What is the easiest and most painless way to break up with someone?

it depends..jst dnt call d person again, he/she wud get d message

Ha!

Em... There's no painless way, much less a most painless way. If there's strong attachment, it would definitely hurt, though much less if you let go gradually.

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Break ups are always painful especially to d person being dumped

check out those who are eager to break up, they might be products of broken homes.
If you're in the habit of breaking up in relationships,you need deliverance because it's devil's clandestine moves to destroy your marital life nd d children disoriented, hence a vicious cycle of anomalies created.

babe,wetin d guy do u

@ xp17 and @ AdeniyiA, you guys are presumptuous mehn... So easy to assume people breakup without trying to make it work. Why judge her path when you haven't walked her journey? (AdeniyiA's signature anyone?)

Dating is meant to test the waters, to see if you guys are good enough for marriage together. It's not marriage itself. If there are intolerable traits you discover in the other person before marriage, you are supposed to hang on forever because? Get real jare.

Oahray: @ xp17 and @ AdeniyiA, you guys are presumptuous mehn... So easy to assume people breakup without trying to make it work. Why judge her path when you haven't walked her journey? (AdeniyiA's signature anyone?)

Dating is meant to test the waters, to see if you guys are good enough for marriage together. It's not marriage itself. If there are intolerable traits you discover in the other person before marriage, you are supposed to hang on forever because? Get real jare.

we aren't judging nobody's path here.
who's d "her" u referring to?

AdeniyiA: check out those who are eager to break up, they might be products of broken homes.

What sense did u make now

Just bold up and tell the person why it can't work out tough but this is the best way to break up the clean way. The pain is less and the person is set free.

xp17: why not try to fix issue for Pete sake? this is my problem with this generation , they are always looking for where it's greener. personally ,i think breaking up should be the last option; not the first.

-have you tried to work things out?
-do you think the next guy would be better? if yes, what is your assurance?
-have you tried some kinda spacing for sometime to resolve issues?
- have you tried talking things out?
-have you asked yourself what you are not doing right?
- have you bothered to know why things are going haywire?
- have you sat your a'ss down to ask yourself if there is some shitt you are not doing right.
-have you tried all you could.
-or you are one of those that bitchh around?

not all that glitters is gold. so ;wherever and, whoever you think is better might just be a worse butt kicker .

if you adopt the culture of running to uncertainty, my dear, you are at the verge of accumulating lots of Exes and in and, outta marriages.

no relationship is perfect or close to perfection. instead of fantasizing on what you don't have , why don't you appreciate what you've got?

fantasizing other people's realities is a bitchh.

good luck.

Nice epistle, but I didn't say I want to breakup. Don't conclude

Put him/her on OLX for sale.
No pain, plenty gain.

There is no painless or easiest way. But the best way of breaking up (in my opinion) is for both parties to sit and talk it through. At least no one leaves the other with so many unanswered questions.

xp17: why not try to fix issue for Pete sake? this is my problem with this generation , they are always looking for where it's greener. personally ,i think breaking up should be the last option; not the first.
-have you tried to work things out?
-do you think the next guy would be better? if yes, what is your assurance?
-have you tried some kinda spacing for sometime to resolve issues?
- have you tried talking things out?
-have you asked yourself what you are not doing right?
- have you bothered to know why things are going haywire?
- have you sat your a'ss down to ask yourself if there is some shitt you are not doing right.
-have you tried all you could.
-or you are one of those that bitchh around?
not all that glitters is gold. so ;wherever and, whoever you think is better might just be a worse butt kicker .
if you adopt the culture of running to uncertainty, my dear, you are at the verge of accumulating lots of Exes and in and, outta marriages.
no relationship is perfect or close to perfection. instead of fantasizing on what you don't have , why don't you appreciate what you've got?
fantasizing other people's realities is a bitchh.
good luck.

Nice one you just said it all, if only we will listen