The problem I have with women is that they seem to relax once they get married thinking that the husbands will just love them.
It is the duty of both spouses to take care of themselves and look good for each other.
Women should not be lazy and try to keep shape so that their husbands does not have to look elsewhere and vice versa.
The fact is if a woman allows get self to loose shape the man will get disillusioned and start thinking outside.

^^^sadly the men are not better, just look at how many get "pregnant looking" pot bellies........ hideous!

Okay o. I pity your wife. How can you say you hate your wife and want to go back to your ex? how are you sure that your hot ex will not become like your wife after some years and kids too? Are you exactly the way you were when she got married to you?

If you don't like something in your partner, both of you should talk about it and then work on it. No need for the hatred.

Meanwhile, i read somewhere that some kind of birth control pills make some women add some weight.

MRbrownJAY: ^^^sadly the men are not better, just look at how many get "pregnant looking" pot bellies........ hideous!

and bald head when they had thick and curly hair before marriage.

Trust most women to:

a) Give rubbish selfish advice.

b) Blame the man for the wrong.



The original storyteller should know that the wife has failed in her responsibilities to him.

He has to decide whether he is happy to be in jail for the rest of his life and live the rest of his life well.

30kg in 12 years is like termination/nullification of contract if the 30kg is not stored in the right areas.

MRbrownJAY: ^^^sadly the men are not better, just look at how many get "pregnant looking" pot bellies........ hideous!

Godmystrength: and bald head when they had thick and curly hair before marriage.

Dem force the women to stay with them?

Moral lesson for all of you that want to marry because of those things that meet the eye; you may end becoming like this man.

Moral lesson for all those that are not yet mentally and psychologically matured, yet want to enter into marriage; you might end up like this man

Moral lesson for all of you that are driven by passion(what we can call initial gra gra in marriage) and forget that slowly the drive fades away, you might become like this man

Moral lesson for all those that won't take my counsel serious; you might end up starting a similar thread

Sagamite: Dem force the women to stay with them?

dem force the men to stay with these baby whales?

Sagamite:
Dem force the women to stay with them?

bro, men or women, anyone who put on 30kg in the wrong places should be given a stern warning (in order to get their act together): LOSE IT OR GET LOST!!

MRbrownJAY:

dem force the men to stay with these baby whales?

bro, men or women, anyone who put on 30kg in the wrong places should be given a stern warning (in order to get their act together): LOSE IT OR GET LOST!!

I don't think anyone adds weight for the fun of it. Your approach doesn't help your spouse, in fact I would slap anybody that loses weight just so they can keep a spouse that is suppose to love them for who they are.

What if your child is fat?? What if your wife gets a disease that makes her add weight without an effective way of curbing it?

bla, bla, bla about ultimatums (I'm not in the mood of stating the obvious)

MRbrownJAY:

dem force the men to stay with these baby whales?

bro, men or women, anyone who put on 30kg in the wrong places should be given a stern warning (in order to get their act together): LOSE IT OR GET LOST!!

Unfortunately, women are not primarily after looks.

When a man gets a warning is when the money he spends on her or gives her falls by 30% and she still has options of decent-looking toasters with deeper pockets, who are ready to commit, care about her, respect her, is tall enough, finished university, has a good job, loves his mother, his mother is not a witch, has no babymama or at least the babymama is out of the picture or remarried, has not more than 2 kids but preferably none, can dress nicely, smells nice, can take her worst BS and still smile at her, says 'I love you' everyday or at least 3 times a week, can cook and is willing to share domestics blah blah blah blah blah.

My point is, women's attraction to men is more complex and not the same.

We want them to look good, have a decent personality, take care of domestics and know when to shut the fck up.

Ours is simple A B C D when seeking a partner. Everything else is secondary.

We have simple needs, they have complex needs.

So, really, she needs to stay in decent shape or put the junk in good trunks to satisfy the 'good looks' requirement.

The looks is a symbol of his hard work.

Why will I work hard to be a millionaire and then drive a danfo bus, when my millions can get me a good Ferrari (Lepa) or Bentley (Orobo)?

Unfortunately, women are not primarily after looks.

When a man gets a warning is when the money he spends on her or gives her falls by 30% and she still has options of decent-looking toasters with deeper pockets, who are ready to commit, care about her, respect her, is tall enough, finished university, has a good job, loves his mother, his mother is not a witch, has no babymama or at least the babymama is out of the picture or remarried, has not more than 2 kids but preferably none, can dress nicely, smells nice, can take her worst BS and still smile at her, says 'I love you' everyday or at least 3 times a week, can cook and is willing to share domestics blah blah blah blah blah.

on point... i wonder why some feel women have no standards...

