Raxxye: The truth is that your friend was in love with the guy because he was abroad and has been in money. Now, she wants to leave him because he wants to relocate back home to run his business. She is just another gold digger and an opportunist. Shame on her!

Bros, you know these ladies very well.

What propels them are always transient.

His money she has been spending in England was coming from a remote village in Enugu state and now she doesn't want to support him in making that money because it involves relocation.

I really wonder how women reason..

My dear, you don't need any advice. If she quits, she is the loser...

CoachDX: Double problem!
A man directed by his family and a woman controlled by her family.

Well, tell your friend, she could be in deep trouble if she tries to seperate her man from his family. No matter the fears her family instilled into her, if he refuses to base in Abuja as she prefers, she should join her man wherever he goes. If such family business is that important, i'm sure the location is not as bad as a typical village. There's nothing to see ahead. . .let her family leave them alone to plan their lives.

A Nigerian lady will only reason like the bolded when age is no longer on her side..

Love ain't blind,stay back if your man can't find a solution to it,u all typing in the city don't knw how the village life looks like. #hate_holidays itellya

audreybrian: @Ifysimple thank you sis.
Please my beloved nairalanders,my friend needs these advice as the relocation date is already near.So,pls just drop the advice you have and stop casting blames.No need for arguements as this is a very serious matter.Thanks.

You(your friend) have been given enough advice. Leave the young man alone. You don't love him. You're only after his money. You want to cut him off completely from his family so your own family can control him any how they like. That's too selfish. Btw, nnpc depot in enugu state is in the main town and not some remote village.

Hello audreybrian,really dont know what to say now.Really strange hun.

tracyorez: Hello audreybrian,really dont know what to say now.Really strange hun.

Hi tracy.How are you?

audreybrian:
Hi tracy.How are you?

Fine hun!

ifysimple:


wetin be your own sef? You jus carry the matter for head dey vex any how. Na you be the man? Lol
All the 'op' wants is a good advice of which you and i have not provided.
i was just telling you to put the gold digging matter aside, consider her fears and then advise her. Its her own problem and her personal way of seeing it.
Marriage is a serious matter of which you cannot even go into it alone . Your family must come in and you must also listen to them before arriving to a conclusion.

Women have fish brain yet they decieve you all the time.

Babe, the matter dey vex na im make u see me dey para so. My advice to her is already obvious from my posts. Let her call off the marriage. That way, the guy will have the opportunity to find another woman who truly loves not only him, but also his family and is ready to share in his vision and go all the way with him.

And for your information, a lady can't deceive me. I have grown past that level since 1913!

audreybrian: @Ifysimple thank you sis.
Please my beloved nairalanders,my friend needs these advice as the relocation date is already near.So,pls just drop the advice you have and stop casting blames.No need for arguements as this is a very serious matter.Thanks.

My dear girl, your friend wouldn't even seek this advice if she truly loved the man. Tell her to follow her heart. Advise her also to drop the mentality of associating 'village' with diabolism and evil. If everybody ran away from their villages the way she is doing, there would be no city today. People work to develop their villages, and they grow to become towns and cities!
Advise her also not to allow her family run and ruin her life.
Shikena!

Raxxye speaks with wisdom.

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As in ehn! And she don go thief another person picture from tumblr AGAIN!

ifysimple:

Why calling the girl a gold digger? Didnt you read where she said money is not their problem and both of them stays abroad? Some people sef! I m sure you are not commenting from your village.
Her problem is staying permanently in the guys remote village considering that the people are diabolical.

No be everybody wey de stay abroad hold pepper. The girl is a selfish biaatch! She only cares about comfort! So the money that comes from " village business" where she doesn't want to stay, will be used in paying for her comfort in Abuja and Lagos? I know of some people who running multi million Naira deals in their village. I know of some folks near AMA- where Heineken plant is located, that are turning over in millions every week because of business deals with Nigerian Breweries PLC. Save the diabolical bullshiit., his people are diabolical and the money is not?

299: You(your friend) have been given enough advice. Leave the young man alone. You don't love him. You're only after his money. You want to cut him off completely from his family so your own family can control him any how they like. That's too selfish. Btw, nnpc depot in enugu state is in the main town and not some remote village.

I thought NNPC depot was in Emene-outside of Enugu? Anybody who comes from UK would considered it a village...

Women and men think differently... Most Naija women would deny that money or comfort is not their reason for the marriage, but mostNaija guys rarely believe them.

audreybrian: A friend of mine needs this advice.

Her fiance schooled and stays in england with her presently and he have a family business in nigeria.but the problem now is that the fiance lost his dad and wants to relocate permanently to Nigeria next month and not just to Nigeria but to his home town(A Village in ENUGU STATE).She wants to relocate with him but wants to be based in abuja or lagos just to have a quiet and private home but he refused cos the businesses are in his home town.Now,her parents and entire family wants her to cancel the marriage because they think his people are diabolical(pls not offence to anyone) and there will be too many inlaws around even if they dont live in the family house but in thesame village.
Note-My friend really loves him and money is not their problem.But you know ones family have a way of seeing ahead.
Please Advice!

"diabolical"---- Really
What about ur family--- they are not diabolical
U marry Nigeria man u marry the family
Rule number one --Ur husband must not decision ur small problem with his family
Rule number two-- U must learn not to say anything about the family business or negative things about ur husband in the present of any family member-- that should be for bedtime

People think its so easy to just pick up your life and go and start all over what about her work her friends her family.Those are real issues and the fact that she is concerned about them does not make her a gold digger.

tracyfemmmm: People think its so easy to just pick up your life and go and start all over what about her work her friends her family.Those are real issues and the fact that she is concerned about them does not make her a gold digger.

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she don't have to
she is not being force to marry the dude

tracyfemmmm: People think its so easy to just pick up your life and go and start all over what about her work her friends her family.Those are real issues and the fact that she is concerned about them does not make her a gold digger.

She got no work in Lagos or Abuja.. She is not being taken away from her work. It's just that she wants to enjoy without sacrifices.