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Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 10:51pm On Aug 16, 2014 |
Please house I'd like to know the process involved in marriage dissolution.must the procedure be initiated from the state the marriage was contracted and what are the required documents needed if any. Its urgent please and thanks for the anticipated help. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by sexybash(f): 11:04pm On Aug 16, 2014 |
i dont think so get a lawyer to draft an agreement between the two couples which would be signed then the divorce process can begin from there its easier if the marriage is more than 2 years but not that the judge will try to reconcile if everything fails then the divorce will be granted life sometimes happen to us all the best |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Dreal1247: 12:15am On Aug 17, 2014 |
Have the couple tried everything possible to reconcile and failed? Though when divorce is first initiated, it seems the best option. But most couples live to regret the note. I wish you the gest all the way. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by aljharem(m): 3:05am On Aug 17, 2014 |
Are you the man that your wife named your first son after an ex ? https://www.nairaland.com/1858497/first-son-named-after-wifes If yes, then you are doing the right thing. To divorce, get your marriage certificate first and get a Lawyer The Lawyer will sort out the rest. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Nobody: 10:58am On Aug 17, 2014 |
The poster above me is a clown 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 11:47am On Aug 17, 2014 |
sexybash: i dont think soThanks sexybash for your input.whilst marriage is over 2 years old I'm however not sure the other party will agree to the agreement stuff not because the marriage is still salvageable but just to frustrate my moving on. @Dreal The marriage is gone beyond reparable and divorce is in the best interest of both parties in my opinion. @aljharem Naa I'm not the same guy and thanks for your advice. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Tvegas(m): 12:57pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
OP nothing is irreparable if both of you can see reason. Remembered you once called each other sweetheart. You can talk to a lawyer to put you through if divorce is the best option |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 2:45pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
@Tvegas Thanks for your input but believe me some issues are best left irreparable , most especially some relationships.To hell with sentiments and what people would say its life and ones sanity first always. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Amhappy(f): 3:08pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
For Divorce proceeding get a lawyer. But why not start with separation first. 2yrs is too soon. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 5:27pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Amhappy: For Divorce proceeding get a lawyer. But why not start with separation first. 2yrs is too soon. Amhappy: For Divorce proceeding get a lawyer. But why not start with separation first. 2yrs is too soon. Been seperated for a year plus now. Been together for 9 years and been married for 6 years. Thanks will find a family lawyer to advise me. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by amaprincess(f): 6:06pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
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Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Nobody: 7:14pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
gaby:so during this separation period, you hv never missed your wife or had any urge to contact her? Likewise your wife? |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 7:18pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
amaprincess: @op for 9yrs? am sure you have children? is divorce really the solution. there is no perfect woman anywhere, should you're thinking of divorcing this present one for the perfect one. No kids involved thanks |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 7:20pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
MarvellousGod: so during this separation period, you hv never missed your wife or had any urge to contact her? Likewise your wife? Miss and urge to contact ke? When man dey try save him life. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by sexybash(f): 7:27pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Lol at urge If you don't feel safe Just opt for the aforementioned . You only live once There is always someone that will treat you right Just believe 3 Likes |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Nobody: 7:31pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
gaby:oohh sorry. ..this one has gone quite beyond repair. .I think you're doing the right thing |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 8:00pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
Yes o very well beyond repair. The only possible repair is divorce! |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by Nobody: 9:59pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
gaby: Gaby, this part got me LOL I don't mean to be insensitive to your plight I just couldn't help LOL. What do you mean by the last part and I quote '' When man dey try save him life.'' Is your life in danger from your spouse? I don't know what the issues are but 6 years of marriage no be beans ooo, Can't you honestly work things out? The path of least resistance can be very easy to take when we don't want to fight any longer. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 11:27pm On Aug 17, 2014 |
@sihom I understand how funny it comes across but in my dialect there's a saying that its better to be wifeless than have one you'd be scared to go home to.Hope you understand! |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by i1: 4:34am On Aug 19, 2014 |
Mr Gaby pls call 08093779782. I will give u tips. please ensure u can prove the 1 year seperation and a copy of the marriage certificate is with you. you need to petition the court. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 5:44am On Aug 19, 2014 |
i1: Mr Gaby pls call 08093779782. I will give u tips. Thanks so very much. Will definitely call you up. Do I need to prove the seperation in paper work form or how? |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 6:04am On Aug 19, 2014 |
@i1 my email addy is ...can't access the message you sent on nl. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by ShirelleBaby: 9:18am On Aug 19, 2014 |
If only u and ur wife can sit and ask urselves truthfully---WHAT WENT WRONG?Gaby,I wish u all the best and I pray both of you don't go extreme for ur different desires! |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by MadCow1: 9:24am On Aug 19, 2014 |
Dear OP.. In order to get a divorce, you need to establish grounds for the divorce like; 1. Impotence 2. Infidelity 3. Physical and Mental abuse 4. The marriage has never been consumated. To begin the proceedings, get your certificate and go to the High court in your state of abode. Marriage is a Federal institution and isnt limited by jurisdiction. When there, go to their admin office and get help. Note that the divorce would take some time as the judge would try to first resolve the issues before granting a divorce. You can also sue for 'maintainance' for both you and your child/ren if any. Make sure you get legal counsel from a good lawyer first. |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by chibwike(m): 9:32am On Aug 19, 2014 |
MadCow1: Dear OP..longest tym |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by MadCow1: 9:44am On Aug 19, 2014 |
chibwike: longest tym No mind these foolish mods.. Hw na? 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by chibwike(m): 9:53am On Aug 19, 2014 |
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Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by MadCow1: 10:05am On Aug 19, 2014 |
chibwike: am fine oh...u knw am ur number one fan...why did they ban you nw..and who is dat mod. No mind those Pharisees.. A Fan huh?! My guy, thanks alot o! I flatter pass flat tyre. Nice to meet you bro.. 1 Like |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by maborukoje(f): 10:41am On Aug 19, 2014 |
Ummm |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 6:46pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
@ madcow very insightful will do as you highlighted. @shirellebaby Many thanks |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by gaby(m): 6:49pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
maborukoje: Ummm @ maborukoje Why the hmm na..say your bit to save a brother fa |
Re: Help Needed On Divorce Procedure by khiaa(f): 10:31am On Jan 03, 2015 |
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