As MOTHERS, why be like those other Mothers who leave their daughters to figure out love, intimacy, relationships, and the opposite sex on their own? Why not help your daughters out a bit, by sharing these tips that could make a world of difference to her.

Things Our Daughters Should Know About Love, S*x, Relationships And Men

1. If you’re paranoid he’s cheating, then you don’t trust him, so it's best to end the relationship, before you drive him and yourself crazy and, no more relationships, until you figure why you're having trust issues.

2. Don't ask a man to do things for you that you're not willing to do for him.

3. Men aren't mind-readers. If you want something, need something, or are bothered by something he's doing or not doing in the relationship - speak up.

4. Men are powerless in the face of female se*uality; use this knowledge wisely and sparingly- not maliciously.

5. Be honest and upfront about your feelings, and ask the same from men.

6. Don’t try to change a man or wait years for him to change; move on.

7. If he’s an a**hole when you’re dating, then he’ll be an a**hole when you’re married.

8. The first time he hits you is the last time he hits you, because you leave.

9. There's no such thing as a "perfect couple", so don’t compare your relationship to others' relationships too much.

10. If he’s not willing to work on the relationship, then he’s not invested in it; move on.

11. It may be the 21st century, but women are still called sl*ts ( a bad thing), when they sleep around and men are called studs (a good thing), when they sleep around, so mind your panties and, if you can't, be very, very discreet, use protection,birth control and, keep your business to yourself. Loose lips sink ships.

12. If you want control of your future - control your reproduction.

13. If a man cheats on you before marriage, most likely he'll cheat on you after marriage.

14. Your name is not "Bi*ch", "C*nt", "S*ut, "S*ank or "W*ore". If a man calls you this the first time and you forgive him, he may call you this a second time, at which point you leave, because physical abuse, generally starts after verbal abuse.

15. Flirting or eyeballing other women in your presence is disrespectful and shouldn’t be tolerated. If it continues, leave. You deserve better.

16. The STD talk really isn’t that difficult to have. Practice safe s*x and get STD testing every three months.

17. Don't advertise your man too much in front of your girlfriends - one (or more) may decide to find out what's keeping that smile on your face.

18. Being stingy with the 'goodies' or using it to punish or to manipulate is a good way to drive a man right out of your life.

19. You both should be able to say “I’m sorry” and mean it.

20. If he can’t laugh at himself, he’s too uptight.

21. A man who cooks you breakfast in bed, gives you foot rubs, goes shopping with you or accompanies you to a chick flick is worth his weight in gold.

22. A woman who knows how to cook, is fun and spontaneous, has more good days than bad, isn't needy or clingy, and gives a man one hour of complete peace, after a long day at work is worth her weight in gold.

23. Mama’s boys are unlikely to prioritize your wants and needs above their mom’s wants and needs.

24. Always trust your instincts.

25. If you don't want outside people in your relationship, then don't complain to outsiders about your relationship.

26. Men's needs are usually very simple - food, support, loyalty, peace of mind, a woman who keeps herself up and, "the punana". If he's not getting his needs met at home, he's going to get them met somewhere else.

27. If you lower your standards and requirements, as to how you want to be treated by a man, what you expect out of a man and, what you want and need out of a relationship, a man is going to take advantage of it and, get away with more things, without any repercussions from you.

28. If you're willing to settle for something (a piece of a man) rather than have nothing (no man), what you'll end up getting is a man's who's about nothing.

29. If you want a man to respect you, then, act like woman who deserves respect.

30. Find a man that truly “cares” for you. When love and passion fade, “caring” takes over, until they return again.

31. Never waste your time with a man that makes you feel bad about yourself.

32. You don’t owe a man any punana, even if he buys you the most expensive dinner in town.

33. Learn the art of seduction - it'll keep him coming back for more.

34. Pregnancy is no excuse to go around looking like Gravel Gertie (a slouch).

35. You can’t own anyone and they can’t own you.

36. Men need to be cuddled and hugged too - don't let them fool you.

37. Find someone to share your life with, not be your life.

38. You're responsible for your own happiness.

39. Love doesn’t hurt - break ups do.

40.Date Mr. Perfect-For-You, instead of vainly searching for Mr. Perfect.

Source: cupid.com

You got it there.

Sister aren't some of your lesson rather too selfish and rude, thought love is meant to be love not decorated with sense and selfish reasoning..

tochilyn: Sister aren't some of your lesson rather too selfish and rude, thought love is meant to be love not decorated with sense and selfish reasoning..

Which of these "lessons" do you consider too selfish and rude, lacking sense or...are selfish reasoning?

Very on point.

No 21 def does not exist,abi the man no get work ni ,
be friends with your man,friendship between couples is very important.

i concur to this write up.
being a lady rocks. Woooooooo

*shaking my hips from left to right and so on and so forth...*

zboyd:

Which of these "lessons" do you consider too selfish and rude, lacking sense or...are selfish reasoning?

6. Don’t try to change a man or wait years for him to change; move on. seriously i guess we are product of changes

7. If he’s an a**hole when you’re dating, then he’ll be an a**hole when you’re married. A big fat lie, many do change in marriage

8. The first time he hits you is the last time he hits you, because you leave. yes hitting a woman is off but then again what caused it,is there nothing like room for amend in your reasoning
13.If a man cheats on you before marriage, most likely he'll cheat on you after marriage most you use an individual to judge all
15. Flirting or eyeballing other women in your presence is disrespectful and shouldn’t be tolerated. If it continues, leave. You deserve better,abeg nah only waka come......
i can go on and on but make i drop here conductor.

Too much list already! Boring!!!