestly not just a particular guy but whosoever I marry and he cheats on me I don't think I can forgive the person.
I have trust issues, and if I distrust a person I don't think I can ever believe what he/she says again let alone trust.

May be marriage is not for me...

God could as well have trust issues with you, but he chooses to see the good in you regardless of your stumblings.

Look, the whole point of marriage is not because "This person will never do me this thing". You have to go into that thing with the mind to forgive anything this person does you, or you might be best just doing Bf/Gf or common law tinz. (with exception sha of brutality)

Marriage is mostly an avenue for humans to practice to another human being the kind of love God has for us. Not just "hey baby" love.

2buff:

God could as well have trust issues with you, but he chooses to see the good in you regardless of your stumblings.

No God is God... I am human with flaws too..
God forgives and forgets but mere mortals are. Bound to remember...

Naetochukwu:
No God is God... I am human [size=16pt]with flaws too[/size] .
God forgives and forgets but mere mortals are. Bound to remember...

Then consider it a personal challenge to ascend past your mortal capabilities
Marriage is a challenge to love a person the way God loves. Otherwise, don't even start the game.
If you separate it from all other social/human expectations, that is what marriage really is.

And at the bolded, All the more reason why you shouldn't hold it over another person with flaws like you, especially if they are heartbroken about what they did. (At least don't hold it over them forever )

See Babes, when put in a position to judge others, it is very easy for us to see ourselves as flawless when doing so.
God go jus dey look us dey laugh

2buff:

Then consider it a personal challenge to ascend past your mortal capabilities
Marriage is a challenge to love a person the way God loves. Otherwise, don't even start the game.
If you separate it from all other social/human expectations, that is what marriage really is.

And at the bolded, All the more reason why you shouldn't hold it over another person with flaws like you, especially if they are heartbroken about what they did. (At least don't hold it over them forever )

See Babes, when put in a position to judge others, it is very easy for us to see ourselves as flawless when doing so.
God go jus dey look us dey laugh

Cool. If your wife whom you never thought could cheat on you, actually cheated on you. what will you do?

Sophyrocks:

Cool. If your wife whom you never thought could cheat on you, actually cheated on you. what will you do?

he will forgive and forget...
As simple as ABC for 2buff....right?

Sophyrocks:

Cool. If your wife whom you never thought could cheat on you, actually cheated on you. what will you do?

Neither I know, nor you regarding your own spouse.
But I'm not going to be thinking that far and start filling up my mind with fear regarding the hence-imaginery event.
The bridge will be crossed if we get there.

Some things are beyond your control.
No use loosing sleep over it.

Naetochukwu:
he will forgive and forget...
As simple as ABC for 2buff....right?

Unlike y'all, I honestly do not burden my mind with such predications my dear.
Whatever will happen will happen and may God's grace be sufficient to strengthen us through all trials.

Not in the habit of sacrificing my joy for today just to imagine evil in the future.
There are much better things for me to do with that kind of creativity.
Maybe that's a difference between men and women.

Op, I saw a site where it was stated the kind of men/women who are Liable of cheating. It May not be a one-size-fit-all thing bt could give you an insight of how the thought process of cheats work. From what i gathered,

1)Men who are naturally filled with excessive Ego/are arrogant/are proud.
2)Men who believe cheating is in the genes and is a natural characteristic of men.
3) Men who are financially advantaged/have an improved standard of living.
4) Men who love to cheat once an opportunity presents itself.
5) Men who are adventurous and get easily bored.
6) Men who have never stayed with only one woman at a time while single and are so used to dating multiple women.
7)Men who cheat for fun as a Hobby, who love the company of women. womanisers are an example.

As for cheating women;
1) Women who are egoistic/proud/arrogant.
2) Women who have suddenly experienced an improved standard of living/have a very good paying job that exposes her to lots of males.
3)Women who are adventurous or easily get bored.
4) Women who love attention and compliments a lot from males and are NOT getting it from their partners.
5) Women who are too used to male company.
6) Women whose husbands cheat.
7) women who are attractive/beautiful/exude sex appeal.
women who see cheating as fun.

2buff:

Neither I know, nor you regarding your own spouse.
But I'm not going to be thinking that far and start filling up my mind with fear regarding the hence-imaginery event.
The bridge will be crossed if we get there.

Some things are beyond your control.
No use loosing sleep over it.

Oga Sir, just simply answer the question. What will you do? Its very easy to preach forgiveness. Very very easy. But you who is preaching, can you forgive?

Sophyrocks:

Oga Sir, just simply answer the question. What will you do? Its very easy to preach forgiveness. Very very easy. But you who is preaching, can you forgive?

If I get to the point where I put a ring on a woman's finger, it would mean I am giving a much higher level of love than I have EVER known myself capable of gving in all my bachelor days.

So no miss, I cannot tell you what I will do in that scenario as I have never loved anyone to the point where I would be loving my future wife.
That love is currently an alien sensation to me as I have not taken myself to that point with anyone yet.

I could say all manner of things here, in this currently limited experiential state of mind, but do differently when the time comes. Same with you.
That is why all you can do is hope for grace when you need it for all of life's challenges and pray against the ones that Wil be too difficult.

That is also why the bolded is a pointless question to negatively/bitterly entertain yourself with today.
The only question you need to ask is "would forgiveness be possible if...". If the answer to that is "absolutely NOT! " , then sit your cute Behind at home and forget marrying that person...at least until you have enough emotional strength to answer that more important question differently.

coogar:
go into a relationship & hope for the best. if you get burnt, start again.

