If you meet and fall in love with a man, then getting to know him, u realise he is 20yrs older though he looks far younger than his age(like 10yrs younger), divorced with 2 children from two women. Would you go ahead dating or even marry him?

It depends, but personally i cant do that

Dont think there is anything wrong with dat? Really i dont

no

hibans:

It depends, but personally i can't do that

when u say it depends, what circumstances r u talking about?(if u don't mind sharing)

As for me, it dont depend on nothing!!!!! i will not. definately not!!!!


say what?!!!! nuh-huh!!!

Hell- NO!!!
20 years!!

nope i can't even do ten talkless of 20
and he got kids hell to the no

i probably cant and wont
but some like them Old way way older
but 20 years paaa damn , i think not

I can't do that ,with kids!what is my hope?i can never do that,I still have alot to do on this planet.

No i can't and i won't. 20 years is just way too much talkless of him having kids and wives!!! he's an ancient story.

without the wives and children YES, age is dos not matter as long as he is older but with wives and children NO

@ topic

think about it, can you date father?

Yes. I can

that one go hard oh!

i can do 7 year but i can't do 20year. your man have to be more mature than you but not something else

Should probably be broken into 2 diffrent questions.

1. Can you date/get together with a guy 20 years older? I really do not see any big deal here. This happens on a regular basis.

2. Can you marry a guy 20 years older? Depending on the actual age, this can be an issue. Since we are talking about long term here. 40/20 is different from 50/30 etc. In the olden days there use to be a lot of disparity between the ages, but things have changed now. If I were female in my 20's I sure would not want to marry someone in his 40's

There is nothing wrong in it - but the main thing such must have to cope with is VALUE / NEED DIFFERENCE whcih is once vital termial point to make or break any relationship,