My people, please I just need your candid suggestions and and Advice.

A woman I plan settling down with had an affair with a married Esq. Marrie man of which she never knew he was married. A relationship that started from being a friendly n caring neighbour to a strong bondage. Now she knew what has happened and had confronted this man several times to undo what he did (since she had lost chances of getting married on several occassions) but this man would rather subject her to emotional difficulties since he now control her happiness.
"All the man has done all these years is to take me to a Hotel and make love to me of which I don't feel anything and he doesn't care" she said.
And this is what has been going on since 5years now.
I gave her hope that something will be done to remedy the situation but to be since I really don't know what steps to take yet as it is a tromatising situation.

Please I need your candid and matured advice.
God bless you.

So the man is controlling her happiness? Why not steal the remote control he uses.

Please peeps this is not a comedy thread, if you can't think, don't talk, don't post.
This thread is for people who believe in being or bringing solution to problems.

Thank you.

Its beyond you mr man. Run now while you can or regret later. And if you've co-fvcked this lady, make sure you do HIV test. What kind of unholy union is that. I dont believe her story. She's just being smart and you are her mugu. She should get rid of that guy herself if she's serious about you.
That her spell story is meant for only high class IDIOTs to believe. Unless you are jobless and hope to feed off her. Get rid of her now!

McWhillion: So the man is controlling her happiness? Why not steal the remote control he uses.

Is It Not Possible For You To Help Her Relocate To Another Location Far Away From The Reach Of That Man?@ Op,if U Wana Settle With Her Please Ensure U Do All Necessary Medical Screening.Above All Play Safe!

is he controlling her remotely or directly from a known terminal?

Either way use a password breaker to gain access and reconfigure

ok

She knows she is under a spell and she is still going to the hotel with him?

Its either you are being deceived to believing a lie or you have no idea how charm works.

She is currently eating her cake and still having it.

Aisha1 abeg come and analyse this op for me with your investigative posts becos I am wondering why he should quote the lady about the hotel issue and not just tell us what she told him. Guy, the story sef get as e sound.

A person that is under a spell would not know or admit that (s)he is under a spell!
Your/her problem obviously lies inside of u! Look inwards and you would be surprised that You're the chief architect of your misfortunes!

Anyways, somethings can't be undone by praying only, you need to add fasting to your prayers! Fast n pray by yourself for yourself!! Don't contract it out to any man of God or any prayer house!

Thanks so much @archildao, Greenbobo n others

I want to ask this question to paint a picture.

What will make an obviously pretty young girl of 20yrs, date an ugly old man that is above 48yrs, not for money benefit as the charge n bale doesn't have it, not for comfort or contact since he stays in only a room apartment under rent, not for the fun of sex nor the pride of having a caring person. He doesn't communicate. She know she is ashamed of herslf and want to quit because everybody has come to know about it yet, she can't help the tought of him.
The can boldly tell her I own your life I own your body.

All I needed her is advice and suggestions, tnx.

Dmouthed: Thanks so much @archildao, Greenbobo n others

I want to ask this question to paint a picture.

What will make an obviously pretty young girl of 20yrs, date an ugly old man that is above 48yrs, not for money benefit as the charge n bale doesn't have it, not for comfort or contact since he stays in only a room apartment under rent, not for the fun of sex nor the pride of having a caring person. He doesn't communicate. She know she is ashamed of herslf and want to quit because everybody has come to know about it yet, she can't help the tought of him.
The can boldly tell her I own your life I own your body.

All I needed her is advice and suggestions, tnx.

In As Much As I Dnt Like Blame Games,i Still Suggest You Help Her Relocate And Probably Change Her Phone Line To Cut All Ties With The Said Man.If U Suspect The Man Could Be Diabolical,u Could Help Her Seek Spiritual Help If U Are Strong Enough.