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Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by shaybebaby(f): 9:12am On Jul 27, 2014 |
vicoson: You are right. I am not arguing with you just to prove a point. People will learn from our discussion so I'm going to ask you this: consider these two scenarios 1. Lucy is a nice name but have you considered Joy?A Compromise would be Lucy Joy .. She can have both names as first and middle names. Everybody happy. My hubby chose my sons name, I chose his middle name which is a traditional name( hubby is not from my tribe) hence our child represents both of us. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 11:17am On Jul 27, 2014 |
Op this is for creating a thread like this and your arguments and that this thread didn't escalate to something else. Oya come and have this for lunch 5 Likes
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Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 27, 2014 |
If you don't want that or it's not enough for you. You can have this. Its for only" op- relationship: 4 Likes
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Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by vicoson(m): 11:51am On Jul 27, 2014 |
shaybebaby:Very well. I don't have any problem with who decides what. I have problem with the attitude. You don't look down on your partner's decision/ suggestions. That is where competition comes in aka we are equal, so my suggestion/decision must stand. By the way, is it ideal to have 2 English names? |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by shaybebaby(f): 12:11pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
vicoson: Very well. I don't have any problem with who decides what. I have problem with the attitude. You don't look down on your partner's decision/ suggestions. That is where competition comes in aka we are equal, so my suggestion/decision must stand. By the way, is it ideal to have 2 English names?But then I expect the same consideration given to my suggestions. Asking for validation of your opinion is not asking for you to answer to me, simply an effort to better understand your stance and the reason for it. It's acknowledging that you have a right to your opinion even when it is contrary to mine. That is equality right there. An ideal would be based on what you decide as acceptable. What does it matter how many names you have? It is but one form of identification. The funny thing is that the child in question might grow up and decide that she hates both names and decide to call herself Shaniqua, lol. Then that fight would have been for nothing in retrospect. Conceding to your woman's wishes does not make you weak, just reasonable because it means you choose your battles. And it works when both parties do that for each other. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Jovie: 1:05pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
OP, take it easy. You were trying to make a point against opression but d anger is too much... |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by blesszzy(m): 1:05pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Relationship101: Kudos to all the women (and men) that are standing up against domestic abuse. Africans have experienced a large dose of abuse (especially to the women) and we need to stand up against this devilish act. I lopve women. They are queens. They are strong, energetic, important and compassionate. Damn! Did I forget to mention that they are sexy? henh, in 2face voice* Is ma woman dat told me 2 write ds up* |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by stagger: 1:10pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Relationship101: Kudos to all the women (and men) that are standing up against domestic abuse. Africans have experienced a large dose of abuse (especially to the women) and we need to stand up against this devilish act. I lopve women. They are queens. They are strong, energetic, important and compassionate. Damn! Did I forget to mention that they are sexy? You are indeed very stupid and bereft of any sense of reasoning. Mention one organization (even in sports) that does not have a captain. Headship brings direction. It brings accountability and also calls for representation. The head should also be the one that should be the last man standing. The bible calls such a person the strongman of the house. That is what a man is in a household. A defence, provider of means, provider of leadership. So if the police stop your wife and start harassing her on the road and she gives you a call, you will hide under the garbage you have just spilled out? You are crazy! 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by yungchop: 1:10pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Op, see what your thread can cause..
