Dear lovely people of NL, am in dire need of good words of advice...
I have been going out with a guy for almost a year. Infact we wd officially be a year old by the 23rd of next month(sept), he schools in d eastern part of the country, buh hez based in lag while am also based in lag, the issue now is the long distance thingy, we barely get to see at all,the last time we got to see was last year november, though we communicate very well on phone, buh am starting to entertain some fears abt this relationship.... Am thinking of calling it quits on our first anniversary next month, or is there a way we could deal with the distance ish?
Really need matured advice.....
Thanks, lovely nairalanders.

This night kwa? Would love to advice you.. But I can't type much right now.. Sowi!! sleep dey blow mee for here ... (Feeling real sleepy), Will modify this post tomorrow though!! Cheers •

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MzOma: 18 views and no comments?

I'm the 19th one.

What are your fears?

Just the distance or you miss him a lot ?

Or you suspect him keeping another ?

banega: This night kwa? Would love to advise you.. But I can't type much right now.. Sowi!! sleep dey blow mee for here ... (Feeling real sleepy), Will modify this post tomorrow though!! Cheers •

Thanks dearie.... Have a nice night tho

MzOma: 18 views and no comments?

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okparaugo:

I'm the 19th one.

What are your fears?

Just the distance or you miss him a lot ?

Or you suspect him keeping another ?

D distance, nd ion why, buh something in ma head keeps telling me he's seeing another gal

KingTom:
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MzOma:
D distance, nd ion why, buh something in ma head keeps telling me he's seeing another gal

He might.

But you are just having a suspicion without substantial evidence.

It depends on the kind of guy he is. Are you virgins ?

MzOma:

Ah pretty lady, frowning will only give you wrinkles oo . smile for me joor

okparaugo:

He might be likely.

But you are just having a suspicion without substantial evidence.

It depends on the kind of guy he is. Are you virgins ?

No we aren't, he mostly talks about a future with me in it, buh am too nigerian to just put ma hopes on that alone..

Eyop: MzOma:

Long distance relationship to me is a farce. I have been in it for over 2 years(she resides in Abuja while myself in Lagos) and decided to call it quit when i wasn't getting all that i needed. It entails a lot and i don't think i can go into such relationship again. It's a 50:50 thing but though some people are getting involved in it and getting positive results though the chances are very slim. Your guy might be in the East doing his kwaja and you here in Lagos suffering emotional torture and at the end all your emotional torture turns out to be a bad investment.

If you have the power to carry on,you can go ahead but sincerely it doesn't really worth the trouble when you have numerous guys here in Lagos that you can build up a solid relationship with.

Cheers

Thanks dear

okparaugo:

He might be likely.

But you are just having a suspicion without substantial evidence.

It depends on the kind of guy he is. Are you virgins ?

Lool, sleep run comot for my eyes a bit immediately i read the bolded,. smh for you Ugochukwu!! What kinda silly question is this please?

banega: Lool, sleep run comot for my eyes a bit immediately i read the bolded,. smh for you Ugochukwu!! What kinda silly question is this please?

Me too I dey fin the answer oo

KingTom:
Ah pretty lady, frowning will only give you wrinkles oo . smile for me joor

banega: Lool, sleep run comot for my eyes a bit immediately i read the bolded,. smh for you Ugochukwu!! What kinda silly question is this please?

She is suspicious of her boo.

As a relationship councillor, I need certain information to calm her nerves.

She is such a cute little girl.

Her heart needs guidance.. kinda

banega: Lool, sleep run comot for my eyes a bit immediately i read the bolded,. smh for you Ugochukwu!! What kinda silly question is this please?

Biko ask him

MzOma:
No we aren't, he mostly talks about a future with me in it, buh am too nigerian to just put ma hopes on that alone..

And you don't wanna cheat on him.

Has there been any signs leading to your suspicion ?

Maybe an erratic manner he sometimes picks or avoids your calls certain times ?

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okparaugo:

She is suspicious of her boo.

As a relationship councillor, I need certain [b][/b]information to calm her nerves.

She is such a cute little girl.

Her heart needs guidance.. kinda

Lwkm @cute lil gal

MzOma:
Biko ask him

We are on the same page dear.

If you were virgins or its a sexless relationship, suspicion would be out of it. You know ? That's why i asked.

MzOma:

That's better

okparaugo:

And you don't wanna cheat on him.

Has there been any signs leading to your suspicion ?

Maybe an erratic manner he sometimes picks or avoids your calls certain times ?

He almost cheated with my friend once

MzOma:
He almost cheated with my friend once

Right there in lag ?

It depends on how it happened.

Did your friend seduce him ?

KingTom:
Me too I dey fin the answer oo

Mmm, naughty you •

okparaugo:

She is suspicious of her boo.

As a relationship councillor , I need certain information to calm her nerves.

She is such a cute little girl.

Her heart needs guidance.. kinda

Indeed!!

MzOma:
Biko ask him

done that •

banega: Mmm, naughty you •

okparaugo:

Right there in lag ?

It depends on how it happened.

Did your friend seduce him ?

Yeah here in lag.
They both seduced themselves... Buh that happened a long ago..
Nd that's my exact fear, that he may not be doing it with someone I know ds tym arnd...
Buh he doesn't stop professing his love for me.... It kinda gets me confused most times

Eyop: @ Banega i thought you wanna sleep what are you still doing on this thread

Lool , don't mind mee oh,. was laying my bed jareee,. Good night honey!! Muahhhhh •

How are you gonna handle the break up. ?

Her : Boo, are you cheating on me ?

Him: Why do you ask ?

Her: I mean, how do you keep body and soul together in school ?

Him: Sweet, body no be firewood.

Her: So my suspicion has been right ?

Him: I never said so, I self service.

Her: sobbing.. ( I want a break up )

Him: goes on his knees ( I can't live without you ).

Continues...