The following are 30 questions that can help you
achieve more clarity about your relationship—
what’s working, what’s not, and why. Please
keep in mind there are no wrong or right answers,
just insightful ones:

1. Do you completely trust each other?
2. Do you believe in soul mates, and if so, do you
believe you are each other’s?
3. When was the last time you said, “I love you?”
If it’s been a while, why?
4. Are you satisfied with the intimacy you share?
5. How often do you laugh together?
6. Do you feel you have made personal sacrifices
for your relationship, and have they been
reciprocated?
7. When you think of your partner, do you smile?
8. Do you feel threatened when others find your
partner attractive, and why?
9. Do you believe your partner is your biggest
advocate?
10. How do you feel about your partner’s views
on finances?
11. Do you enjoy spending time with your
partner’s relatives? Friends?
12. Do either of you dredge up resentments in
arguments, and why have you struggled to let
them go?
13. How do you feel when your partner arrives
home after being away?
14. Is your partner your best friend?
15. Is there a secret you are keeping that if your
partner knew, you feel you would lose them?
16. Do you feel that your partner accepts you?
17. When did you realize you had fallen in love,
and how do you feel when you think about it?
18. Have you seen each other at your best and
worst?
19. Would you ever consider having an affair?
Why? Why not?
20. Are you excited about your future together?
21. Do you feel your relationship is a true
partnership?
22. When was your last romantic outing?
23. Does it bother you if your partner has friends
of the opposite sex, and why?
24. Do you accept each other’s belief systems?
25. When was the last time you talked about your
future together, and were you on the same page?
26. Do you feel as if you can communicate
without saying a word?
27. What is your happiest memory of your time
together? Your worst? Are there more happy
memories than unhappy ones?
28. What is a relationship deal breaker for you,
and have you overlooked one in this relationship?
29. How do you feel about the last, in-depth
conversation you and your partner had?
30. Do you show your love for each other often,
and if not, why?

If you are seeking clarity about your relationship,
the best source of insight is from within. You just
need to be unafraid to ask for the answers you
seek. Then trust those answers and yourself.
Wishing you much love and success!