JEITO: Moral lesson for all of you that want to marry because of those things that meet the eye; you may end becoming like this man.

Moral lesson for all those that are not yet mentally and psychologically matured, yet want to enter into marriage; you might end up like this man

Moral lesson for all of you that are driven by passion(what we can call initial gra gra in marriage) and forget that slowly the drive fades away, you might become like this man

Moral lesson for all those that won't take my counsel serious; you might end up starting a similar thread

Real Man!

Andromida's student.

Top of that class of graduating set of year 2009.

Sagamite:

Real Man!

Andromida's student.

Top of that class of graduating set of year 2009.

I clap for you chairman. But marriage is a different type of school and you've not shown this same brilliance in it I must say..

BananaBender:
I don't think anyone adds weight for the fun of it. Your approach doesn't help your spouse, in fact I would slap anybody that loses weight just so they can keep a spouse that is suppose to love them for who they are.

What if your child is fat?? What if your wife gets a disease that makes her add weight without an effective way of curbing it?

bla, bla, bla about ultimatums (I'm not in the mood of stating the obvious)

who cares how what why the weight is added? the way you reason is the root of the problem. these women shouldnt lose weight to keep their man, they should lose weight to stay attractive to the person they married, to still be DESIRABLE to the man they married so that they can continue having a fulfilling union. this union was started on that physical attraction, why would you think that suddenly it shouldnt matter?! the fact that you would believe that a man would love you, regardless of how you end up looking, is your 1st fail on this issue.

everything you do in a union will dictate how your partner would feel about you.... thinking that you can LOOK/ACT/REASON any damn way you please, and that your spouse would love you regardless is foolishness. there are criteria that you MUST respect, if you want to stay happily married. physical/emotional ATTRACTION are some of these criteria.

JEITO: I clap for you chairman. But marriage is a different type of school and you've not shown this same brilliance in it I must say..

Yeah, marriage is a type of institution you graduate into after people like andromida have schooled you to think women have no responsibility and all faults should be blamed on the man; which is best done by challenging his masculinity?

I see.

Thank God, I no go such school to then show the "brilliance" of such pedagogy.

Talk to her on the issue if she's not the type that can exercise, get her Trim and Fit diet coffee. A pack costs about 8k. By the time she gets to the third pack you'll both be amazed by the results . Unless you're nothing but a broke ass nigg*r who does nothing but whine and complain about everything

Sagamite: Unfortunately, women are not primarily after looks.

When a man gets a warning is when the money he spends on her or gives her falls by 30% and she still has options of decent-looking toasters with deeper pockets, who are ready to commit, care about her, respect her, is tall enough, finished university, has a good job, loves his mother, his mother is not a witch, has no babymama or at least the babymama is out of the picture or remarried, has not more than 2 kids but preferably none, can dress nicely, smells nice, can take her worst BS and still smile at her, says 'I love you' everyday or at least 3 times a week, can cook and is willing to share domestics blah blah blah blah blah.

Are you now saying that since a man has the right to complain or even leave his wife that is adding weight because she no longer looks like the woman he married even if the weight adding is not her fault/doing, then a woman is also justified to abandon her husband when he becomes broke since he is no longer the rich/wealthy guy he married?

A man wants a pretty/beautiful/dashing wife after all like my boss will say ''they won't reduce money from the bride price if she is not good looking enough''. He sees ugly girls but refuse to marry them. He finds his dream woman and clings to her. No problem with that. Everything is on track.

A woman wants a rich/wealthy guy after all nobody came to this world to suffer. Poor guys come to marry her but she refuses. She sees her dream man and clings to him then the name calling will start.

Men(even the ugly ones) want to marry beautiful girls, women want to marry rich men so why is it that when you hear a woman desires a rich man, BP will rise and will start asking if the girl herself is rich bla bla bla......

Godmystrength: Are you now saying that since a man has the right to complain or even leave his wife that is adding weight because she no longer looks like the woman he married even if the weight adding is not her fault/doing, then a woman is also justified to abandon her husband when he becomes broke since he is no longer the rich/wealthy guy he married?

