Women pull doubles in an effort to rise in their career and also have a successful marriage. It is easier for a married man to become the president of his company than a woman. The few women that made it on top mostly are in the political fields. while age is threatening a woman's reproductive ability, her eggs are depleting every month and she still needs to put in all her efforts in her career in order to break the glass ceiling. In some careers like modeling or acting, child bearing may crash your career or may not because of body changes. It's most difficult for women in corporate America because of the incessant maternity leaves and all that.

Ladies:

In a competitive world where some women are ready to give up everything including child bearing to have a successful career. what is your take as a woman if your husband threatens divorce if you don't slow down on the career thing and make babies? Will you shun him and the marriage and focus on your career or will you risk your career and listen to him bearing in mind that he may step or die after you jeopardize your career and make babies for him?. I know you can still do both simultaneously but your chances usually reduce to 10% when you try multitasking.


Guys,
Will you give her a chance to build her career if child bearing will stand in her way until she's about 38-40 or will you demand she make the babies and talk about career later?. What advise will you give your sister as a man in similar predicament?

PepERSprAY:

Guys,
Will you give her a chance to build her career if child bearing will stand in her way until she's about 38-40 or will you demand she make the babies and talk about career later?. What advise will you give your sister as a man in similar predicament?

Women should make hay while the sun is up. . . .
Career and bullshit shoulda been taken care of before marriage.

~Sauron~:

Women should make hay while the sun is up. . . .
Career and bullshit shoulda been taken care of before marriage.

Why do you have issues or should i say why are against married women with career /working?

Women should make hay while the sun is up. . . .
Career and bullshit shoulda been taken care of before marriage.

Did you rise to the top of your career before marriage?

Why do you have issues or should i say why are against married women with career /working?

Inferiority complex. He's tired of women kicking his butt.

tope2000:

Why do you have issues or should i say why are against married women with career /working?

What about the kids??
Who is gon' take care of the kids while she's building her career?? What career if i may even ask?
I expect ma wifey to stay at home and take care of ma kids. . . . .
Funmi is suggesting i wait till she's 40 before making babies so i can make kids like her(down syndrome).

PepERSprAY:

Did you rise to the top of your career before marriage?

Yes. . . . . .
I am at the zenith of ma career now and i ain't even married yet.

What about the kids??

Hand break you?

Who is gon' take care of the kids while she's building her career?? What career if i may even ask?

Are they not your kids you lazy man?

I expect ma wifey to stay at home and take care of ma kids. . . . .
Funmi is suggesting i wait till she's 40 before making babies so i can make kids like her(down syndrome)

Forget that story bro. Women have made babies even at 60 and all this opata about down syndrome and autism is caused by something else and not an old egg.

My first priority wud always be my family,my kids.i wud never put work or career first,Never ! I wont wait for my hubby to give me conditions,it wont even get to that extent ,every good mother knows how to effectively balance the two,If you dont then dont just get married,stick to the damn career.

Yes. . . . . .
I am at the zenith of ma career now and i ain't even married yet.

Zenith and not married @42? When will you marry?

My first priority would always be my family,my kids.i would never put work or career first,Never ! I wont wait for my hubby to give me conditions,it wont even get to that extent Cool,every good mother knows how to effectively balance the two,If you don't then don't just get married,stick to the damn career.

Your career is the major financier off your independence and the husband you are hoping on may step and leave you with those kids at the dying minute. What will you do? Go out and start afresh with 4 kids trailing behind you?

~Sauron~:

What about the kids??
Who is gon' take care of the kids while she's building her career?? What career if i may even ask?
I expect ma wifey to stay at home and take care of ma kids. . . . .
Funmi is suggesting i wait till she's 40 before making babies so i can make kids like her(down syndrome).

Honestly i dont mind putting my career aside to raise my family but my husband as to be ready to take care of all my needs without any argument

ifyalways:

My first priority would always be my family,my kids.i would never put work or career first,Never ! I wont wait for my hubby to give me conditions,it wont even get to that extent  ,every good mother knows how to effectively balance the two,If you don't then don't just get married,stick to the damn career.  

I have always known you to be a sensible woman. . . .
Honestly, i think u need to speak to this DeepZone. . . . . . She is so mentally screwed her IQ functions on a single digit.
How can any woman even put his career before her family? Maybe DeepZone wants to take her ceritificates to HELL.

PepERSprAY:

Zenith and not married @42? When will you marry?

U think everyone is like you??
I am just a young man doing old man's schitzo. . . .

tope2000:

Honestly i don't mind putting my career aside to raise my family but my husband as to be ready to take care of all my needs without any argument

All that would be taken care of. . . . . .That is why i am working in the first place. . .
I don't have to work IF all i have to do is to take care of maself. . . .There's enuff in the coffers to take me to ma grave at 70!!!
Men are working now so they can provide for wife n kids and stash enough away to guarantee ma kids stay in the top echelon for LIFE.