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Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by clemz88(m): 1:16pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Some times I wonder why some people would just come to nairalaand and start vomitting rubbish. Please if u do not have a reasonable topic to offer, I beacon u to stay off instead of coming here to rant rubbish. |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by LaurelP(m): 1:18pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Acidosis:And in His name OP, I cast out every demon tormenting ur life |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by benghaziii: 1:18pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
another johesu member...now taking it home to family matters.. i agree jor..man is nt d head oooo...sleep wif urself..give birth...ansa ur papa'/maiden name......then put food on table pay ur children school fees... |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by 9jagist(m): 1:20pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
i need not read your reason, you are a slowpoke for saying that, |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Thierryhenry(m): 1:21pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Relationship101: Kudos to all the women (and men) that are standing up against domestic abuse. Africans have experienced a large dose of abuse (especially to the women) and we need to stand up against this devilish act. I lopve women. They are queens. They are strong, energetic, important and compassionate. Damn! Did I forget to mention that they are sexy?May a woman be ur head IJN...oya answer amen..SMH 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by mencade5(m): 1:23pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Relationship101: Kudos to all the women (and men) that are standing up against domestic abuse. Africans have experienced a large dose of abuse (especially to the women) and we need to stand up against this devilish act. I lopve women. They are queens. They are strong, energetic, important and compassionate. Damn! Did I forget to mention that they are sexy?op if your father is not the head of his marriage, then that idiiiooot you wrote there is for him. |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by hensben(m): 1:23pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
@op, e be like say u just new start to dey f u c. K n u come discover say t o t o dey sweet Btw, are you a christian, moslem, traditionalist, artheisist or a lady(feminist) who disguise to be man to spew rubbish. It sucks to be you mehn! |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by scanp(m): 1:24pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
I dnt blame d writer,, mayb in his family his f*da is nt d head... 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Men are the head while the women are the neck. The neck turns the head. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Youpele52: 1:24pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Relationship101: Kudos to all the women (and men) that are standing up against domestic abuse. Africans have experienced a large dose of abuse (especially to the women) and we need to stand up against this devilish act. I lopve women. They are queens. They are strong, energetic, important and compassionate. Damn! Did I forget to mention that they are sexy?This is probably the most silly and I'll conceived thread I have seen on Nairaland. silly points backed up by equally silly examples. I see no relationship between assault/domestic violence and a man being the head of the home and neither do I see any relationship between a man being the head and barrenness. and also note a marriage is not a partnership. 1+1=2 is a partnership while 1+1=1 is a marriage. For the second equation to be correct mathematicaly one subject has to loose its identity and some characteristics in order to create an indivisible bond with the other |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Krasid(m): 1:30pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
OP what you wrote there makes no sense at all.I need valid points why men are not the head of the family. |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by chrisdoller(m): 1:31pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
coogar: Abeg meet ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ mama nkechi joint make I nak γ̲̣̣̥o̲̣̥υ̲̣̥ to shots.γ̲̣̣̥o̲̣̥υ̲̣̥ just summerized this poo called a write up from an unreasonable transgendered 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Mavor: 1:32pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Being the head of the family has nothing to do with marital abuse. Stop getting it twisted @OP. For those who detest the institution of marriage, it is not by force to get married. See the following for references on the structure of a Christian family: Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:7, Genesis 3:16, Ephesians 5:25, Ephesians 5:22, Ephesians 6:1, Ephesians 5:23, Colossians 3:18-19. For the record, I am not a sexist. The Creator in His infinite wisdom deemed it fit to put things the way they are. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
coogar:COOGAR CAN'T TAKE THE TRUTH PELE COUGAR 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Safari29: 1:34pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Onlinebizexpert: can somebody whisper to the OP that he is maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad OP you are MAD |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by shaybebaby(f): 1:34pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
INNOisBACK, I see you lurking there, what is your take on this? 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Mavor: 1:34pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
godjohnson: This is probably the most silly and I'll conceived thread I have seen on Nairaland.I just wonder how all these type of drivels turn to frontpage material. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Inserts a probe into his brains! Mtcheew! 2cm deep only. No wonder, a nincompoop! Forgets probe inside his skull and walks away cococandy: I hope you're ready for what's coming your way |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Mavor: Being the head of the family has nothing to do with marital abuse. Stop getting it twisted @OP. For those who detest the institution of marriage, it is not by force to get married. See the following for references on the structure of a Christian family: Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:7, Genesis 3:16, Ephesians 5:25, Ephesians 5:22, Ephesians 6:1, Ephesians 5:23, Colossians 3:18-19. For the record, I am not a sexist. The Creator in His infinite wisdom deemed it fit to put things the way they are.U HAVE TO REALISE THAT NOT EVERYONE IS A XTIAN.SO NOT EVERYONE AGREES WITH THIS 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by nduchucks: 1:35pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
I will only respond to the title of the thread with the admission that I have not read any post therein. The OP is wrong, men are indeed the Heads of the family and families where that circumstance does not exist, obviously excluding single parent homes, are essntially dysfunctional. Having said that, these men, heads of family, are well advised to understand that while they are the heads, women are the Necks of the family! sodiafor, if the head misbehaves and allows the neck to fall ill, with Stiffneck, the head will never be at rest. The question is, which is more important to you as a human being, the head or the neck? I submit to you that if any man suffers from Stiffneck, nothing else in his day, year, life, will matter until that stiffneck is treated. As for me, I'll rather have a neck which will allow me to move my head freely because fuctioning with a stiff neck is basically impossible. nuff said for wise reader. hint hint for men: if you massage the neck when needed, oil it, spoil it, love it, take care of it etc etc, that neck will not be stiff and your head will live in peace, along with its useless ego. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are NOT The HEAD Of The Family! Read My Reason! by Mavor: 1:35pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
dhammyg:Point noted madam. |
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