A man wants a pretty/beautiful/dashing wife after all like my boss will say ''they won't reduce money from the bride price if she is not good looking enough''. He sees ugly girls but refuse to marry them. He finds his dream woman and clings to her. No problem with that. Everything is on track.

A woman wants a rich/wealthy guy after all nobody came to this world to suffer. Poor guys come to marry her but she refuses. She sees her dream man and clings to him then the name calling will start.

No 1, there is weight adding that is not someone's fault. And there is weight adding that is someone's fault. Don't try that shyt with Sagamu.

No 2, I am sure I don't need to give justification to most women to dump men they are not interested in anymore. They are experts in doing so if they can move to better and safer things. They would just come up with some flimsy excuse like "He is not paying me enough attention" "We are always fighting [true, but this is due to her tactical moves to start fights every time shortly before the break-up]" and then you see the real men (in their pretentious "wisdom" ) start supporting her and blaming him for not paying her attention or not being "mature enough" to handle a woman.

Godmystrength:
Men(even the ugly ones) want to marry beautiful girls, women want to marry rich men so why is it that when you hear a woman desires a rich man, BP will rise and will start asking if the girl herself is rich bla bla bla......

No 3, now please show me where I complained a woman desires a rich man.

O fe strawman Saga Saga? (You want to strawman Saga Saga?)

MRbrownJAY:

who cares how what why the weight is added? the way you reason is the root of the problem. these women shouldnt lose weight to keep their man, they should lose weight to stay attractive to the person they married, to still be DESIRABLE to the man they married so that they can continue having a fulfilling union. this union was started on that physical attraction, why would you think that suddenly it shouldnt matter?! the fact that you would believe that a man would love you, regardless of how you end up looking, is your 1st fail on this issue.

everything you do in a union will dictate how your partner would feel about you.... thinking that you can LOOK/ACT/REASON any damn way you please, and that your spouse would love you regardless is foolishness. there are criteria that you MUST respect, if you want to stay happily married. physical/emotional ATTRACTION are some of these criteria.

Don't mind her.

Let her continue living in her delusion that it is her birthright for any man to fancy her or stay with her irrespective of whatever she is or does.

She will face a dumping galore in her lifetime except she ends up with and selects weak men or religious men who think they have some duty to some yeye God.

Sagamite:

No 1, there is weight adding that is not someone's fault. And there is weight adding that is someone's fault. Don't try that shyt with Sagamu.

No 2, I am sure I don't need to give justification to most women to dumb men they are not interested in anymore. They are experts in doing so if they can move to better and safer things. They would just come up with some flimsy excuse like "He is not paying me enough attention" "We are always fighting [true, but this is due to her tactical moves to start fights every time shortly before the break-up]" and then you see the real men (in their pretentious "wisdom) start supporting her and blaming him for not paying her attention or not being "mature enough" to handle a woman.



No 3, now please show me where I complained a woman desires a rich man.

O fe strawman Saga Saga? (You want to strawman Saga Saga?)

I only asked you one question which is

Godmystrength: Are you now saying that since a man has the right to complain or even leave his wife that is adding weight because she no longer looks like the woman he married even if the weight adding is not her fault/doing, then a woman is also justified to abandon her husband when he becomes broke since he is no longer the rich/wealthy guy he married?

..........

wetin concern me with all the rest of your stories? Abi you didn't see the spaces (paragraphs) between

Iwo lo ma strawman Saga Saga? (Na you go strawman Saga Saga?) whatever that means... Please keep your shyt to yourself. Thank you.

MRbrownJAY:

who cares how what why the weight is added? the way you reason is the root of the problem. these women shouldnt lose weight to keep their man, they should lose weight to stay attractive to the person they married, to still be DESIRABLE to the man they married so that they can continue having a fulfilling union. this union was started on that physical attraction, why would you think that suddenly it shouldnt matter?! the fact that you would believe that a man would love you, regardless of how you end up looking, is your 1st fail on this issue.

everything you do in a union will dictate how your partner would feel about you.... thinking that you can LOOK/ACT/REASON any damn way you please, and that your spouse would love you regardless is foolishness. there are criteria that you MUST respect, if you want to stay happily married. physical/emotional ATTRACTION are some of these criteria.

Actually the way you reason is your problem!

I care how they add weight because it matters. Women in general are obsessed about their looks. I guess I'm surrounded by so many healthy eating, calories counting freaks. I don't understand the concept of just "letting yourself go".