GBAM!
Life's too short jare

2buff:

If I get to the point where I put a ring on a woman's finger, it would mean I am giving a much higher level of love than I have EVER known myself capable of gving in all my bachelor days.

So no miss, I cannot tell you what I will do in that scenario as I have never loved anyone to the point where I would be loving my future wife.
That love is currently an alien sensation to me as I have not taken myself to that point with anyone yet.

I could say all manner of things here, in this currently limited experiential state of mind, but do differently when the time comes. Same with you.
That is why all you can do is hope for grace when you need it for all of life's challenges and pray against the ones that Wil be too difficult.

That is also why the bolded is a pointless question to negatively/bitterly entertain yourself with today.
The only question you need to ask is "would forgiveness be possible if...". If the answer to that is "absolutely NOT! " , then sit your cute Behind at home and forget marrying that person...at least until you have enough emotional strength to answer that more important question differently.

Hahahahahahahaha. Why are you avoiding the question with all these epistles? I may or may not, higher form of love bla bla bla. LOL. #feigning of ignorance to suit the Ego# You said you have not attained that kind of love yet but yet you are preaching that in marriage you must have attained the love strong enough to forgive. I assume you would definitely get married therefore forgiving a cheat shouldnt be a big deal to you since by then you must have attained that level of love. So why is it difficult for you to answer this one simple question?

I will take your reply as a NO. This is the same reaction i got from another male. you peeps are always afraid of this kind of question. says a lot about your thought on cheating. Perhaps the question raised your b.p a little since men are easily prone to stroke. LOL. I understand. Its all good. keep up wth the ignorance if it makes you sleep well at night and chases away high b.p. Afterall, what you dnt know/choose not to know won't kill you init? Preacher no fit answer the question but he says do as i say but not as i do.

Hehehehehehehe.

Sophyrocks: As for cheating women;
1) Women who are egoistic/proud/arrogant.
2) Women who have suddenly experienced an improved standard of living/have a very good paying job that exposes her to lots of males.
3)Women who are adventurous or easily get bored.
4) Women who love attention and compliments a lot from males and are NOT getting it from their partners.
5) Women who are too used to male company.
6) Women whose husbands cheat.
7) women who are attractive/beautiful/exude sex appeal.
women who see cheating as fun.

Emphasis on the emboldened, those are the reasons why I have always known all women are potential cheats...and when I say all, I mean all (deliberately generalization).

The reason is not far fetched going by those two criteria because;
- Every woman loves attention and compliments from males (married or not)... and,
- Most women (no matter how unattractive they may be) still see themselves as beautiful/attractive.

The only thing that stops a woman from cheating is the negative associations that come with it.

As for the men's list, well we don't hide our own...everyone already knows

Regarding the topic, I don't think there's a deliberate method to knowing who is capable of cheating. But as a personal precaution, I see women who stammer, lie, or struggle to give coherent answers to questions I ask them regarding a man I'm suspicious of around them, as hiding something from me.

Lying when it comes to feelings is not something that comes easy to most women.

crackhaus: Regarding the topic, I don't think there's a deliberate method to knowing who is capable of cheating. But as a personal precaution, I see women who stammer, lie, or struggle to give coherent answers to questions I ask them regarding a man I'm suspicious of around them, as hiding something from me.

Lying when it comes to feelings is not something that comes easy to most women.

any man who believes the sentence above is in for some big shocker in his life
hehehe......I laugh in Japanese

Sophyrocks:

Hahahahahahahaha. Why are you avoiding the question with all these epistles? I may or may not, higher form of love bla bla bla. LOL. #feigning of ignorance to suit the Ego# You said you have not attained that kind of love yet but yet you are preaching that in marriage you must have attained the love strong enough to forgive. I assume you would definitely get married therefore forgiving a cheat shouldnt be a big deal to you since by then you must have attained that level of love. So why is it difficult for you to answer this one simple question?

I will take your reply as a NO. This is the same reaction i got from another male. you peeps are always afraid of this kind of question. says a lot about your thought on cheating. Perhaps the question raised your b.p a little since men are easily prone to stroke. LOL. I understand. Its all good. keep up wth the ignorance if it makes you sleep well at night and chases away high b.p. Afterall, what you dnt know/choose not to know won't kill you init? Preacher no fit answer the question but he says do as i say but not as i do.

Hehehehehehehe.

Why are you in such a hurry to condemn a man for what has not even happened yet?
I think this itself is the greatest ignorance, because you would be using your own mind to destroy your marriage day by day until you actually push him to do what your uncontrolled fear has engineered.

I guess, like you said, you have trust issues. The sooner you also admit that it is a "problem", the better for you and whoever gets with you.
It is not about you not trusting your spouse, it's really about your need to control the uncontrollable. This is a very good way to grow old before your time, because you will ALWAYS be in a state of worry!

There are some questions that should not be asked or answered at a certain stage of your life, especially in a black and white format. E.g. What will you do if your child stabs you in the leg? etc etc

The more you run through all these scenarios and ramp up your fearful emotions (perhaps a missapropriation of your feminine need to always FEEL something?), the less you enjoy your TODAY and the more you emit a certain negativity that will keep the RIGHT people away from you.

Peace.