Maybe DeepZone wants to take her ceritificates to HELL.

Roflmaopimp

All that would be taken care of. . . . . .That is why i am working in the first place. . .
I don't have to work IF all i have to do is to take care of maself. . . .There's enough in the coffers to take me to ma grave at 70!!!
Men are working now so they can provide for wife n kids and stash enough away to guarantee ma kids stay in the top echelon for LIFE.

What guarantee will your wife have that will enable her give up her career on the premise that you'll always be there?. Statistics has shown that such an arrangement is a recipe for cheating on the man's side. What can she do?. Hannibus, you are supporting this move because it will give freedom to do whatever you want with those Peckham floozies.

PepERSprAY:

Your career is the major financier off your independence and the husband you are hoping on may step and leave you with those kids at the dying minute. What will you do? Go out and start afresh with 4 kids trailing behind you?

deepzone i said,every lady entering into marriage should know before hand how to effectively manage the two VIP biz.
Our mothers were working women Yet they had time for us,they cooked soup,pound foo-foo and still wore their suits to work the next day.If you think your career comes first,don't get married,If you think you family can survive without your having to work,stay at home and but if you are wise,devise a way to manage the two.
look am bored,not at all game for your arguments,sho gbo?

deepzone i said,every lady entering into marriage should know before hand how to effectively manage the two VIP biz.
Our mothers were working women Yet they had time for us,they cooked soup,pound foo-foo and still wore their suits to work the next day.If you think your career comes first,don't get married,If you think you family can survive without your having to work,stay at home and but if you are wise,devise a way to manage the two.
look am bored,not at all game for your arguments,sho gbo?

How many of our mothers that simultaneously managed career and family are vice presidents or presidents of a cooperation?. How many sarah palin's do we have out there?. Go to wall street and count the number of high profile women there and tell me how many of them managed career and family together. Do you think Oprah would have been that successful if she was married?

PepERSprAY:

What guarantee will your wife have that will enable her give up her career on the premise that you'll always be there?. Statistics has shown that such an arrangement is a recipe for cheating on the man's side. What can she do?. Hannibus, you are supporting this move because it will give freedom to do whatever you want with those Peckham floozies.

Thatz not the point.
Whether she is building a career or not. . . . . .I am the head of the house and will provide everything for my wife and kids.
A man looking up to a woman to add something for the bills ain't a man. . . . .He is a Arrow.

Thatz not the point.
Whether she is building a career or not. . . . . .I am the head of the house and will provide everything for my wife and kids.
A man looking up to a woman to add something for the bills ain't a man. . . . .He is a Arrow.

What of a man that lost his job or a man that is disabled during the marriage? Will he relinquish his headship to his working wife?

~Sauron~:

All that would be taken care of. . . . . .That is why i am working in the first place. . .
I don't have to work IF all i have to do is to take care of maself. . . .There's enough in the coffers to take me to ma grave at 70!!!
Men are working now so they can provide for wife n kids and stash enough away to guarantee ma kids stay in the top echelon for LIFE.

i guess im in 4 a treat then

PepERSprAY:

What of a man that lost his job or a man that is disabled during the marriage? Will he relinquish his headship to his working wife?

Insurance would take care of any accident.

tope2000:

i guess I'm in 4 a treat then

Nah. . . . . .Lemme front!!

Insurance would take care of any accident.

Like AIG?

PepERSprAY:

Like AIG?

Arrow!!!

Arrow!!!

That's what you do whenever a woman is on top of your game. Oniranu

PepERSprAY:

That's what you do whenever a woman is on top of your game. Oniranu

DeepZone. . . .I think we need to call a TRUCE.
I am so tired of this constant bickering n bullshit. . . . .
So what do u say?

i'd say about phocking time

tope2000:

i'd say about phocking time

I hope u haven't forgotten "our date".
Countdown starts now. . . . 36 hrs to see, touch n feel the TWIN TOWERS.

DeepZone. . . .I think we need to call a TRUCE.
I am so tired of this constant bickering n bullshit. . . . .
So what do u say?

Is this a trap or what? You want your 10K back through wayo?

~Sauron~:

I hope u haven't forgotten "our date".
Countdown starts now. . . . 36 hrs to see, touch n feel the TWIN TOWERS.

Lol . . . . .
Feel n touch when did we make that agreement

PepERSprAY:

Is this a trap or what? You want your 10K back through wayo?

DeepZone, i am serious.
People actually think we are ENEMIES and they are starting to really gimme the amp these days.
Forget about the $10k or your farting butt. . . . .THIS IS FOR REAL.

tope2000:

Lol . . . . .
Feel n touch when did we make that agreement

We didn't??

This the area of confusion for most women. When to let go of one and make room for the other.

What a DILEMMA.

~Sauron~:

We didn't??

Nope not unless i was in trance then
before there can touching, we have walk down the aisle first