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7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by elitehowcom: 7:00pm On Jul 18, 2014
Find out the origins of some wedding traditions that have become common practice all over the world.

Here is a list of 7 most common wedding traditions and their origins to wedding enthusiasts across the globe.

Weddings are layered with many traditions that have evolved over time.

Find out more about the origins of our most common wedding traditions.

1. BRIDESMAIDS: One of the most interesting wedding traditions remains with bridesmaids and their original purpose. Nowadays, bridesmaid dresses usually cause the most contention. However, originally bridesmaids dressed exactly the same as the bride. The purpose was to confuse evil spirits and stop them from becoming fixated on the bride, and ultimately prevent them from cursing the newlyweds.

2. WHITE BRIDAL GOWN: It was actually Queen Victoria who introduced the white wedding tradition back in 1840. Since then, women all over the world have followed her cue. Traditionally, the white wedding gown symbolized purity, innocence and chastity. Not so sure about this nowadays…and many brides are choosing other colours for their gowns.

3.THE RING FINGER: Beyonce’s "if you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it" lyrics chimes an element of ancient truth. In ancient Rome, when a man put a ring on a woman, he literally took possession of her. The ring symbolized his ownership. Additionally, ancient Romans believed the ‘Vena Amoris’ or ‘Vein of Love’ connected the left ring finger directly to the heart, which is why the wedding ring is only ever placed on this finger.

4.STAG NIGHTS: One of the oldest wedding traditions is the stag night and it hasn’t changed much since the Spartans started it in the 5th Century B.C. Stag nights are when a groom celebrates his last night as a single man. No superstitions, no evolution, just the same celebration with the same purpose and we're guessing the same outcome – MESSY.

5.BOUQUET: In ancient times, bouquets were made up of pungent herbs and spices like garlic and dill. The reason was to ward off those pesky evil spirits and prevent ill health. Fortunately times have changed and we have evolved to become a less superstitious society. Nowadays, brides carry bouquets made up of fragrant flowers as oppose to pungent herbs.

6.THROWING RICE: In ancient times, rice symbolized the seed of life. Traditionally it was thrown at the newlywed couple as they departed from the church. This gesture was to wish the couple luck, prosperity and fertility. Nowadays, it's simply seen as littering and apparently it's not so good for native birds. These days, people are replacing rice with ribbons or confetti.

7.CARRYING THE BRIDE OVER THE THRESHOLD:Traditionally speaking, there were two different reasons the groom carried the bride over the threshold. In some parts of the world it was to protect his bride from being possessed by evil spirits. Back then, brides were considered as being highly vulnerable to spirit intrusion. In other parts of the world, it was a way of preventing the bride from appearing too eager to lose her virginity. Nowadays, it’s a romantic gesture, one that we hope sticks around forever.

There are so many more interesting wedding traditions in the different parts of the world, and typically most of them spawn from our ancient ancestors’ superstitious natures.

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jul 18, 2014
Marriage is an experience each of us need to have.

Its fun if only you follow the rules.

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by arvinsloane(m): 8:18pm On Jul 18, 2014
Interesting

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by amakufrancis(m): 7:28am On Jul 19, 2014
qettinq married soon.
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by PastorOluT(m): 7:29am On Jul 19, 2014
That's the more reason I still strongly believe in our traditional marraige n not that white wedding stuffs. Many people just want to have it 'cos everyone is doing it not knowing its tradition.

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 7:31am On Jul 19, 2014
Please where did "jumping the broom" originate from and what is its significance? I see it in movies and I like it.

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by echobee(f): 7:32am On Jul 19, 2014
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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by mencade5(m): 7:33am On Jul 19, 2014
all these are copied tradition. Blacks and their continous taste to copy everything from the white. Even when they are fake.

What of our own african culture? Can we get its own origin.

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by mencade5(m): 7:33am On Jul 19, 2014
echobee: ................
u still dey do this kind tin? tongue

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Drfash(f): 7:34am On Jul 19, 2014
Beating of groom came 4rm where?
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 7:34am On Jul 19, 2014
Was all dis evil spirit dis evil spirit dat. Wonder whose traditions they are. In igboland am sure dey mean diff tins all togeda
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by lonelydora: 7:35am On Jul 19, 2014
Tell me more
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by tempem: 7:38am On Jul 19, 2014
I need more
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by priscaoge(f): 7:41am On Jul 19, 2014
That "Ring Finger" is also known as "Engagement" abi?

That "Throwing Rice" thoundecided I hope is not boiled ricecheesycheesycheesy

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Henrypraise: 7:42am On Jul 19, 2014
Payin heavy bride price: igbo

Compellin ur inlaws to lie down: yoruba

Flogging ur inlaw: fulani

Marrying 1 lady 3 tyms (traditional, court, church): Nigeria.

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Dygeasy(m): 7:43am On Jul 19, 2014
What about exhorbitant bride price like say dem wan sell the pikin?
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by iceberylin(m): 7:50am On Jul 19, 2014
No1 tho....What if d evil spirit causes the brides Maid?
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by constance500: 7:52am On Jul 19, 2014
Is okay...
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by jibbish(m): 7:54am On Jul 19, 2014
Nau all ds are adopted tinz frm a foreign culture....@Op- can u tell me wia ASO EBI originated from. I nid to know those who initiated dt Bad Idea

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by ogbonge9grian: 7:55am On Jul 19, 2014
Marriage is over rated
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Valfrankie(m): 8:00am On Jul 19, 2014
I was hoping to read "COMMON WEDDING TRADITIONS IN NIGERIA!!! like bride price payment, wine carrying, etc and here is my guy talking about Rome n Greek. Op, q you have said nada!

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 8:01am On Jul 19, 2014
There is also Abuja marriage o
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by bosunjohns(m): 8:13am On Jul 19, 2014
What's are the rules please? By the way are you married?
Dominiquez: Marriage is an experience each of need to have.

Its fun if only you follow the rules.
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 8:15am On Jul 19, 2014
iceberylin: No1 tho....What if d evil spirit causes the brides Maid?
Tie ba niyen grin grin

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Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 8:16am On Jul 19, 2014
Dygeasy: What about exhorbitant bride price like say dem wan sell the pikin?
Eastern Nigeria, West Africa. grin grin
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 19, 2014
priscaoge: That "Ring Finger" is also known as "Engagement" abi?

That "Throwing Rice" thoundecided I hope is not boiled ricecheesycheesycheesy
Nope, it's raw Rice. They still do that in Kenya, Mexico and some other countries.
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by priscaoge(f): 8:19am On Jul 19, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Nope, it's raw Rice. They still do that in Kenya, Mexico and some other countries.
Ok thanks!gringrin
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by iceberylin(m): 8:21am On Jul 19, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Tie ba niyen grin grin
meaning
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by agitator: 8:21am On Jul 19, 2014
Wedding? OK I was here wink wink wink
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 19, 2014
hmm
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by obayaya(m): 8:26am On Jul 19, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Eastern Nigeria, West Africa. grin grin

Stop it already angry
Re: 7 Common Wedding Traditions And Their Origins! by meditate(m): 8:27am On Jul 19, 2014
Ok, following
But what's all this ish about evil spirits?
And yea, who brought the idea of exhorbitant bride price? If you attend some traditional marriages, it seems as if the bride is a commodity in the market being sold. u go fear bargaining things!!

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