@highlighted: Nigga, what?? You're saying the same fvcking thing. I guess that is why you have numerous baby mamas (they couldn't lose the baby weight)

If a woman "opens her eyes" and gets with a man that shares the same opinion as you, then I guess your ultimatum wouldn't come as a shock.

Btw, do not get it twisted. I will never lay with a man with a pot belly because I find them repulsive but if my husband grows one overnight, I won't tell him to lose it or leave. I'll simply do whatever I can to encourage losing weight even if it involves me doing the cooking for him so I can monitor what goes into his mouth.

Losing baby weight takes time for some women and they already struggle with it, so just running around the house like a gorilla on heat demanding she loses the weight or leave just makes you appear extremely shallow to me. How do you expect to encourage someone to lose weight when all you do is make them feel even more insecure about their looks.

You better not reply me with, "I am taking about a woman that doesn't want to lose weight" because that only reflects badly on you. It shows you make poor decisions by choosing to marry someone that doesn't share the same values as you (especially something you consider so critical and could end your marriage)

Godmystrength: I only asked you one question which iswetin concern me with all the rest of your stories? Abi you didn't see the spaces (paragraphs) between

Iwo lo ma strawman Saga Saga? (Na you go strawman Saga Saga?) whatever that means... Please keep your shyt to yourself. Thank you.

So na ghost type the rest of your post?

Sagamite:

Don't mind her.

Let her continue living in her delusion that it is her birthright for any man to fancy her or stay with her irrespective of whatever she is or does.

She will face a dumping galore in her lifetime except she ends up with and selects weak men or religious men who think they have some duty to some yeye God.

BWahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Look @ this bald-headed-pot-bellied man talking. Stop pls!

You??!!! hahahahahahahahaha

MRbrownJAY can talk because he clearly works on his body. You should just shut your mouth pls.

This same thread again?
In d previous one posted, b4 we knew it, it became gender biased kinda stuff.

But some people don't even want to help themselves at all. Be it womem or men and they don't care.
They don't know that life starts after giving birth(for both couples)

They r missing big time.
Though its true some contraceptives make some ladies swell up.(Better they change to another)

BananaBender:

BWahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Look @ this bald-headed-pot-bellied man talking. Stop pls!

You??!!! hahahahahahahahaha

MRbrownJAY can talk because he clearly works on his body. You should just shut your mouth pls.

Fisk, you know men of your hoodrat and university calibre are the worst?

Na single motherhood be that for you when they cannot rob a liquor store to take care of baby.

Sagamite:

Fisk, you know men of your hoodrat and university calibre are the worst?

Na single motherhood be that for you when they cannot rob a liquor store to take care of baby.

Still doesn't change the fact that you're an ugly baboon

BananaBender:

Actually the way you reason is your problem!

I care how they add weight because it matters. Women in general are obsessed about their looks. I guess I'm surrounded by so many healthy eating, calories counting freaks. I don't understand the concept of just "letting yourself go".

@highlighted: Nigga, what?? You're saying the same fvcking thing. I guess that is why you have numerous baby mamas (they couldn't lose the baby weight)

If a woman "opens her eyes" and gets with a man that shares the same opinion as you, then I guess your ultimatum wouldn't come as a shock.

Btw, do not get it twisted. I will never lay with a man with a pot belly because I find them repulsive but if my husband grows one overnight, I won't tell him to lose it or leave. I'll simply do whatever I can to encourage losing weight even if it involves me doing the cooking for him so I can monitor what goes into his mouth.

Losing baby weight takes time for some women and they already struggle with it, so just running around the house like a gorilla on heat demanding she loses the weight or leave just makes you appear extremely shallow to me. How do you expect to encourage someone to lose weight when all you do is make them feel even more insecure about their looks.

You better not reply me with, "I am taking about a woman that doesn't want to lose weight" because that only reflects badly on you. It shows you make poor decisions by choosing to marry someone that doesn't share the same values as you (especially something you consider so critical and could end your marriage)

After all this moronic whine about rules, he would still leave you.

BananaBender:

Still doesn't change the fact that you're an ugly baboon

This is coming from a hoodrat who' boyfriends are ebonics-speakers with tattoos all over their face?

Sagamite:

After all this moronic whine about rules, he would still leave you.

Dickturd, what rules??

Boo hoo, l will still get another

Sagamite:

This is coming from a hoodrat who' boyfriends are ebonics-speakers with tattoos all over their face?

And the above is coming from a poverty-stricken-hood-roach who can't get a chick because he is fugly.

*Spreads mat*